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BBW - 6/3/2006 2:07:34 AM

enigmabrat

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Can I ask what is the problem Doms have with BBW's
why is it that every Master that considers me offers me his consideration with the stipulation of loseing waight
if you dont like what you see why bother, why enter a relationship when there is something you want to change right away??

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:25:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

Can I ask what is the problem Doms have with BBW's
why is it that every Master that considers me offers me his consideration with the stipulation of loseing waight
if you dont like what you see why bother, why enter a relationship when there is something you want to change right away??

It has nothing to do with Masters/Doms or S/M-B/D. It has to do with the simple fact that some people have preferances, realistic or not. Some others may call those preferances shallow but whatever. I would hope that you will one day (soon) find the right person to share your life with. Until then keep one thing in mind. YOU hold all the cards. Don't settle for second best. "His consideration" should be reversed to YOUR consideration. You select whom you will offer yourself up to. If some asshole has a weight standard, pass him by. My experience is that the majority of men that have a weight standard are overweight themselves, or have a little penis, or no income, or some sort of complex issues that you don't want to be involved with anyway. Its a double standard that you don't have to play along with. Its not a question of if you are good enough for them, its a question of if they are good enough for you. Please trust me on this. If its not "right" you have lost nothing and are far better off waiting until the right one comes along. Now I better shush before one of my main "fans" shows up and accuses me of being nice to subs again, lol.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:32:28 AM

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::gigggles:: thank you very much, and your secret is safe with me. If anyone asks your a big meany!!

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:35:41 AM

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Listen to Ms MacComb. Lord, there have been so many discussions lately here on subs and weight loss. If you like the way you look and are happy with yourself, that's what counts.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:41:05 AM

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I am happy but im also lose waight but thats for me and my health NOT for any Dom

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:41:47 AM

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::gigggles:: thank you very much, and your secret is safe with me. If anyone asks your a big meany!!

Oh I AM mean. Mean to bullies and rude people. I also am mean to the owners of bare bottoms over my lap.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:43:17 AM

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:-P
If you say so Ma'am Ill take your word for ir!!

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 2:53:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
It has to do with the simple fact that some people have preferances, realistic or not. Some others may call those preferances shallow but whatever. I would hope that you will one day (soon) find the right person to share your life with. Until then keep one thing in mind. YOU hold all the cards. Don't settle for second best. "His consideration" should be reversed to YOUR consideration. You select whom you will offer yourself up to. If some asshole has a weight standard, pass him by. My experience is that the majority of men that have a weight standard are overweight themselves, or have a little penis, or no income, or some sort of complex issues that you don't want to be involved with anyway. Its a double standard that you don't have to play along with. Its not a question of if you are good enough for them, its a question of if they are good enough for you.

Actually this type of sub defense is very helpful to all of us. M

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 3:02:56 AM

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Actually this type of sub defense is very helpful to all of us. M

True. But us Dommes have that "F-you" attitude that many subs don't feel at liberty to use, or don't have. They should. Being an empowered woman is always good. Even, or especially, for those that are subs that then wish to turn that power over to someone else. Hopefully they have the confidence to relinquish it to someone worthy.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 4:35:21 AM

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hehe

I have a f- you attitude at times

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 4:37:50 AM

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There are Many men out there who prefer bigger women, they just havent found you yet.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:04:38 AM

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When i met Thorns i was heavier than i am now. He loved me then, He loves me now. He also knows that i wanted to loose weight, He supports that because He knows it's something that i want for myself. Personally speaking, i do believe you have to want to do it for yourself first, to me, it does not mean anything to "just" do it for anyone else.
I will state though, if Thorns said He was going to put me on a plan of eating differently, excercising and anything else He deemed that "He" wanted.........it would be done. I am His property, He will do with His property as He see's fit...i knew that when i entered into this relationship.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:09:09 AM

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I dont operate like that, I am a human a sub not property while my heart can be owned I will always have free will and will always follow my heart. I wont be treated like a thing!

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:19:41 AM

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I'm overweight and my sub loves me without question. In fact when way back when we were just in the talking stage I told him straight up I look like Buddah

It didnt bother him, he's one guy who looks aren't important its the person beneath that he loves. Though with that said..he does love my butt.

He's a butt man and I'm a butt woman and his is fine..../drools

Find someone who will love you for you, you can't be anybody else.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:22:14 AM

enigmabrat

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That is so much easier said then done

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:23:37 AM

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I understand your position enigmabrat, that is what is awesome about life, each person i different. You happen to choose one way, i chose another. There is no right/wrong answer.

Happy Saturday!

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:25:05 AM

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heh I wasnt putting down your way of life I was simply saying that is not me I didnt mean to sound like I was saying you were wrong for the way you submit

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:32:52 AM

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Be patient, dear. He will find you.

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 6:39:55 AM

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my paciaents is running thin very very very thin!!!

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RE: BBW - 6/3/2006 7:01:39 AM

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"Can I ask what is the problem Doms have with BBW's
why is it that every Master that considers me offers me his consideration with the stipulation of loseing weight "

Who are these Dom's So I can Beat the living Shit out of them??? I am a BHM and I LOVE and ADORE BBW!!!!

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