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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 3:03:48 AM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: texan4real

Having been here for a while, I thought it might be helpful for submissives here to understand how at least one Master (Me) obtains first impressions of the subs and slaves who express interest in serving -- at least impressions that you may wish to avoid making,

Well, thanks.  I was wondering because I've never had any darned experience - you know with making a first impression (which is what you just did).  Nor have I ever served anyone.  Ever.  Nor have I considered how my behavior and expressions have been perceived. 

1. You would be surprised how many say they want money to relocate. That's not terrible, especially if they're in the country where I am (i.e., the US). But I've had them requesting money to fly them from the UK, Malta, Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, and many other countries. I think Masters would be well advised to follow the advice of collarme not to send money to anyone.

Now, if you could give me a ticket to UK, Russia, Nmibia, I'd be grateful.  Don't really want to relocate, but I'd sure love to visit.  I've been to Malta - lovely place btw with a fascinating history.  I have a book around here somewhere that is set in Malta.  I've been meaning to read it.  Where did I put that?  But I digress. 

I do my best to budget for travel, but sadly I too have a limit.  Ah well.  I think I'll only make it to Thailand and Hong Kong this year.  Maybe Cambodia if I get a couple of extra gigs... *crossing my fingers!*  (By the way, my former actually did pay for the ticket and fly me to Europe... I didn't mind.  While we didn't work out in the end, ah what a grand time we had.). 

By the way, Texas, you realize of course that any number of S-types are also requested to send money to the so-called D-types.   

2. I'm not an English language Nazi, but an unfortunate number of those contacting Me don't express themselves in anything that sounds remotely like high school level English. Spelling is something else. I think that, as a matter of respect, subs and slaves should at least try to show their best side in all respects.

"Me" is not capitalized in English.  FYI. 

3.You might be surprised as well that it is quite obvious that many individuals copy and paste from other profiles and don't even try to change a word. When a Master has read a lot of profiles, He begins to recognize the copies.

Shut the front door.  You might be surprised how well an S-type recognizes copies as well. 

4. Perhaps most importantly, if you promise a Master that you will send Him an email or picture right away, do it. A number of subs and slaves will waste our time chatting here or on another service and promise to send something to the Master right away, and it never shows up. That either shows the sub/slave is not real, or she doesn't respect the Master enough to live up to her promise.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.  And by the way, that doesn't speak to a person's side of the kneel, their respect for a *koff* "Master".  It speaks to the content of their character.  I personally consider it excellent information to have right away... ah, you aren't interested.  Cool.  Next!  

OK, there will be detractors, I'm sure. But this is an honest attempt to be helpful.

Why do you think we need help?  Have you been around the boards so long that you've noticed we are making those kinds of foolish mistakes?  Because if so, you may want to brush up on your reading skills.  Also, you seem to have forgotten that you are dealing with people.  None of us owes you jack.  You want someone to act all "oh you are so wonderful", then you need to be that.  From what I have seen in your post, you are condescending.  Was that your intention in posting?  To tell all the rest of us how foolish and ignorant you think we are?  Frankly, it doesn't bode well for your chances.  But some gals like fellows who think they are stupid.  I'm just not one of them. 

Good luck,
sunshine 




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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 3:30:48 AM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		Dude, every single thing you listed is related to scammers, not submissives as far as a group thing. You're wasting your time even trying to compare the two. You'd do well to figure out that all of those little things you listed are red flags for a scammer and generally have nothing to do with submissives. The profiles you are talking about aren't women looking for a partner. I'm genuinely surprised that you call yourself a Master, seems like you should have a better grasp of reality here and what profiles are what.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 4:11:10 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		I wasn't aware any of us asked for advice on how to meet your expectations. Or was the assumption simply made we should all be so lucky to live up to your standards and wants?

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:00:14 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:01:50 AM   
sunshinemiss


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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:22:29 AM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama
My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.


I wanted an applauding smiley but didn't see one.

Oh, and my first impression of the op is less than positive. Referring to the death of his former sub from cancer in terms that make it seem like a failure on her part is just dreadful.


< Message edited by DesFIP -- 3/8/2012 7:40:51 AM >

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:37:21 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.


This.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:45:26 AM   
kalikshama


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Oh, and my first impression of the op is less than positive. Referring to the death of his former sub from cancer in terms that make it seem like a failure on her part is just dreadful.


OP - I recommend you not sandwich your sub who died from cancer between the ones who broke your rules and did not match your privacy requirements.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:53:30 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

I think that, as a matter of respect, subs and slaves should at least try to show their best side in all respects.
oh but we do...while typing on our knees.

A sub/slave that is the real thing will present themselves as who and what they are. If that presentation doesn't meet your exceptions as their "best side", i suggest you move on.

In other words...no one is going to kiss the behind of someone who slaps a "Master" label on his ass.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 7:56:09 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: texan4real

Having been here for a while, I thought it might be helpful for submissives here to understand how at least one Master (Me) obtains first impressions of the subs and slaves who express interest in serving -- at least impressions that you may wish to avoid making,

1. You would be surprised how many say they want money to relocate. That's not terrible, especially if they're in the country where I am (i.e., the US). But I've had them requesting money to fly them from the UK, Malta, Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, and many other countries. I think Masters would be well advised to follow the advice of collarme not to send money to anyone.
2. I'm not an English language Nazi, but an unfortunate number of those contacting Me don't express themselves in anything that sounds remotely like high school level English. Spelling is something else. I think that, as a matter of respect, subs and slaves should at least try to show their best side in all respects.
3.You might be surprised as well that it is quite obvious that many individuals copy and paste from other profiles and don't even try to change a word. When a Master has read a lot of profiles, He begins to recognize the copies.
4. Perhaps most importantly, if you promise a Master that you will send Him an email or picture right away, do it. A number of subs and slaves will waste our time chatting here or on another service and promise to send something to the Master right away, and it never shows up. That either shows the sub/slave is not real, or she doesn't respect the Master enough to live up to her promise.

OK, there will be detractors, I'm sure. But this is an honest attempt to be helpful.


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

"Masters" do not whine in public. It is very undomlike to whine about something so silly. Over 90% of those you meet online are not who or what they say they are. It's about time you learned that and learned to deal with it. Collarme has give you block and delete features. Learn to use them.



No no no. A million times no.
Real Twue Masters-they deal with these people the same way Jay and Silent Bob dealt with their critics at the end of Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back-they go door to door and kick asses!

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 8:08:36 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 8:23:24 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.



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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 8:33:19 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		Add my +1 to kalikshama's column, please.

Someone a while ago sent a nice little message to my inbox (after I was ... "targeted" by some weirdo guy down in the Admit thread), that simply asked why those who often seek the most deserve it the least. =p I thought that was a fitting description of most of the self-proclaimed Ms on collarme. =p

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 9:13:37 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly



In other words...no one is going to kiss the behind of someone who slaps a "Master" label on his ass.


It's little gems like this which make me miss you Holly

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 9:51:39 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

In other words...no one is going to kiss the behind of someone who slaps a "Master" label on his ass.


Mine is on my forehead, holly. In other words, kneel for me.

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 10:25:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.

What about grouchy, snarky old Doms?

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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 10:26:29 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

In other words...no one is going to kiss the behind of someone who slaps a "Master" label on his ass.


Mine is on my forehead, holly. In other words, kneel for me.
Steven...at my age the knees are the first to go.


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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 10:27:39 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly



In other words...no one is going to kiss the behind of someone who slaps a "Master" label on his ass.


It's little gems like this which make me miss you Holly



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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 10:29:26 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.

What about grouchy, snarky old Doms?
DarkSteven knows we luv him, Hilly. No worries


*ducks, runs, trips*


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RE: First Impressions of Masters Here - 3/8/2012 10:31:44 AM   
Hillwilliam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My first impression of masters here is that most are not deserving of the title.

What about grouchy, snarky old Doms?
DarkSteven knows we luv him, Hilly. No worries


*ducks, runs, trips*


*Gets out suture kit with an ebil grin*

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