DelightMachine -> RE: For those still needing a reason to hate this SOB... (6/8/2006 6:54:11 PM)
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ORIGINAL: caitlyn If you are a straight person, what will you lose or miss out on, if we gave gay unions equal rights under the law? I'm going to play devil's advocate here, because I'm not sure about the issue, but it would be good to get the other side stated. I think these are the reasons I've heard that society would be hurt by gay marriage: 1. Society would lose out because fewer children would have the benefit of both a mother and a father in their homes. Personally, I'm not sure how much of a bad thing that is, but I'm sure it's a bad thing. There is no way that adoptions, for instance, are not going to be just as available to gay couples as they are to straight couples if gay marriage is recognized by the state. 2. To the extent that being in a loving, sexual relationship with a person of the same sex is a choice and not an innate need, marriage for gays would tend to promote homosexuality. It could be countered that homosexuality is never a choice, but I can't believe that. I think it's definitely a choice for some people, not that I can identify them. The next step in this particular argument would be to argue that more homosexuality would harm society in various ways. (For instance, men having sex with a lot of other men can spread sexually transmitted diseases.) 3. Once you allow gay marriage, it becomes more likely that, as people have a more expansive view of marriage, polygamy and polyandry will become more widespread and legal. If you think that's a bad thing, it's a reason to oppose gay marriage. The cover story of this week's Weekly Standard (www.weeklystandard.com) has an article about the bad effects of polygamy, by the way (I haven't read it). 4. If you believe that God does not want gays to have sex, then the effect of a gay marriage law is to move society further away from God. It's been a while since I've thought of the issue, and I haven't followed the current debate. I'm sure there are other major arguments out there that I could look up if I wasn't tired. I think all of these arguments have to be weighed against the idea that it's just decent to recognize marriage for gay people as well as the beneficial social effects of men staying in more stable relationships. Edited to add: I guess it was last week's Weekly Standard that had the cover story. Here's a direct link: http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/012/266jhfgd.asp
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