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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/13/2012 4:04:25 PM)
I would recommend going to Fetlife. They have some groups there called WHACK and Skagit Social Alternatives that are really good groups. They tell about the munches in this area, granted a little north of where you are, but they are good groups. There are also groups & munches further south and closer to your local area. Fet has a great search function for Events, better than CM does. The membership is 100% free, just like on CM. From another Washingtonian, good luck in your search. NBMG

Submexmale -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/15/2012 4:47:37 PM)
Any body in the El paso tx area? lim looking for dominant woman, iam very submissive

MzWhipplash -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/19/2012 8:14:02 PM)
Join http://www.fetlife.com A free discussion forum. Search the groups section for newcomers and join for support. Next select "Events" then "Events" near you. Munches are free if you don't buy a drink..... Also be prepared to write alot of poetry as gifts if you do not wish to spend anything Smiles

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/19/2012 9:14:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wraithkelso I'm just wondering why I seem to be having trouble finding a mistress that is near me and under 30 years old that isn't asking for my cash. I get that some dom girls are all about the money, but I would think some of them are interested in the sexual side as opposed to the financial side. Also, are there any young (30 or younger) dom women in the seattle area that would be interested in meeting with me and just talking about the lifestyle and showing me some of the ropes? Thanks!! #1.....There are VERY few girls in Seattle (I live here) that are interested in you....a sub male (unless you're willing to pay)....allow me to do the math for you....there are EXACTLY 19 kabillion male subs to every 7 female Dommes. (And by the way.....the numbers go backwards by 16 to 1 for every chic who wants you to move in with her) #2.....You're very young and those that are more interested in "lifestyle" are my age. (Older, let's just say). #3.....You're too damn young to know what you actually want, ergo....you're going to pay. #4.....Get a job that allows you to pay. (Trust me....until you're in your mid 40's....it's a wise investment....in every possible scenario). (Sorry....dem's da facts).

LadyConstanze -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/19/2012 9:49:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wraithkelso just saying: what little money I do make goes straight to the gas tank and to food, hence why I can't afford a membership at a place like the CSPC. Now maybe part of the issue for me is that me (and many in my generation) are used to instant gratification thanks to the internet (searching wikipedia vs looking in an encyclopedia) Plus, I get extremely shy around girls if I want to have any kind of relationship other then basic friendship with them. Ask yourself if you would want to date you, in case you'd be a hot young chick... If the answer is no, then write down why not and go and change something about it. If the answer is yes, think again....

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/19/2012 10:13:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: wraithkelso just saying: what little money I do make goes straight to the gas tank and to food, hence why I can't afford a membership at a place like the CSPC. Now maybe part of the issue for me is that me (and many in my generation) are used to instant gratification thanks to the internet (searching wikipedia vs looking in an encyclopedia) Plus, I get extremely shy around girls if I want to have any kind of relationship other then basic friendship with them. Ask yourself if you would want to date you, in case you'd be a hot young chick... If the answer is no, then write down why not and go and change something about it. If the answer is yes, think again.... That's really not fair. He's a guy. Can't win.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? (4/19/2012 10:40:43 PM)
Really? You mean he can't think what a girl in her 20's would like about a guy? A guy who's a bit short of money never bothered me, but if I would have to pay for every evening out, somebody who sits there and just wants a dominant gf, I wouldn't be very interested. He has to think what he can offer in a relationship, and I don't mean financially.

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