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Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 1:36:17 AM   
Skyy


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I recently had a scare- possibility of Testicular cancer. Well it's still a possibility, ultrasound hasn't been taken yet.

Anyway during the thing I was worried and I read about the consequences. One thing lead to another, and next thing you know I am reading about partial penis removal.

I have always disliked the length of mine, and having it shortened to 3" or even less is enticing... The headless look is interesting too but I'd definitely miss mine...oviously I'm not exactly hammering on the surgeon's door as it's quite a big deal...

I would like to know what everyone's opinion on the matter is.

Thank you.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 1:52:40 AM   
MalcolmNathaniel


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Status: offline 		My opinion is:

Get a second opinion.

Having a surgeon attack your wedding tackle without at least 3 or 4 DOZEN doctors all saying it's necessary is ridiculous.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 2:31:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		My recent pelvic ultrasound for a known issue picked up avascular necrosis in my femoral heads. My mom did some googling and is freaking out about it. Because of her over reaction, I am under reacting, and waiting to see what the specialist says Apr 3.

There's just too much info on the Internet - I'm waiting to see what my doctor says about me, and if I don't like what she has to say, will see a 2nd or 3rd doctor.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 5:26:54 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		I think you shouldn't play around with your junk just for asthetics, a peircing is one thing, cutting bits off your body is another. Unless there is a firm medical reason to do so (IE saving your life or improving your health) leave it alone.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 5:58:45 AM   
DomMeinCT


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Status: offline 		No surgeon treating you for penile cancer is going to fuss with any "cosmetic" surgery and give you a 2-fer (treat the cancer + reshape your penis) unless that shape changing is absolutely necessary to treat the cancer. No insurance company or Medicare will pay for that either - only what is medically necessary. So, unless you've got enough $ to afford that and can find a surgeon willing to perform that elective surgery, it's just a fantasy.

That said, I wish you the best with your health. If it is testicular cancer, know that it is highly treatable and survivable. You get big kudos for going and getting it looked at in the first place - many patients with this type of cancer wait too long hoping it will go away.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 11:42:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Skyy

Hello all,
I recently had a scare- possibility of Testicular cancer. Well it's still a possibility, ultrasound hasn't been taken yet.

Anyway during the thing I was worried and I read about the consequences. One thing lead to another, and next thing you know I am reading about partial penis removal.

I have always disliked the length of mine, and having it shortened to 3" or even less is enticing... The headless look is interesting too but I'd definitely miss mine...oviously I'm not exactly hammering on the surgeon's door as it's quite a big deal...

I would like to know what everyone's opinion on the matter is.

Thank you.




IMO, it's you body, you should feel free to modify it in any way that suits you.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 11:45:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm in the do what you want camp, but you better make damn sure it's what you're going to want for the rest of your life. I have no great love for my penis, but I still wouldn't go out of my way to mess with it.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 12:06:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Skyy

Hello all,
I recently had a scare- possibility of Testicular cancer. Well it's still a possibility, ultrasound hasn't been taken yet.

Anyway during the thing I was worried and I read about the consequences. One thing lead to another, and next thing you know I am reading about partial penis removal.

I have always disliked the length of mine, and having it shortened to 3" or even less is enticing... The headless look is interesting too but I'd definitely miss mine...oviously I'm not exactly hammering on the surgeon's door as it's quite a big deal...

I would like to know what everyone's opinion on the matter is.

Thank you.


Really after all these years you can't accept yourself. You my friend have a much larger issues that need attention than the length of your cock.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 2:46:30 PM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Skyy

I have always disliked the length of mine, and having it shortened to 3" or even less is enticing...


The cynic in me thinks this is nothing more than a covert brag thread.

That or maturity is when you learn to accept you for being you.

Question is, who are you trying to fool - us or just you?

Focus.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 4:27:19 PM   
Skyy


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Status: offline 		@sailingbum- some would say we all have issues, eh?
@focus- no bragging, I assure you. I have nothing special in that department.


Thanks for your replies, guys.
Maybe I should clarify a bit. I'm just curious about this whole thing- I started reading about this because of the chance of cancer. Like I said, I'm in no hurry to get anything done.

It is, however appealing to me- through my years of public education, I got an earful of Asian jokes every day- mostly penis jokes. And like some here, now I do enjoy humiliation. I just wish I was very below average naturally- this is definitely not the surgeon's realm.

The person displaying his modified "wedding tackle" on the Internet had it ordered/done by his Master, so I came to the relevant community looking for thoughts and opinions.

I realize this is quite a bit more extreme than most other things practiced here, but I figured there should be not much issue talking about it here.

Again, thank you!

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/16/2012 4:36:27 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		An above average penis size.
A chopped off penis with a tube sticking out of the urethra.
Decisions decisions.....

I hope you get favorable test results.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 1:28:26 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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Fantasize all you like. Nothing in the world wrong with that. But I can assure you once something's been altered it will never be the same. There may be chronic pain, urinary dysfunction, uncomfortable scar tissue, severe nerve and tissue damage. Nothing sexy about it. Surgery to save your life is one thing. Voluntarily mutilating yourself is quite another and you won't know all the ill effects until it's too late.

Wishing you a clean bill of health.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 3:20:58 AM   
SexyThoughts


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Status: offline 		Find out his length before you criticize. Womens vagina's vary in length as much as mens penises do. And thumping your entire body weight into a cervix is the closest in pain you'll get to kicking a women in the testicles.

Being unsexy also shrinks the vag, so check that out, before you blame the penis for being long.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 7:18:31 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Pardon me, but can you kindly point me to the criticism MistressDarkArt displayed?
I can't seem to find it with all the concern and best wishes in the way.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 10:54:48 AM   
Skyy


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Status: offline 		@mistressdarkart- thanks for the wishes, and it definitely doesn't sound very appealing when you put it like that! I think I'll ask those people what kind of side effects they've experienced, out of curiosity.

@sexythoughts- I think you may have misread or skipped over a few things

For you dominants out there- what size do you prefer your submissives or slaves? I know that in society and even the animal kingdom it plays a role.

As it stands, my penis is purely cosmetic anyway. I don't plan on using it- I just wish I was born with an exceptionally small one. Maybe I'd be very unhappy, if I was.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 10:59:36 AM   
hellionsLight


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel

My opinion is:

Get a second opinion.

Having a surgeon attack your wedding tackle without at least 3 or 4 DOZEN doctors all saying it's necessary is ridiculous.



Why not this?

Also... I have no idea. I'm a female. Poor penis.

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 11:09:50 AM   
Skyy


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Status: offline 		I was just thinking, if transplants were feasible perhaps I could trade with someone who does have a very small penis

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 11:17:43 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Skyy
As it stands, my penis is purely cosmetic anyway. I don't plan on using it-

For someone who has no interest in using it, you sure seem to be spending alot
of time discussing it. Surely, there is much more to you than what lies behind that zipper?

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/17/2012 11:35:13 AM   
Skyy


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Status: offline 		I'm sure there is, this is just my latest fixation

A psychologist would be better equipped to explain me than...well, me

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RE: Genital modification? - 3/18/2012 12:25:59 AM   
antipode


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