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The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:06:39 PM

steve95476

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I've met some great people through CM, real, intelligent, caring, and I'm thankful for it.

But a strange thing happened today: I get a post from a Domina in the East Bay saying, "I'll bet you only collect pen pals. . ." I wrote her back immediately saying, "Well, that's not really true Im also insterested in meeting people, and by the way, I admire your profile and honesty." The post was deleted unread. Sent her another short note which was deleted unread.

As someone fairly new here, I have to ask, does this happen often? Some kind of flaming?

Strange.

steve

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:08:18 PM

ShaharThorne

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Just a kid pretending to be a Domme...

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:15:59 PM

DomMeinCT

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Chalk it up to someone trying to bait you into an argument and/or they're being a jerk.

She probably did read at least the first part of your message, despite you seeing "deleted unread". A recipient can mouse over the messages in their inbox and read a preview of a message.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:17:08 PM

Killerangel

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Can't say I've heard that one before or that I understand the motivation behind it- seems odd. People do things that are gratifying to themselves, it's not always understandable what's going on to an outsider - maybe 'she' wanted to stir the pot and that was her entire goal. Who knows? She might have been stood up or someone disappeared on her, and this is her way of taking it out on someone else.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:24:48 PM

steve95476

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Thanks everyone. It kind of surprised me! I really appreciate your comments.

steve

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:28:37 PM

poise

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You're probably better off that she didn't continue engaging with you.
I enjoyed your profile, and hope you do have lots of pen pals,
as well as everything else you are searching for!

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 6:58:10 PM

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It's extremely common.

Shrug it off and move on.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 7:17:17 PM

Duskypearls

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What a pity you're so far away, Steve. If you ever make it to Colorado...

And sadly no, your unfortunate experience is more the norm than I care to admit. Take it all with a grain of salt, and NONE of it personally, as it surely won't be the last of its kind.

Better luck from here on in!

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 7:27:12 PM

LadyPact

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My only guess on this was incorrect. That is something that somebody might randomly mail you if you have tons of hot chicks as 'friends', that you've never met, yadda, yadda. I was glad to see that wasn't the case.

Just wanted to pipe up and give the reason why it can happen sometimes.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 7:37:32 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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OP, you have a nice profile. :)

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 8:20:47 PM

warlock1935

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I second that emotion. Best of luck to you, Dude.

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

You're probably better off that she didn't continue engaging with you.
I enjoyed your profile, and hope you do have lots of pen pals,
as well as everything else you are searching for!

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 8:31:21 PM

steve95476

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Thank you for your comments. A truly wonderful group.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 8:37:21 PM

SailingBum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: steve95476

Thank you for your comments. A truly wonderful group.

See not everyone thinks I'm a asshole. LoL

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 10:23:30 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Folks, I've heard Steve's music. It's good! Ask if he'll send you a link.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/16/2012 10:36:06 PM

GreedyTop

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I agree, MDA... some great tunes!!

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/17/2012 10:18:56 AM

hellionsLight

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It happens.
I just ignore that - I'm not that serious here anyway.
If I find a female partner, cool, if not, I just stay here for the...entertainment lol

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/18/2012 8:26:12 AM

nashsub4fun

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Something similar has happened to me as recently as last night. A Dom will notice i am online, contact me with some obscure comment/question as if i am supposed to accept their crap. If the email or comment is disrespectful to me, i simply delete it without being goaded into a response. If the email is not disrespectful, i respond with a "thank you, not interested".

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/18/2012 8:41:36 AM

JeffBC

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You have to remember it's the internet. You'd be amazed at some of the messages I've gotten. Some of them want to use you. Some of them want to be used by you. Some of them want to abuse you.

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/18/2012 2:39:28 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

You have to remember it's the internet. You'd be amazed at some of the messages I've gotten.
Some of them want to use you. Some of them want to be used by you. Some of them want to abuse you.

***shakin' her groove thang to da' music**

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RE: The Price of Admission - 3/18/2012 3:13:52 PM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
***shakin' her groove thang to da' music**

OK, so aside from how much I lament the fact that I can't see you shaking your groove thang, I now feel like I need to amend my original statements on learning BDSM.

I learned everything I need to know about owning a slave from Star Trek and Annie Lennox.

Actually, much as I hate to admit it, Gor factors into that also. Yup, pretty much 100% fantasy based here.

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