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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 9:29:11 AM   
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It is a reasonable request but there is a problem with it. Many do not understand, or believe, that there are women here not looking for money. For me it's just work and if I put on my profile a title that says Pro-24/7 many will only see the first part and skip over the rest. How would you list it in a way that lets people know what one does for a living but point out that is not all there is not them? Or that it is not what they are here looking for.


Sorry I lost you on the last two sentances, could you rephrase that please?

And to those re: trolling. Do you actually come into the conversation as part of the solution or part of the problem? I do ever so love it friends when you enter the conversation with nothing constructive to say :)

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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 1:15:51 PM   
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And to those re: trolling. Do you actually come into the conversation as part of the solution or part of the problem? I do ever so love it friends when you enter the conversation with nothing constructive to say :)

I think you are incorrect on the trolling issue.  The comment actually was constructive, just not in the for or against mindset that you are coming from.

I think it is important to remember that to a majority of members here, this is not actually a "problem".  As you point out yourself in another post, this really only effects 1) the professionals themselves and 2) those persons who are seeking or trying to avoid the professionals.  The rest of us are just really ambivalent about the whole thing.  It doesn't effect us, so we don't care.


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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 2:44:46 PM   
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And to those re: trolling. Do you actually come into the conversation as part of the solution or part of the problem? I do ever so love it friends when you enter the conversation with nothing constructive to say :)

I think you are incorrect on the trolling issue.  The comment actually was constructive, just not in the for or against mindset that you are coming from.

I think it is important to remember that to a majority of members here, this is not actually a "problem".  As you point out yourself in another post, this really only effects 1) the professionals themselves and 2) those persons who are seeking or trying to avoid the professionals.  The rest of us are just really ambivalent about the whole thing.  It doesn't effect us, so we don't care.



We all have different use cases :)

Just because something is of no benefit to you doesn't mean it doesn't help others :)


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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 3:39:13 PM   
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This comes up as a topic fairly regularly; in the years I've been here it's often pointed out that CM has limited choices and searching capabilities on the profile side.

Here's my take on why that is: When CM was envisioned and created, database software was not anywhere near as robust as it is now. Although adding to a drop down seems like a simple request, it's not. CM has millions of profiles. Even a minor change is extremely labor intensive.

This is a free site. It's my understanding the owners want to keep it free. Labor intensive is never going to be free.

You see where the conundrum is?



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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 4:18:42 PM   
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We all have different use cases :)

Just because something is of no benefit to you doesn't mean it doesn't help others :)




So we can only respond if we're being your variety of helpful, not if we have something to add to the discussion. Well, as LadyPact pointed out helpfulness is in the eye of the beholder. I don't think it's helpful to implement your idea, it doesn't suit me, so I guess I'll call you a troll now and get on with my day.

If someone doesn't think it's a problem not to have fin Doms self-identify then there is no solution needed. Why wouldn't their comments be pertinent to the discussion at hand?

Honestly OP, putting your own meanings to words is silly. According to the structure of the boards here people can respond where they like, within TOS, whenever they feel like it. Nowhere does anything say that they have to be 'helpful' (although they usually try to be) and as I pointed out, helpful varies depending on how you look at it.

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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 7:10:42 PM   
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Alright alright, let's play :)

Assuming an aggressive stance comes in (auto filter of profiles on key words - this will never happen but alas for you my friend we can pretend): I assume anyone anal enough to Explicitly mention that they're a financial dom and will label it on their profile, yet hates to be defined as a financial dom in Search Criteria, and goes to extreme lengths to hide this from a search algorithm.. Well hats off to them and their warped logic. Filters will always catch you in the end though, and you can H1D3 something as much as you want but 3\/3|\|7|_|4LLY it's meaning becomes lost in translation and then you never really got your point across in the first place, did you?


Actually, no, filters will not catch people in the end. Go look through profiles for the two examples i gave you....k9 and br33ding. Those two things are either illegal or not allowed to be mentioned here, and are in fact mentioned in many profiles and are perfectly understandable by those reading it. There is no meaning lost in translation there because someone disguised it so much that the intent is no longer legible. What you are offering on this point is theory, what i am saying is fact, and is happening right this second. If k9 was filtered out someone might simply ask if anyone else loved dogs. A filter isn't going to solve anything.

Why do you think the word "tribute" came about to begin with? Because it is against the TOS to ask others for money so way back in the dark ages some savvy person called it tribute and it's stuck. Do filters pick up on that? No. There will always be a way to circumvent a filter, I'm not sure why you are convinced in their power as you can see how much they don't work after being in place already. The meaning will come across, it already does.

Here's an exercise, I'll ask you for money without using the word money or tribute. "Ok you miserable worms, you need to understand that my time is valuable and you are going to have to make it worth my while to even deal with you. I detest all of you time-wasting creatures that can't get enough of me, ugh, I have a life you know. Get busy and prove to your Goddess that perhaps I might deign to grant you a smidgen of my time and effort. Contact me for details." That took about 2 seconds. The intent is clear as to the fact that she's asking for some kind of compensation. She gets a guy to write her privately and gives him the specifics. Filter out any word in there and I can think of another one that'll do. No hieroglyphics were needed.

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Now lets assume it was a selectable option: Let's pretend at a good rate 1/10th of the entire Financial Dom population decided to label themselves as Financial Doms. This gives both the benefit of:
- People searching for Financial Doms to easily find them
- People Not searching for Financial Doms the ability to easily hide 1/10 of the Fin Dom population.

Who Benefits?
Financial Doms:
+ It should be obvious now (if they didn't make it rather Explicit before) that the Person Contacting them understands they're a Financial Dom.
General Users:
+ Who doesn't love a narrowed search criteria?

Who Loses?
The Financial Doms who (mind you are a lot of them) make explicit point on their profile that they're Financial / Tribute only and yet won't categorize themselves as such. These people will be lost from the search results of those looking explicitly For their target market.


Sure ok, if some people self-select appropriately then it'll take off a few people from your search, but there were two other points related to this that were already mentioned that you have never yet addressed. What about those fin Doms that are both financial and lifestyle? Your self labeling falls apart on that point as they'd be both financial and lifestyle and neither financial or lifestyle.

What about the fact that if someone was NOT labeled as a fin Dom because they were hiding that, then the user would feel more comfortable about the possibility that someone who was not labeled as such was in fact a lifestyle Dom? Can't you see that more hopes would be raised and then squashed? It's actually easier to see the words yourself and hide those people from your search rather than getting up your hopes and finding out it's yet another tribute situation.

Also, I pointed out that more time would be wasted in the end by people having to email instead of just reading what was up on the profile. If you want to buy Raisin Bran cereal do you want to see it listed as Raisin Bran on the box or have to write the manufacturer of it and see if what you have in your hand is Raisin Bran?

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Ah, and on the topic of why I called you a Troll.. because you only challenge instead of providing a logical For and Against argument and for your points.

To those who say I should hide profiles: Thank you for your suggestions :)
I actually do this, but I think it would be nice to see the site from a service delivery point of view increase overall.

Over to you; my friends.


Well your definition of trolling is certainly unique and not commonly held. I don't think I was particularly challenging you in an aggressive way, pointing some things out perhaps- these are forums after all. I'm not sure how I can fit your definition of not trolling on this thread as I don't have a solution for this problem. I'm not opposed to finding one either, it's just never occurred to me how this might be solved. I"m not just picking holes in your solution, I was pointing out some viable issues with them.

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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 10:25:12 PM   
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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/24/2012 10:59:55 PM   
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RE: [Suggestion] Search option for financial / tribute dom - 3/25/2012 9:34:23 AM   
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I misplaced one word but seeing as it seemed to confuse you a lot... let me try this again.

Basically what you are asking is that collarme force people to say what they do for a living. There are a lot of jobs that when people hear their titles they are a little put off by them. Many people with that sort of job just don't run around telling people what they do for a living, but they are upfront about it with the people they get into realationships with. How would you, if you ran the site, make to so you could force someone to list their profession and yet keep them from being discriminated against?

And on a side note...would you then require everyone else list their profesion as well?

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