Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants

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SoulPixel -> Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 3:53:01 AM)
Male & female submissives both welcome to respond, what are some of the top qualities you look for in a dominant?

Kaliko -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 4:23:44 AM)
My standard answer...clean shaven balls. Everything else is just frosting.

smartsub10 -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 4:47:03 AM)
Intelligence

graceadieu -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 4:51:40 AM)
Being a good, trustworthy, caring person.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 6:06:10 AM)
An open mind, filled with raunchy ideas, and everything tempered with common sense. Sense of humor also required.

kitkat105 -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 6:10:53 AM)
Intelligence, passion, sense of humour, intimate, firm but fair, sadistic.

txurinal -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 7:30:42 AM)
Honesty - telling me up front what is expected of me and what i can expect from them

kalikshama -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 8:50:06 AM)
quote: My standard answer...clean shaven balls. Everything else is just frosting. [sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif]

littlewonder -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 9:31:10 AM)
integrity, honesty, clean meaning no drugs, no alcoholics, conservative, sexy looking, height/weight proportionate, trustworthy, firm but fair, someone who listens, someone who is calm and rational instead of angry, dominant personality. Give me time and I'm sure I can come up with more. Those are just a small list of qualities.

DesFIP -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 9:40:44 AM)
Confidence, patience, respectful, good communication skills. Your basic good relationship skills. Focuses on problem solving instead of looking for an excuse to punish. Because when you choose not to solve the problem, then that says you want it to recur so you can 'punish' again. Which indicates to me that they are conflicted about their sexuality, cannot openly acknowledge sadistic impulses. And need to work on that issue instead of taking it out on someone else.

Duskypearls -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 3:38:07 PM)
Quiet confidence, honesty, transparency, forthright, integrity, honor, humility, modesty, compassionate, passionate, protective, patient, humorous, sexual/sensual, resourceful, respectful, open/generous mind and heart, flexibiity, happy, playful, loving, intelligent (academic or street smarts), mature, assertive, sincere, tenacious, self-assured, hard-working, responsible, principled, accountable, reliable, sensitive, faithful, polite, respectful, well-mannered, courteous, courageous, considerate, ambitious, spiritual (whatever that means to them), spontaneous, forgiving, mentally/emotional present, gentle, strong, willing to take correction and direction when appropriate, can exercise self-restraint, loves to touch and be touched, and with good "backbone!" You know....a manly man!

poise -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 3:40:44 PM)
Honesty, compassion for others, and good hygiene.

hellionsLight -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 3:53:56 PM)
- Takes cares of things that needs to be done. - Honesty, no matter how much it may hurt me. I hate being lied to - I'd rather cry then be happy with a lie. - Physically and mentally attractive to me There are other ones, but those are the main ones

RaspberryLemon -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 4:40:25 PM)
Confident and assertive, responsible, reliable, straightforward, open and honest (transparent,) mature, versatile and resourceful, firm but considerate and fair, loyal and dedicated, honorable, respectful, possessive and protective, physically larger than me, ambitious, strong (mentally and physically,) courageous, passionate, very physical (frequent affectionate touch with their partner is an essential thing,) caring, happy and positive, self-disciplined and takes care of himself well, consistent, and possessing great integrity. I'm sure there are other traits I find endearing and important, but these are just the ones off the top of my head.

ShibsStories -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/25/2012 9:43:53 PM)
Capable, cuddly, and a love for animals. ETA What really intrigues me is when a guy can get that nice balance between being somewhat harsh on the outside, but o so sweet and caring once you dig down a bit. I like knowing the real person that no one else is allowed to see.

SlipSlidingAway -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/26/2012 7:34:16 AM)
The same qualities I'd seek in any partner: honesty, intelligence, compassion, wisdom, creativity, wit, strong problem solving skills, self-control, excellent communicator. Add to that similar philosophies on D/s relationships and it's pretty much all good!

LunaM -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/26/2012 8:34:12 AM)
A man who can take charge, who compels me to submit, who believes me worthy of submitting to him. A man worth submitting to and therefore becoming his charge, his responsibility, his love, his slave, who will push my limits just a little farther each time, to break me down so we can build me back up again, stronger and able to take more next time. Always growing and learning. My Master has all those qualities and more. But since you specifically asked what qualities does a sub look for in a dominant, I will keep my anwer limited to that.

MyMonstersRobin -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/26/2012 10:58:22 AM)
Manners and aggression honestly. Not being unkind or mean about it. However, when I do something incorrect I expect a punishment and the structure I need my Dominant to provide. However, I am very serious on the manners.

wolf223 -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/27/2012 12:52:14 PM)
Hold on a second just need to change blades.[sm=dunno.gif]

Arienos -> RE: Qualities which intrigue you with ideal dominants (3/27/2012 12:56:16 PM)
quote: Quiet confidence, honesty, transparency, forthright, integrity, honor, humility, modesty, compassionate, passionate, protective, patient, humorous, sexual/sensual, resourceful, respectful, open/generous mind and heart, flexibiity, happy, playful, loving, intelligent (academic or street smarts), mature, assertive, sincere, tenacious, self-assured, hard-working, responsible, principled, accountable, reliable, sensitive, faithful, polite, respectful, well-mannered, courteous, courageous, considerate, ambitious, spiritual (whatever that means to them), spontaneous, forgiving, mentally/emotional present, gentle, strong, willing to take correction and direction when appropriate, can exercise self-restraint, loves to touch and be touched, and with good "backbone!" [/quote Duskypearls: You have just described the average male submissive.

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