Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/26/2012 2:30:27 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline
For most of us, it isn't about the gear, it's about the person you do it with. The Man likes the bags with all the rope and clamps, but he can make me squeal with just his hands.

Moreover, since the op already lives alone, that means even if he converts this space to the kinky playroom of his fantasies, he still doesn't have a partner there to play with. Me, I'd start with that. Because unlike Field of Dreams, building a dungeon doesn't mean the subs will come flocking there.


_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to mummyman321)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/26/2012 3:30:23 PM   
mummyman321


Posts: 2102
Joined: 10/31/2005
From: Dusseldorf
Status: offline
The OP did not state he was building the Dungeon to attract a partner. A relationship is never about the gear. It never will be. But that was not the question asked or implied

Lets face it, the toys can be fun. That is why the sell so many of them. And if you had the opportunity to build that dream dungeon, what would it look like? There are plenty of couples who would enjoy having a nice Dungeon. Just because someone is single does not mean that cannot dream of having a dungeon.

_____________________________

Life - Its not about where you are but about the journey to get there - I prefer to choose the road less traveled

(in reply to DesFIP)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/26/2012 6:03:04 PM   
DomMale46


Posts: 252
Joined: 3/22/2012
From: Indianapolis, IN, USA
Status: offline
Yay, someone who gets the point. Thanks Mummmmmyman321.




(in reply to mummyman321)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/30/2012 8:27:58 PM   
cloudboy


Posts: 7306
Joined: 12/14/2005
Status: offline
If its good enough for Sara, its good enough for me. The nice comfy cage goes in the middle, metallic trinkets on the wall.




Attachment (1)

< Message edited by cloudboy -- 3/30/2012 8:29:03 PM >

(in reply to DomMale46)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/30/2012 9:24:02 PM   
mummyman321


Posts: 2102
Joined: 10/31/2005
From: Dusseldorf
Status: offline
OMG................I can see it now. The white house basement LOL!

_____________________________

Life - Its not about where you are but about the journey to get there - I prefer to choose the road less traveled

(in reply to cloudboy)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 9:36:10 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
Is this before or after I had My heart attack over losing fifteen grand worth of toys?

I already have the huge basement that runs the length of the house.  Due to the layout, I could easily have a main room, a social area, and three 'specialized' rooms.  The problem is that the whole thing is unfinished and unless I'm actually going to hold parties here, I'm not making the investment. 

Age play is very big up here, so I would make one of them a kid's room.  I have boxes and boxes of stuffed animals and could whip up a 'nursery' of sorts.  With the layout, that could be the furthest room away from any other type of BDSM play, which makes certain littles more comfortable.

One of the specialty rooms would have to be dedicated to medical play.  I could easily section that off for those who want privacy and those who do not want to see blood.  It would be the one closest to the stairs for the best access to clean up.

The third room would be universal, much as the main area would be.  It's a bit larger than the other two (but not as big as the main area) and two pairs could play in there at the same time, if I could fix a cross in one corner and a bench in the other.

The main room, of course, easily fits a number of players.  I have great beams down there that are perfect for suspension.  Rather decent ceiling clearance, too, for those who like whips.  Probably nothing over six feet, but that's still pretty good.

I'm not especially concerned about finishing walls other than some decorative hanging and could run some icicle lights along the trim.  I'm not spending the cash to carpet the place, but some throw rugs would be nice.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to mummyman321)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 9:54:08 AM   
RedMagic1


Posts: 6470
Joined: 5/10/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DomMale46

So let's say that one day power went out, and the sump pump in the basement stopped working for many hours. And due to your being on vacation, you return home to find a real mess.

You've removed soggy carpet and removed/dried walls, and now have a big empty room. You think about redoing it as a mancave, but since I, errr you, live alone, the entire house is a mancave.

What do you do with the room?

Everyone welcome to chime in. Think of everything though, not just toys. Floors, walls, lighting, decor, etc...



Working off one I've seen that I liked:

1. Floor to ceiling mirrors along one wall, then a rack to hold a variety of whips near that, so people can practice their form popping in the mirror.

2. Spanking bench, cross, other things like that, set several feet back from the mirror, so someone can watch themselves paddling/being paddled but not get in the way of the whip practicers.

3. A small room or rooms separated off for your fetish of choice: medical, inquisition, etc.

4. Do you have space for a "break room?" Small fridge, comfortable chairs/sofa, a microwave, dishes, maybe blankets. A place where doms can relax and be waited on by the subs, or a sub could receive aftercare.

_____________________________

Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others.
- 15th century Aztec

(in reply to DomMale46)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 10:07:06 AM   
HisPet21


Posts: 395
Status: offline
quote:

Is this before or after I had My heart attack over losing fifteen grand worth of toys?


Oh, no! That is awful...I know what it is like to invest in a collection, but to lose it? :(

quote:

For most of us, it isn't about the gear, it's about the person you do it with.


This is supposed to be a thread about your ideal playroom. No one is here to argue that the toys are more important than the partner. You didn't seriously miss that, did you?

OP, just a heads up, a lot of the folks on the forums can be hostile towards newbies, especially one's who appear to be looking for "fap material" (i.e. anyone who wants to talk about kinks, or favorite equipment, or different training techniques). So, in case you were wondering, that's why all the responses have been 180 degrees of what you intended. Hang around a while, and you'll garner enough respect to earn "I get to talk about sex without being labeled a wanker" rights.

Alrighty, now to answer your question...

It'd probably be personalized for me and my partner, since we aren't the social kind, and aren't interested in playing with others or holding parties. I'm thinking an area in one corner with just a little bit or carpeting, a smallish cell (I'd have to be built, but that's not hard to do) with a single barred window and metal shackles dug into the wall. Then, in another corner, a cross and a bench with some flogging/whipping/caning/cropping equipment. It'd also be nice to have some space in the middle of the room, and carpeting, for "fighting back" and escape attempt type play.


(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 11:33:03 AM   
Lucifyre


Posts: 1067
Joined: 3/27/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: HisPet21

OP, just a heads up, a lot of the folks on the forums can be hostile towards newbies, especially one's who appear to be looking for "fap material" (i.e. anyone who wants to talk about kinks, or favorite equipment, or different training techniques). So, in case you were wondering, that's why all the responses have been 180 degrees of what you intended. Hang around a while, and you'll garner enough respect to earn "I get to talk about sex without being labeled a wanker" rights.


Fuck that I'm a wanker (or whatever the female version of that lable is LOL) and damn proud of it :P I'll take good porn stories any day haha

quote:

ORIGINAL: HisPet21

Alrighty, now to answer your question...

It'd probably be personalized for me and my partner, since we aren't the social kind, and aren't interested in playing with others or holding parties. I'm thinking an area in one corner with just a little bit or carpeting, a smallish cell (I'd have to be built, but that's not hard to do) with a single barred window and metal shackles dug into the wall. Then, in another corner, a cross and a bench with some flogging/whipping/caning/cropping equipment. It'd also be nice to have some space in the middle of the room, and carpeting, for "fighting back" and escape attempt type play.




Mr and I were actually fantasizing about it the other day. I'm a greedy bitch, I want more than just a room or a basement, I want a whole warehouse for a playspace.
But I would build on a model similar to a space in Chicago ...He had an adult storefront in the front with toys and leather gear and feetish clothing etc. He featured items from local craftsman as well, very well made gear and implements, I think he even made some of them himself but I don't remember. There was a huge playspace in the back plus a basement.When you first walked into the back area there was a small soda/juice bar (no alcohol allowed) and an area with comfy couches and coffee tables for folks to set stuff (including their feet) on. Play in the front area was discouraged, it was meant more for people to observe or subs to get aftercare from their partners.A little further in there was a large space with sort of stations and equipment. There was a main generic type anything goes kind of room with a spanking bench a cross even a suspension area and other dungeon furniture type things to play on. Lots of space between each "station". Then there was the basement (which he called the *sub* basement LOL) Downstairs there were more themed typs rooms, though I don't remember the rooms having doors, just walls between each section. I didn't spend a lot of time downstairs so I don't remember it too vividly, the cieling was low and made me feel kind of cramped and clostrophobic.
He ended up moving his dungeeon from one warehouse type to the other and it was several years ago that we last went, so TBH I may be combining the two places together in my memory.
Essentially though, I would love to win a huge lottery or come into some serious money somehow and open up a big playspace like that and have weekly parties and sell toys etc.

There was another playspace that was kind of similar run by someone else in Chicago as well, but I don't remember a lot of details about it bbecause I only visited it once with a Domme I was playing with at the time (she gave me a beautiful royal purple satin corsette that I still have and wear a lot) That space was a kind of lofty type place seperated into 2 big rooms plus a coat check space. The bigger of the two big rooms was sectioned off, half was the bar/couch socializing area, the other half was a playspace. The smaller of the two rooms was a little more private, though probably 6 couples could easily fit into it to play and not bother each other. The second room had no place but the floor to sit, I believe intentionally so folks could go scene and not worry so h about an audience.

That, aside from the fabulous food is one of the things I miss terrbily about living up there. The community was pretty vast and there was almost always something to do.

So, anyone got a few million dollars to spare? <grin>
Lucifyre

_____________________________

"Batteries? OMG, Bitch Please! My Shit plugs in!"
I do this because it fucking feels good.
I like girls who like girls
The thing about standards is: There are SO many to choose from.

(in reply to HisPet21)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 4:04:55 PM   
mummyman321


Posts: 2102
Joined: 10/31/2005
From: Dusseldorf
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Is this before or after I had My heart attack over losing fifteen grand worth of toys?

I already have the huge basement that runs the length of the house.  Due to the layout, I could easily have a main room, a social area, and three 'specialized' rooms.  The problem is that the whole thing is unfinished and unless I'm actually going to hold parties here, I'm not making the investment. 

Age play is very big up here, so I would make one of them a kid's room.  I have boxes and boxes of stuffed animals and could whip up a 'nursery' of sorts.  With the layout, that could be the furthest room away from any other type of BDSM play, which makes certain littles more comfortable.

One of the specialty rooms would have to be dedicated to medical play.  I could easily section that off for those who want privacy and those who do not want to see blood.  It would be the one closest to the stairs for the best access to clean up.

The third room would be universal, much as the main area would be.  It's a bit larger than the other two (but not as big as the main area) and two pairs could play in there at the same time, if I could fix a cross in one corner and a bench in the other.

The main room, of course, easily fits a number of players.  I have great beams down there that are perfect for suspension.  Rather decent ceiling clearance, too, for those who like whips.  Probably nothing over six feet, but that's still pretty good.

I'm not especially concerned about finishing walls other than some decorative hanging and could run some icicle lights along the trim.  I'm not spending the cash to carpet the place, but some throw rugs would be nice.



I do like the idea of a medical play room. Like you I have a good size basement filled with goodies. But I am lacking in the medical area. We've talked about my aversion to some forms of medical play and maybe thats why I have not renovated my dungeon to include medical. I do like the idea of a nice medical table/chair. So many possibilities with that.

I am happy seperating areas by hanging black PU drapes. No need to waste money on dry wall. The black PU drapes cleans easy anyways. Maybe for a medical room though the drapes might have to be white.

_____________________________

Life - Its not about where you are but about the journey to get there - I prefer to choose the road less traveled

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 3/31/2012 7:35:46 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
Exactly.  We wouldn't have to have top of the line right away.  Just sectioned off areas.

If we build it..... They will come.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to mummyman321)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition - 4/3/2012 10:34:54 PM   
MrBlackMan


Posts: 18
Joined: 3/18/2012
From: Chicago
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Coat the walls in Velcro, get a velcro suit, then spend your nights playing Human Fly :-)


(In my family died contestant voice)...good answer good answer

(in reply to Kana)
Profile   Post #: 32
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Extreme Home Makeover - Dungeon Edition Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094