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RE: Apropos of Cuckoldry: Chastity or Monogamy - 3/30/2012 2:21:17 PM

Wheldrake

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Some are some aren't. The livein now is in chastity so it isn't a big issue, but he is mine and is with no one else either way. The last was welcome to do what he wished but was monogamous, but for a whole different set of reasons. I also have to add that the realationship is different depending on if the person is male or female(at least with me) I set the rules for women differently than I do for men.

Interesting. Would you be willing to elaborate a bit on that last sentence? How do your rules differ for women and men? And do you have different rules because you think women would respond badly to the "male" ones (and vice-versa), or is it more that you find yourself relating to male and female s-types in different ways?

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RE: Apropos of Cuckoldry: Chastity or Monogamy - 3/30/2012 5:55:45 PM

seekingOwnertoo

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: SnowRanger
Then to REALLY confuse me, Lady Pact seems to make a distinction between Cuckoldry and Polyamoury. <GACK>

Mike

Yes, oddly enough, I do. Then again, remember that I make distinctions between open relationships, cheating, cuckoldry, threesomes, friends with benefits, voyeurism, poly, and a bunch of other things.

What might be the confusing part ... not just from the sexual angle, but from the underlying understanding between the participants. ...

It's only when you get past what might be happening sexually do you discover that it's not.

This is a great distinction.

In my mind (not ANYONE else)

I distingish the two based upon the relationship.

To me, polyamoury means the ability to love and maintain relationships with MULTIPLE partners.

And in terms of a Fem Domme relationship, One Woman, multiple men, but the men are exclusive because ... well hell ... they are so in love with Her.

To me, cuckholdry is about casual sex. And the goal is one partner embarassing the other, while demonstrating they are "in charge". And power and ego trip ... etc etc

Others might disagree with my views, but to Lady Pact's point ...

there clearly is a difference.

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RE: Apropos of Cuckoldry: Chastity or Monogamy - 3/30/2012 6:13:58 PM

LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: SnowRanger

Hello A/all,

Something that I read on another thread here on Ask-A-Mistress put a burr under my sadle so to speak. I was THINKING, which was wearing me out! Maybe I am one of those that do not "get" the Cuckoldry Kink. I hesitate to express my ignorance; but, I am going to ask a question.

To the Dommes that practice it: Is your cuckold chaste or monogamous? In either case, why? (Okay, that is two questions.)

Respectfully,
Mike
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