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the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 2:19:37 AM

shysoul18

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How is a good way to meet a dominant girl who would be willing to cuckold and facesit you? Most girls I met do not have this kinky side. I am willing to adapt to her needs as well

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 2:51:35 AM

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Start with the FAQ at the top. Read thoroughly.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 3:42:56 AM

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dominant woman... not a girl...

and if you're looking for two specific things to be done to you, you might want to try a professional. If you're looking for a relationship, you might start with some groups or clubs in your area

and what MissKittyDeVine said... and repeat a few times

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 3/26/2012 3:43:33 AM >

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 5:06:31 AM

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And fix your profile! JEEEbus! Wow. Can't read the text "bio" portion because of the weird background you chose. In it, you should write more about who you are and what makes you tick - not just (and not mostly) the kink.

Good luck, kid.

Sheesh. Did y'all see he's in San Fran? And he can't get any action? Well...it may be action from some other gender. But, I'm just sayin'.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 5:21:20 AM

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I had the same reaction to him living in SF... in some ways, I'd suggest that a het male would have a lot of options -- being a minority in that city...

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 6:44:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: shysoul18

How is a good way to meet a dominant girl

Log off of your computer and go to a munch....or a bar......or Starbucks. Just go anywhere other than on your computer. Heck, you live in SF. If you can't find a kinky girl there, then you have REAL problems. You're either the ugliest man on the planet, or you have the social skills of an ostrich.

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who would be willing to cuckold and facesit you? Most girls I met do not have this kinky side. I am willing to adapt to her needs as well

Okay, here's a free tip. Stop leading with your kink. Just act like a normal guy. Meet a nice girl, and treat her like a real person. I can assure you that if you do that, it won't be very long before she's sitting on your face. And I'm talking about vanilla girls. It's amazing what vanilla women will do with you sexually if you stop approaching them like they're whores.

As far as the cuckolding thing, well that might be a little more difficult to find. But it sounds to me like you just need to find a girl who will give you her phone number. So lets start with baby steps. We'll worry about climbing Mt. Everest later.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 11:06:07 AM

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"or you have the social skills of an ostrich."

^^^This was hilarious to Me

(edited because the quote part wasn't quoted. Sometimes it works for Me, sometimes it doesn't)

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 11:43:41 AM

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How is a good way to meet a dominant girl who would be willing to cuckold and facesit you? Most girls I met do not have this kinky side. I am willing to adapt to her needs as well

Get out your wallet. Easiest, fastest way on the planet.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 11:57:08 AM

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How is a good way to meet a dominant girl who would be willing to cuckold and facesit you? Most girls I met do not have this kinky side. I am willing to adapt to her needs as well

Get out your wallet. Easiest, fastest way on the planet.

Particularly if you want to be serviced.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 11:58:27 AM

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You have your fantasy all planned out huh?

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 12:40:48 PM

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No these are just some ideas. I just wanted to see what type of advice I would be offered on this site.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 12:51:17 PM

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I just made this account yesterday so it might be awhile before it is fully updated. But thanks for your input it seems like this matters to most. I should have made this post more specific but it is my first post so cut me some slack. :)

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 1:01:09 PM

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Haha yes i am very ugly. Nah just new to this type of things and It was a rookie mistake making a vague post. thanks for your input though.

I never approached a vanilla women as they are a whore. They are willing to facesit but It seems like they do it to satisfy you, rather then for both needs.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 1:36:20 PM

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They are willing to facesit but It seems like they do it to satisfy you, rather then for both needs.

Then you're not doing it right. Getting vanilla girls to WANT to sit on your face is about as hard as convincing fish to swim.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 1:47:33 PM

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Then you're not doing it right. Getting vanilla girls to WANT to sit on your face is about as hard as convincing fish to swim.

obviously not if this is the case. when would be the best time to bring up the topic?

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 2:37:39 PM

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Am I missing something? What's the big deal about face sitting? Isn't just another position, albeit a female dominant one?

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 3:11:27 PM

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Pretty much, Kalik. And what was that bit about vanilla women being whores?

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 3:17:37 PM

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Pretty much, Kalik. And what was that bit about vanilla women being whores?

I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he meant to say "I never approached a vanilla women as IF they are a whore." and omitted a word.

OP, you want several things:
A Dominant woman.
A woman who will facesit. And one who will LIKE it, not just to please you.
A woman who will cuckold you.

I'm not saying it's impossible, but the chance of getting all of them isn't high. Especially cuckolding.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 4:55:13 PM

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quote:

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They are willing to facesit but It seems like they do it to satisfy you, rather then for both needs.

Then you're not doing it right. Getting vanilla girls to WANT to sit on your face is about as hard as convincing fish to swim.

Sidenote: This isn't very accurate in some circles. I've had a lot of vanilla female friends who aren't really into getting oral at all - let alone face sitting, either they've never found it attractive because they never received GOOD oral, or they have other concerns and issues with it.

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RE: the best way to ask - 3/26/2012 5:39:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: shysoul18

They are willing to facesit but It seems like they do it to satisfy you, rather then for both needs.

Then you're not doing it right. Getting vanilla girls to WANT to sit on your face is about as hard as convincing fish to swim.

Sidenote: This isn't very accurate in some circles. I've had a lot of vanilla female friends who aren't really into getting oral at all - let alone face sitting, either they've never found it attractive because they never received GOOD oral, or they have other concerns and issues with it.