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how many have found sub/ slave through this site?


one or more?
  33% (9)
three or more
  29% (8)
2 who are still part of your life?
  14% (4)
just looking?
  18% (5)
believe everyone on here to strange for your kink?
  3% (1)


Total Votes : 27
(last vote on : 10/8/2012 5:26:08 PM)
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how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 3:06:29 PM   
DMSFsdg53


Posts: 13
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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 3:09:00 PM   
myotherself


Posts: 7157
Joined: 3/9/2006
From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		Master found me on cm

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 3:17:35 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		I've found several here. Still friends with them, though we no longer have a D/s relationship.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 4:05:59 PM   
lizi


Posts: 4673
Joined: 2/1/2009
Status: offline 		My Dominant found me here.

OP, you may be having some difficulty because you're looking for a unique type of submissive. You want a submissive to be with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent. You also would like it if your 'girls' became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent. This seems like a pretty rare person. To be honest, from your profile date, it seems to be a rather short period of time that you've been looking, only 4 months, to find such a unique submissive.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 5:08:41 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		Depends what you mean. I have found:

Two women who relocated here to be my sub. One has moved on and is a friend. Another is involved but more as a daughter than a sub.

A play partner that is just a friend now.

Several friends that could have become more had the stars aligned a bit differently.

Some friends that have never been viewed as more than friends.



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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 5:15:22 PM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		I've met a couple of local friends and one local client (I'm a real estate broker).

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Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 5:15:38 PM   
ladynlord


Posts: 247
Joined: 1/27/2006
Status: offline 		Two actually. Still friends with both, but not in a D/s sense or relationship anymore. Although vanilla life called them away all too soon, such is life.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 6:04:33 PM   
SubvsSlave


Posts: 201
Joined: 4/6/2011
Status: offline 		Master and I found each other on CM.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/27/2012 6:22:27 PM   
poise


Posts: 9509
Joined: 7/3/2010
Status: offline 		I'm not using the site to search for a partner, but if I were, there are
several here on the forum side that would easily have my interest.
So I clicked one or more.

I think the key is interaction without expectation. It's really hard to get a good
feel for someone based on what they have written in their profile alone.
And then, as the lovely lizi pointed out, you're looking for a very rare person,
so getting, and holding, someone's interest may take alot more than just profile text.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 2:43:55 PM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline 		Master and I met long before CM even existed. But, I have met friends from here.

There's no option for not looking on the poll.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 2:53:33 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		Master found me here about 7 years ago and we've been together about 5 now.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 3:03:56 PM   
BurntKitty


Posts: 3340
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: Here To Eternity.
Status: offline 		None of the above. Although as poise said, if I was using this site for a partner there are definitely a few I'd be smitten with.

I found my sadistic partner on Bondage.Com. We bantered there in the Sports forum where I'm a mod. Who knew that the Jets' & Da Bears' fans could get along.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 3:06:11 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

My Dominant found me here.

OP, you may be having some difficulty because you're looking for a unique type of submissive. You want a submissive to be with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent. You also would like it if your 'girls' became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent. This seems like a pretty rare person. To be honest, from your profile date, it seems to be a rather short period of time that you've been looking, only 4 months, to find such a unique submissive.


This. Your question should really be: who has found a submissive who will be... with you and your transitioning M to F partner, who will also be 24/7, and help your partner take care of her ailing parent, and who will became pregnant so you and your partner can grandparent.

The answer to THAT question will give you a more accurate picture of what you're up against.

Cali


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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 3:07:51 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5169
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		I found the first Dom I ever played with here.  We're still best friends.  I have friends who found their Doms or subs here.  So, that leaves me checking the 3 or more box.  Wish you had a 10 or more option. 

After reading your profile I have to agree with lizi.  You are basically looking for a needle in the haystack, not impossible, but very very difficult to find.  It's not terribly surprising that you can't find the person you seek.  However, that does not mean no one here finds that special someone.  All you have to do is read in the Positive Experiences forum to find all the happy stories of people finding a connection. 

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/28/2012 4:07:08 PM   
ResidentSadist


Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline 		1 living with me now and a handful of exes.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/29/2012 9:36:04 AM   
r1a2y3m4o5n6d7


Posts: 196
Joined: 1/15/2012
Status: offline 		I found Dark Steven on here. Ok he is not my master and never will be.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/29/2012 11:02:59 AM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		I found 3+ play partners here.

M is active on Fet, not here. We met on OKCupid.

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/29/2012 11:23:56 AM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		OP, your profile is mostly about what you want. I suggest you add more about what you offer. And add paragraphs.










< Message edited by kalikshama -- 3/29/2012 11:24:37 AM >

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/29/2012 12:13:04 PM   
MistressDarkArt


Posts: 5178
Status: offline 		I've had significant partnerships with 3 sub men from here, and met many more friends including doms, subs and switches. The reason CM has worked well for me is the people I've connected with are well-adjusted, mature, have reasonable expectations and are willing to share much more of themselves than just kinky play.

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 3/29/2012 12:16:54 PM >

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RE: how many have found sub/ slave through this site? - 3/29/2012 1:06:11 PM   
fluffypet67


Posts: 4421
Joined: 3/8/2012
From: Moorestown, NJ
Status: offline 		Master found me here.  We have known each other for 3 years and now live together 24/7.

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On my own again.

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