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Arturas -> RE: Dominants who "train" submissives... (4/30/2012 11:30:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


Service of what?  Food service?  Go wait tables at a fine restaurant, they'll teach you.  Service him sexually?  Well, while giving a blow job ain't rocket science, individuals have different preferences, so whatever some "trainer" teaches you could mean nothing.  Obey?  I say, you do, not really much more to it than that.


^^^ This!



How about orgasim on command, sub-space on command, kama sutra?




kalikshama -> RE: Dominants who "train" submissives... (5/1/2012 4:51:12 AM)

Contrary to popular perception, especially in the western world, Kama sutra is not just an exclusive sex manual; it presents itself as a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life and other aspects pertaining to pleasure oriented faculties of human life.




Arturas -> RE: Dominants who "train" submissives... (5/1/2012 9:38:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Contrary to popular perception, especially in the western world, Kama sutra is not just an exclusive sex manual; it presents itself as a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life and other aspects pertaining to pleasure oriented faculties of human life.


First, I am adding the necessary credit for your post for you:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kama_Sutra

Secondly, are you suggesting that because the Kama Sutra is not "just and exclusive sex manual" that is it an (even more) excellent and comprehensive training reference and that in this capacity it has served couples in this regard for many, many, many centuries? Do you agree this work has a deserved place in a Dominant's library?




dMo -> RE: Dominants who "train" submissives... (5/13/2012 4:34:16 PM)

Not every D/s relationship has to begin with OWNership. That would be like getting married every first date...

Simply communicate what it is you seek, and I'm sure you'll be able to find the right situation, but you must realize that emotions are the must controllable entity either. As long as you've stated your case and everyone is on the same page then no one gets dragged along blindly.




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