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strap-on play - 3/31/2012 6:55:05 AM   
bostonsub1


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Status: offline 		What are some of the reasons a Mistress like to use a strap-on play on their male submissive.
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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 7:02:24 AM   
SadisticMs2


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And put some clothes on.

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 7:21:28 AM   
DianeB269


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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 7:36:14 AM   
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What are some of the reasons a Mistress like to use a strap-on play on their male submissive.



For me it's not play, it's training...

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 8:58:05 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Dude, yes.  Put some clothes on.  That is the nicest thing that I can say.

I have something of a different attitude about strap-ons and play.  It's actually been a few years since I've done that casually.  These days, I tend to reserve that for when I am taking My rights as an Owner.  It is about power for Me, which, as I always say, is the best aphrodisiac on the planet.  Of course, that means that it is a sexual thrill, but that's not the whole point of it.

Male and female Dominants aren't all that different in this regard.  Both want to use their property as they see fit.


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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 9:06:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bostonsub1

What are some of the reasons a Mistress like to use a strap-on play on their male submissive.



For me it's not play, it's training...


What are you training them to do? And, LOVE YOUR AVI

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 9:19:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269


quote:

ORIGINAL: bostonsub1

What are some of the reasons a Mistress like to use a strap-on play on their male submissive.



For me it's not play, it's training...


What are you training them to do? And, LOVE YOUR AVI



I like to train guys to take thicker and longer rubber cocks...

Thanks, I'm glad you like it...


EDIT; I almost forgot, I love how they turn into little bitches and they will do anything I tell them once I've pounded their buttholes...

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 12:32:50 PM   
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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 3:44:10 PM   
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That ^^^^ is funny as hell!!!

As for the OP, I do it because I can and because I like it.
1. I feel powerful when I'm fucking his ass
2. I'm taking what's mine because I can, and
3. I get off from it.

NBMG

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 5:20:07 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Dude, please. Make your frickin' bed before snapping a TOS-violating, incredibly distasteful picture of yourself. And kindly I say to you:




Now that's out of the way, I do it for a variety of reasons. Not the least of which is to train my partner to transfer as much sexual sensation out of his dick and into his ass as possible. I put him in a cock-lock with no hope of accessing his penis and teach him to seek penetration or e-stim in the ass for sexual fulfullment. If he can't learn to cum this way...oh well. It's delightfully heartening how adaptive these boys can be when not given a choice.

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 5:32:08 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 5:38:13 PM   
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Does anybody have a copy of that cartoon of how women see themselves naked compared to how men see themselves naked?


Nope LP, but it would certainly be germaine to our OP so I hope someone can find it.

BK, you got this in your archives somewhere?

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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 6:04:26 PM   
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Does anybody have a copy of that cartoon of how women see themselves naked compared to how men see themselves naked?



Are you thinking of this one?





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RE: strap-on play - 3/31/2012 7:19:30 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		And there she is!  Thank you for the assistance.  That is EXACTLY what I was thinking of!

My regards to your Sir.


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RE: strap-on play - 4/7/2012 3:14:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know this was about how to why a mistress would use a strap on, but I had a question about the size. From what I have been reading on here there are a lot of people out there who want to get to know a sub or a person before they initiate anything, but once in a relationship is it ok to let a mistress know you need to be eased into strap on play or is it up to them?

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RE: strap-on play - 4/7/2012 3:24:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd say both - you to be honest about your lack of experience in it and her whether she wants to do it or not.

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RE: strap-on play - 4/8/2012 2:39:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks SoulAlloy, that makes sense it really does and from what I have been reading from a lot of mistress's it seems like often creating a relationship is important prior to anything like strap on play. I appreciate an answer and if any one has a different opinion I would like to hear it as well.

John

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RE: strap-on play - 4/8/2012 5:43:08 PM   
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Thanks SoulAlloy, that makes sense it really does and from what I have been reading from a lot of mistress's it seems like often creating a relationship is important prior to anything like strap on play. I appreciate an answer and if any one has a different opinion I would like to hear it as well.

John



Not surprisingly, many Dommes like to establish this little thing called a "relationship" before engaging in sexual activity and other intimate behavior with an individual.

Dating 101, boys.

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RE: strap-on play - 4/8/2012 6:27:47 PM   
LittleMsMary


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Status: offline 		I'll go with the first reason that came to my mind...the thought of him bent over and ass up, panties around his knees, just barely feeling the tip of the strap on pressed against his ass, wondering when it's going in....gets me hot every time. I suppose if I thought about it a bit deeper, it's kind of a gender twist in my mind and I find that a lot of fun.

Oh, plus the facial expressions (thank God for thoughtful mirror placement) are to die for, especially for first timers ;)

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RE: strap-on play - 4/8/2012 7:02:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		for the power, dominance, enjoyment to the Domme rights as owner and sometimes cause the reciving person likes it. and with a strap on it is always ready and interchangeable

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