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RE: strap-on play - 4/9/2012 2:02:36 PM

RumpusParable

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I don't like anal play with a strapon, but I do enjoy oral and manual "sex", wearing one around, slapping a partner with it, and other fun.

Why? Well, a lot of it is the absolute absurdity of it, to me. The other is the genderfuck angle.

I find penises -real or fake- to be very hard to take seriously at all... at all. To me, they look -depending on the penis- ugly and/or humorous. They're just not a body part I can take very seriously. So wearing one hits my silly buttons, I feel a bit absurd. That step out of my comfort zone can be enjoyable.

Regarding genderfucking: I am a genderless female. Whether I'm dressing up femme or running around with a penis attached to me, I am playing with sex and gender. It is a manner of expressing in physical form things that I am not. I am in drag either way. Wearing a strap-on allows me to play up the male side of drag.

Last, as to the play itself, it is a mimickry of real-flesh sexual acts. One's that I find hot, and the mimickry is hot for me.

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RE: strap-on play - 4/9/2012 5:57:31 PM

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For me, it's all about the reaction from the man.

As far back as being a teenager, I used to "roleplay" fucking a man in the ass, long before I knew it was possible with the right equipment. I was a virgin in all sense of the word anyway. I just thought it was exciting to have a man face down or on all fours while I pressed my pelvis and hips up against his butt or rubbed against him. The pressure against my crotch felt good. Who knows, maybe the repetitive games at an early age combined with the sexual stimulation through my jeans created a bit of a fetish.

Nowadays it's about the reaction as I said; fear, trembling, resistance, the need for a man to relax. Bodily reaction, inability to control, his desperation. I like things that impact breathing. I like things that make a man aroused despite his humiliation. Strap on sex is almost more fun these days when it's oral rather than anal, but I suspect it's just my 'fancy' lately, I go through phases.

I can cum from stimulation against my crotch if I am already turned on enough, or any added "boost" I need can just be a little bit of nipple play, so it's pretty easy to get off from strap on play. I don't care for double sided dildos as I find them clunky and distracting. My style is too rigorous and unpredictable.

Like all kinds of BDSM play, you will find that ALL women have their own likes and dislikes, but I imagine for most, at the core, it comes down to something intimate, emotional or sensual and based on connection with the partner, rather than just arbitrary and based on the act.

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RE: strap-on play - 4/11/2012 6:38:23 PM

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There are several reasons for enjoying strap on play... I love making my boy take it. We don't do it often so it's almost like starting from the beginning each time. He is completely humiliated and amazingly submissive when I finish pounding his and he has trouble sitting. Taking that power is my right as an owner and THAT is the true essence of why I love being a Domina!

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