MistressDREAD
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Is it abuse to kick someone who wears a *kick me* sign? I have to wonder. WONDER NO MORE!! OF COURSE IT IS NOT ABUSE ITS CALLED AVAILING DUTY TO ASKED ACTION! LOL quote:
**Betrayed Trust** Lets look at the root of the meaning here as well as the action and reaction. Betrayed: To deliver into the hands of an enemy by treachery or fraud, in violation of trust; to give up treacherously or faithlessly To prove faithless or treacherous to, as to a trust or one who trusts; to be false to; to deceive; as, to betray a person or a cause. To violate the confidence of, by disclosing a secret, or that which one is bound in honor not to make known. To disclose or discover, a something which prudence would conceal; to reveal unintentionally. The Son of man shall be betrayed into the hands of men. But when I rise, I shall find my legs betraying me. Be swift to hear, but cautious of your tongue, lest you betray your ignorance. Genius . . . often betrays itself into great errors. Trust: something (as property) held by one party (the trustee) for the benefit of another (the beneficiary) the trait of trusting; of believing in the honesty and reliability of others complete confidence in a person or plan etc; allow without fear An equitable right or interest in property distinct from the legal ownership thereof; a use (as it existed before the Statute of Uses); also, a property interest held by one person for the benefit of another. Trusts are active, or special, express, implied, constructive, etc. In a passive trust the trustee simply has title to the trust property, while its control and management are in the beneficiary. confidence, security, truth. All these things relay directly to the definitions of Honor and Integrity especially with in the application of Alternate Lifestyle living. But what can be done when the person whom has taken parts of a practice and applied it with out all of its parts especially ones as important as rules, regulations and proticals which take in the values of Honor and Integrity which protects against actions such as betrayed trust? This goes back to siimple Teaching and training actions of those of Us whom bring in those new into the Lifestyle empressing the importance in Ones Own Integrity and Honor being kept within all actions of an Alternate Lifestyler and We as a Group are held accountable for each others actions in the ways many of Us have aways been in years past keeping close tabs on Our Groups and Memeberships seeing that All gain proper training and apply such with Honor and if the need to move on for any party comes to bare it is done in a amicable way so as not to Betray the Trusts set in place which keep those with in Alternate Living Strong and allows them to florish outside of Societys Norm. There are far to many folks online in the world now whom are peeking into Our Society and Lifestyle and find it appealing with out ever discovering that it is not sumthing that can be played with as in any type of Living with out having reprocussions if not applyed properly. This goes from the mental involvement of two or more here online in a roleplay fantasy living out place where none have been taught even what safe sane concensual is and go about playing dangerously with issues and items inplace that can cause harm if not applyed cautiously and with out experiance even here online. How many can raise your hands and admit that you have had sum kind of online encounter that left you feeling * less than * ?? How many of you can admit to either having had a online encounter that ended with hurt feelings or have involved another which you hurt online as well. See it does not matter if it is played online or lived in real life as both actions effect Our well being for Humans do not simply run on Physical power but Mental power as well and all parts of the machine must balance out or the end result is a betrayed trust and a betrayed body soul and mind. I am My Brothers Keeper.......... If Your gonna be in the business of giving Pain be sure its been negotiated, requested, accepted and documented. ( THATS OUR WAY! ) Its a easy business to write off a persons feelings when you do not have to face them head on but remember there is always a price to pay in such actions. What goes around comes around. JMO
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