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NuevaVida -> RE: Would you do xxxxx? (4/17/2012 10:59:43 PM)
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
OK, we got a necro thread back from the grave -- Any subs feel they can adhere... -- but it did get me thinking. I read that list of 9 items and my first thought was that most of those seemed pretty tame. The one about being exposed anywhere, anytime is a deal breaker for almost everyone... yada yada... But then I stepped back a moment and actually looked at the question.
The obvious thought that popped into my head was, "for whom?" I mean... doesn't the d-type matter at all in these sorts of questions? God knows Carol's responses to me are not exactly similar to her responses to previous lovers.
So I'm kind of curious. If you are an s-type of some sort and you are currently unowned, do you answer questions like that? If so, how?
A list like that makes me think the person who created it previously had a slave/submissive who did those things, and he is trying to recreate it.
I remember when my former owner was talking to other "prospects" and he'd start asking them right off, if they'd do this or that. I'd think Holy Moly are you kidding me? Took me years to get to that point - did he forget that? It was really bizarre to me.
So yeah it's all an "it depends" thing. How much have I invested myself in him? How great is the trust factor? What am I ready for, or what is just going to be unhealthy for me? Or - - what am I capable of? For example, the "competing" requirement. I just don't compete for attention. I don't have it in me; there's no drive for that. I either have his attention or I don't. If his attention is centered on someone else, I wish them well and go away.
So that whole list that was originally presented would just be dumb to me, if presented as an intro type of communication. Like Des said, it's a list of activities and has nothing to do with developing a relationship of any kind. To me that's just putting the cart before the horse, and I'd move along.
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