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TxBlkMistress -> Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 6:57:25 PM)

I've talked to several other Dommes/Doms and this has happened to them as well.  I didn't think too much of this, but then it happened to me again today. 

This guy contacts me yesterday saying he was interested in serving yadda yadda yadda.  I can pretty much tell right off the bat he didn't even read my profile by the things he said in his email, anywhooo....we exchange emails during the day, mostly discussing his lack of reading my profile, and not answering my questions,  up until about 3something this morning.  

When I check today he sends this email telling me to read his profile as it has been updated.  Of course it states that he's now owned and all others are to leave him alone.   It usually happens that way or his "supposed" Domme will send a nasty email saying  he's owned.

Since I'd been through this before I didn't even bother to respond, but that wasn't good enough, guess he had to have some response to finish off his jerk off session, so he has some "friend" email me to say that his buddy was sorry that he wasted my time, that he couldn't contact me because his Mistress aquired his account and that he was in a chastity device and caged as we speak (tmi)...um...yeah    Of course the friend had pretty much the exact profile as he did except the age was 21 instead of 41.

Anyone else had this or something like it happen to them?



Tikkiee -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 7:03:34 PM)

I am sorry Ma'am, but that is just too funny.



pinkee -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 7:21:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

I've talked to several other Dommes/Doms and this has happened to them as well.  I didn't think too much of this, but then it happened to me again today. 

This guy contacts me yesterday saying he was interested in serving yadda yadda yadda.  I can pretty much tell right off the bat he didn't even read my profile by the things he said in his email, anywhooo....we exchange emails during the day, mostly discussing his lack of reading my profile, and not answering my questions,  up until about 3something this morning.  

When I check today he sends this email telling me to read his profile as it has been updated.  Of course it states that he's now owned and all others are to leave him alone.   It usually happens that way or his "supposed" Domme will send a nasty email saying  he's owned.

Since I'd been through this before I didn't even bother to respond, but that wasn't good enough, guess he had to have some response to finish off his jerk off session, so he has some "friend" email me to say that his buddy was sorry that he wasted my time, that he couldn't contact me because his Mistress aquired his account and that he was in a chastity device and caged as we speak (tmi)...um...yeah    Of course the friend had pretty much the exact profile as he did except the age was 21 instead of 41.

Anyone else had this or something like it happen to them?



Sorry about the HNG, Ma'am.  Yes, it happens to subbies too.
 
pinkee



Wulfchyld -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 7:24:03 PM)

Yup, get them all the time. They assume sense they mailed me I will rush right over and pick them up and take them to M/s utopia.



TxBlkMistress -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:30:22 PM)

Well Tikkiee, I guess some would say it's funny.  I know some that have really been hurt by this, male/female, Domme/Dom, sub/slave

I guess I'm so jaded I don't let my feelings get that far, until I see some kind of honest proof, but some out there are still trusting



TxBlkMistress -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:31:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Yup, get them all the time. They assume sense they mailed me I will rush right over and pick them up and take them to M/s utopia.


Yep Wulf that is about how it is, unfortunately...lol  I seem to be a human flystrip for these losers....lol 



trippingdaisy -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:35:41 PM)

i also give my apologies, Ma'am...but...i can't stop laughing.

That's horrible, but it's too funny to -not- laugh at! i certainly hope You don't have to go through something like that again. [:D]



Suleiman -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:37:51 PM)

I remember the first time some lady I met offered to fly on over from texas so that I could try her out and see if she was "worthy". This was before you could put a "friends only" marker on your profile, and I was a little taken aback at the speed with which she made the offer, since I had only sent her one friendly Email. She disappeared about five messages later, having apparantly found something better to do with her time.

Luckily, for the most part, I don't (usually) get blind emails - being male, a switch, and bisexual apparantly confuses most of the trolls - and since I DO read profiles, most of the contacts I have made are favorable, but every so often I get one like that.

Ah, well. I guess that means I can only share my time and attentions with my lovely, female, switch, bisexual wife. Like calls to like, after all.



enigmabrat -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:39:43 PM)

jees honestly I think he is playing games I would bet he didnt even have a Mistress
I doubt he is a sub but he is just looking for attention. just ignore him.



Wulfchyld -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:42:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

Yep Wulf that is about how it is, unfortunately...lol  I seem to be a human flystrip for these losers....lol 


Don't worry Darlin, I think I have a good share of the fem losers so you don't have to shoulder all the burden.



Misstoyou -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:50:02 PM)

I haven't gotten that one yet, though I'm sure it's only a matter of time. {sigh}

I have gotten multiple petitions from guys who have profiles with "Dommes" saying "This one is mine, do not contact." It's just sad. Either they're fantasy Dommes, or they're being played.



DarkDaddyZ -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 8:58:01 PM)

Or the what I call "Pissing On The Tree" aspect.

Though I dont' see that with female Dommes as much as male Dominants.  You know the one's that make you put "Under consideration to God Lord Saint Leatherflogger Master Number One"

But I guess the subs get find ways to get their rocks off too.



MsMacComb -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/4/2006 10:24:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress
Since I'd been through this before I didn't even bother to respond, but that wasn't good enough, guess he had to have some response to finish off his jerk off session, so he has some "friend" email me to say that his buddy was sorry that he wasted my time, that he couldn't contact me because his Mistress aquired his account and that he was in a chastity device and caged as we speak (tmi)...um...yeah    Of course the friend had pretty much the exact profile as he did except the age was 21 instead of 41.
 

God Lord, with all that going on when did he have time to jerk off, lol? [:)]



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 12:11:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld
Don't worry Darlin, I think I have a good share of the fem losers so you don't have to shoulder all the burden.


I'd be willing to bet that 90% of your fem losers are not, in fact, fem. 



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 12:14:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

God Lord, with all that going on when did he have time to jerk off, lol? [:)]


Ms MacComb,

Has there ever been a man who DIDN'T have time to jerk off?



Suleiman -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 12:23:13 AM)

You can type one-handed, especially if you've got a laptop with one of those teeny little keyboards. Helps to explain some of their typos, dosen't it?

(All my typos are the result of not paying attention. Pay no attention to the little pope in my right hand. Under no circumstances should you genuflect. Move along. Move along. Nothing to see here. Why are you still reading this?)



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 12:40:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

You can type one-handed, especially if you've got a laptop with one of those teeny little keyboards. Helps to explain some of their typos, dosen't it?

(All my typos are the result of not paying attention. Pay no attention to the little pope in my right hand. Under no circumstances should you genuflect. Move along. Move along. Nothing to see here. Why are you still reading this?)


True, I can type one handed.  Unfortunately, I need both of them to jerk off.

And people wonder why I've got a callus on my nose.



feastie -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 4:24:39 AM)

As a submissive woman, a lot of my email is in the form of orders.  You must do this, you must do that...

I ain't gotta "must do" anything, Buster! 

Then there are the ones that start off ok, and by the 3rd or 4th email, are making the assumption that one surely knows them well enough to accept commands from them.

I have to wonder if they are getting enough oxygen.



enigmabrat -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 4:29:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

Or the what I call "Pissing On The Tree" aspect.

Though I dont' see that with female Dommes as much as male Dominants.  You know the one's that make you put "Under consideration to God Lord Saint Leatherflogger Master Number One"

But I guess the subs get find ways to get their rocks off too.



LOL I never put that Im under consideration
Im eather with a Dom or not and if Im not then I dont take myself off the market



OhBeMyMind -> RE: Is this a new trend? (6/5/2006 5:03:38 AM)

~fast reply~

It does not matter if someone is "owned", "collared", "under consideration", "not available", "not searching for a submissive", etc. etc. etc. there are still going to be those that message anyway.  I do not know why this is, and I do ask when I get messages such as "Are you looking for a Master?", "are you looking for a dom?" regardless that my profile says "Not available".
It is just best to delete and move on, delete and move on.
So really it only stands to reason that male and female dominants also get their share of BS messages. 
Delete and move on because I honestly, at least from my experience, do not see anyone ever owning up to why they do what they do.



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