MistressMystic69
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ORIGINAL: poise
I ought to be compensated for the time it took to read this thinly veiled advertisement.
LOL so yoru telling me you think that Dommes should give their time & their money, to all the slaves just tomake them happy? LOL I am sure if you work you want to be compensated for your time working dont you?
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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
Wow. ok. That was a lot to read. I liked what was said, somethings. Just last night read a journal of some young 19 year old girl, standing on her soap box complaining about how Fin and Pro Dommes are whores, bla bla bla. It was really sad to see someone that young, who clearly in her version of what goes on,knows nothing of what Pros or Fin Dommes do.
As far as "justanothersub" and "servant4use" comments, well it would depend on if that particular Domme was selling her body for money, or being a whore. I am a Fin/Pro and have never sold Myself, and yes I will be compensated for My time. Plain and simple. (Gawd I feel like I have said that a million times) LOL.
very well said, no one is holding a gun to anyones head and making them do Financial slavery, In fact if they dont want to compensate for time spent I will be the first to tell thenm hit the bricks and look elsewhere I dont go out and hold a machine gun to their heads or anything like that lol. In the end it is their choice, hell I get approached daily, almost hourly by slaves wanting and craving Financial slavery. so again as I feel we agree on the fact that in the end the choice is theres to make , they want it then they compensate for the time and money spent on my end, they dont wnat it go elsewhere.
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ORIGINAL: Owner59
Note to sub men.......and all men......the world doesn`t revolve around you.
The pro-Dommes (or any Domme)aren`t there to serve you.Or meet your man-based sexual expectations or your selfish man-fantasies.
They provide a fantasy service.If you don`t like them......don`t seek them out or hope that you`re the one loser who will win her heart.
Until you learn to treat women as individuals and respect,are willing to seek and keep a connection and some trust,you`ll never have a real relationship......with anyone.
very well said
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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Whats the big discussion? Who the fuck cares whether these women charge or not? Thats their business. How does that affect anyone but the person whos charging and the person whos paying?
No one is forcing anyone to pay anyone / pull out their credit cards / what the fuck ever / to pay anyone anything. If they do, its their money and they can do what they fucking want to with it. WHY the fuck would anyone else care? Its not your money.
I agree with you, it should be between the two people , not anyone else but when Dommes get their accounts deleted because of this and slaves continue to do as they wish I think its kind of off base dont you ?
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ORIGINAL: DaKid8
Just from what I have seen on CM and read on profiles. It seems that most "financial dommes" just want to get money for doing nothing really except maybe some online play. I really don't like the sense of self-entitlement most of them seem to have. As far as the real life financial dommes, like prostitutes, they provide services and deserve some compensation I guess.
Also, I have seen tons of financial dommes on here. I wonder if their are any financial doms.
this is your opinion, and if you dont want to deal with Financial Dommes you dont have to no one is forcing you are they? As for you saying that they are paying for nothing thats wrong, If I waste my time on cam, phone , in person or whatever else may happen its not a chariety bazare I am not here for a free for all. do you work for free or do you expect paid for your time?
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
Prodommes have a place in the BDSM world, given the number of (mostly) male "subs" who are happy to pay a person to be a fetish delivery device.If both client and pro are happy with the arrangement, I agree whose business is it? I sure don't think it should be illegal.
Amen
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I'll give you credit where it's due, OP. You certainly invested a lot of time and keystrokes typing that out. I think you were probably trying to educate people on financial domination from your point of view, but like poise, I found it odd that you don't want to be associated with the term. Even by your own definition as someone who offers services in exchange for monetary compensation, you can't exactly go back and say that's what you do, but you don't consider yourself that. I also think it's odd that the thread comes from a very recently created profile and makes Me think there are two possibilities. One is that you didn't want the thread to come from whatever other profile you've got on the site. The other is that you had to create a new profile because your last one got yanked. I'm going to take a shot in the dark and say it was the latter if you were using it to advertise selling undergarments that you have worn. TOS is very specific on that one.
well what does /TOS say about the slaves who are doing the self same thing approaching Dommes wanting to buy things or pay for services? I guess they get a free ride and should not be deleted but Dommes should? My point is this site is here for all aspects of the lifestyle if you start hand picking then it goes to hell in a hand basket
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ORIGINAL: DaKid8
Prostitution is 1.The practice or occupation of engaging in sex with someone for payment. Or
2.The corrupt use of one's talents for personal or financial gain.
So yeah. Like a prostitute.
at no time do I sell myself, I do not have sex with these slaves, there is a big difference ini providing servives like bondage, CBT, chastity and being a whore.
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In the end it boils down to this
- what happens between two adults is there business, and no one elses. If a site is not going to allow this then they need to delete BOTH sides not just the Dommes
- no one forces the slaves to do this its their choice
- whats fair for the Domme (to be deleted) should be just as fair for the slve to be deleted
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RE: Financial Dommes, all bad? I think not - 
Profile
) is that you know she's never going to open her mouth and kill your buzz by demonstrating the fact that she's a total airhead. 
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