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ok , now lets start by pointing out the obvious
Many times you hear people talking nothing but negative about those that they tag as Financial Dommes but is this a fair assumption or more along the lines of a way to kick someone when you dont know what the situation is?
let me explain before you all jump on the soap box
Are there fakes out there who claim to be a Financial Domme, get your money and then disappear? HELL YES as I am sure many hear on a daily basis from the slaves who claim that they are always the victim and that they are all perfect little angels LOL PLEASE PEOPLE Think. So the question here would be are there fake Dommes out there who are after your money and then disappear in a cloud of dust? YES but there are just as many fake so called slaves.
Just for the record: No I do not consider myself a financial Domme but do expect to have my time compensated
Now there are those of you who say that Financial Domination has no place in this lifestyle, and that you find it offensive! Well if that were the case and all was needed to have a set of people banned from the web site was to say that 'I dont agree and I am offended' then there would be many that would never again be allowed on this site.
For example
there are those who are Gay or Lesbian (many find this offensive) should that mean that all Gay and Lesbians should be banned? NO, and again just for the record this is but one example.
I know there are many of you who will say well how the hell can a slave scam a Domme? whats that you dont think it happens or is possible? think again. slaves who come on here swearing undying loyalty to the Dom or Domme they are speaking to , telling them how they wish they would be able to relocate to them, how they would do so INSTANTLY if ony they had the money. the Dom or Domme now feeling they will get a slave in the deal sends the money, never to again see or hear from the slave again, and with them goes the money
Now that we have established that there are fakes, and scammers in both Domme, Dom, and slaves lets look at the fact that many think the concept of Financial Dommes should be done away with and that they are all scammers, WRONG
What is a Financial Domme?
does that mean the person sits at home 24 /7 doing nothing but living off the money of others? No, no more than it means that a Dom or Domme who have a slave in real time could be considered living off the work of the slave (even if the slave puts their money into the house). Fact is many of those tagged as Financial Dommes work, and earn a good living but that does not in anyway mean that they should now give away their services!!
Does this mean that a Financial Domme is going to scam everyone they come in contact with? No, it does not, things change from person to person.
Let me interject a little story that I happened to have first hand knowledge of , years ago I was part of a community where Dommes, Doms, and slaves alike would go to sit, talk, get to know each other and play games online like checkers, chess, backgammon etc. the program was called Mplayer. this group was rather large, close and we would often meet as a whole to enjoy each others company and in general enjoy the lifestyle. at one such meeting a slave met with a Dom who she had only knew a few days, he was new to the community and even though we had all agreed to safe words and calling others in the group as a safety net , this slave thought she was in love and said the hell with this. she met him went to his room , 2 days later house keeping came round to clean up the room because their time in the room was up. imagine the shock when they found the slave in the tub dead and dismembered her body packed in Ice.
does this mean everyone is a axe murder?
No it doesnt , anymore than being a Financial Domme means your satans spawn,lol.
Then what is a Financial Domme
a Financial Domme is someone who offers slaves services, they are paid for their time and service. If you had a dishnetwork man come out to install your dish would you expect his service (installing) to be free , or the monthly service (signal) to be free? would this make them a criminal or a fake if they dont make things free for you? no as much as we would like everything in life to be free it will never happen.
a Financial Domme is in short someone who offers a service, and expects to be compensated for their time, no more than any other professional. I would love to see someone go to court and say 'your honor I want to sue this car dealer, he wanted me to pay for his service of fixing my car' you would be laughed out of court cause anyone providing a service has a right to be compensated for their time.
now then before I start getting flammed or hate mails sent let me clear a few things up
- I am not anti gay or Lesbian I used the example as just that and nothing more.
- Do I believe a Financial Domme should scam others? NO, any more than I think slaves should scam the Domme
- Do I in my personal opinion think that this site should delete the accounts of the Financial Domme? NO that is unless they are also ready to delete the accounts of all slaves who contact Dommes / Doms wanting to be Financially Dominated. or the slaves / Dom / Dommes who speak of anything that is offensive to someone else (if this were to happen the site would quickly become a ghost town
Now in closing I know there are those of you who say ' meet the slave then if you want paid thats different whats the harm' well I dont know about everyone else but my time is worth allot and I dont intend to prepare for a meeting, waste gasoline, and more to find the slave as a no show. why do Financial Dommes charge for things like cam , phone etc... does it not take time to do Cam? phone? of course it does and in that light this is your reason for the cost. why do they charge for things like panties etc.
- It cost to buy the panties, or replace them
- It takes time and money to package them
- It cost money to ship them
So it stands to reason this will not be something that is free. doesnt it?
I am a good looking (insert sex of slave here) and I should not be charged no matter what I know many of you think your Gods gift, and that you should get everything in life free! think again I could care less if your the hottest man / woman alive if your taking someones (1) time (2) money through whatever means IE. shipping things, camming, phone etc. then you should be ready to make it worth their time.
Have a good day / night and enjoy your kinks and fetishes.
Well, I'd just like to say at the outset, that you've really spelled out things rather clearly.
Moreover, I'd like it to be known without any reservation that I have been looking for a woman who can take care of me in the style I've become accustomed to.
I think you may be the one I've been looking for.
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