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RE: slave contract - 4/18/2012 5:12:34 PM   
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Are you looking for a "play" contract, or legally binding one?

hmm, i wonder if the local stationary store has em'


You could just use a standard real estate rental agreement.......


ha, reminds me of Soylent Green - girl slaves came with the apt.

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RE: slave contract - 4/18/2012 5:23:01 PM   
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Are you looking for a "play" contract, or legally binding one?

hmm, i wonder if the local stationary store has em'


You could just use a standard real estate rental agreement.......




pfft not here in FL...our *standard* is 10 fucking pages long LOL


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RE: slave contract - 4/18/2012 6:26:46 PM   
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Having a slave contract is a serious issue. You will need to expand your slave subsequently.

I suggest feederism.

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RE: slave contract - 4/18/2012 6:40:30 PM   
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Are you looking for a "play" contract, or legally binding one?

hmm, i wonder if the local stationary store has em'


You could just use a standard real estate rental agreement.......


ha, reminds me of Soylent Green - girl slaves came with the apt.




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RE: slave contract - 4/18/2012 11:57:16 PM   
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Keep it simple. Big picture items. Avoid pseudo-legalese unless there is a fetish for that... what am I saying, of course it's a fetish for someone... anyway, unless legalese is your fetish, use natural language. Think of it as a summary of your verbal agreements. Realize it is symbolic, not legal.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 12:00:40 AM   
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I always thought contracts were between the D/M and s/s, legally binding only in the relationship, not that taking it to the judge because the slave won't hold up to his/her part of the contract. someone correct me if I am wrong, please.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 6:42:53 AM   
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I always thought contracts were between the D/M and s/s, legally binding only in the relationship, not that taking it to the judge because the slave won't hold up to his/her part of the contract. someone correct me if I am wrong, please.


Actually, you're understating it. It is not legally binding in any way. If the contract ever ends up in court, it will be damning to the Dom because it shows that all actions (BDSM basically involves assault because consent is not recognized in these situations) were premeditated.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 6:48:44 AM   
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... because it shows that all actions (BDSM basically involves assault because consent is not recognized in these situations)...


That is not the case. Consent is recognized. If it wasn't, football players would be hauled in to court on assault charges after every game.

Sorry... Are you saying the law does not recognize consent in BDSM, or that BDSM doesn't recognize consent? In either case I still think the statement is erroneous.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 6:49:59 AM   
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Jerry Springer?

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 7:19:42 AM   
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no, I believe he is saying that hitting someone is illeagal, and consent doesn't make it legeal, because you can't consent to assualt. If a slave contract is taken to court, it would show premeditation. I believe he is right on all counts.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 7:35:06 AM   
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no, I believe he is saying that hitting someone is illeagal, and consent doesn't make it legeal, because you can't consent to assualt. If a slave contract is taken to court, it would show premeditation. I believe he is right on all counts.


Exactly. Thanks, tsatske.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 7:36:14 AM   
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no, I believe he is saying that hitting someone is illeagal, and consent doesn't make it legeal, because you can't consent to assualt. If a slave contract is taken to court, it would show premeditation. I believe he is right on all counts.


In deference to opposing opinions, my investigation of this issue seems to show that where BDSM cases have been prosecuted as assault, the action has resulted because a sub experienced more pain or injury than expected, soured on their Dom and changed their story vis a vis consent, or other such issues. Where consent can be clearly established, it is a compelling defense.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 7:39:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirLangsdorff

I always thought contracts were between the D/M and s/s, legally binding only in the relationship, not that taking it to the judge because the slave won't hold up to his/her part of the contract. someone correct me if I am wrong, please.


Contacting you.  You're wrong.  No legal value whatsoever.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 7:46:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bhruic


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no, I believe he is saying that hitting someone is illeagal, and consent doesn't make it legeal, because you can't consent to assualt. If a slave contract is taken to court, it would show premeditation. I believe he is right on all counts.


In deference to opposing opinions, my investigation of this issue seems to show that where BDSM cases have been prosecuted as assault, the action has resulted because a sub experienced more pain or injury than expected, soured on their Dom and changed their story vis a vis consent, or other such issues. Where consent can be clearly established, it is a compelling defense.


It isn't "changing their story."  It is revoking consent.  Any contract that is based on something illegal (as in you can't consent to assault) or is completely unreasonable (as in must be naked on your knees at all times) can not be held as valid.

The only possible thing any D/s contract could establish is that at one time the two were involved in activities both consented to, but anything after consent is "removed" becomes assault or abuse.  Then of course there is the concept that the s-type was coerced or pressured or forced to sign any "contract," so all activities were abusive.

Quite frankly, anyone who wants to actually bring any type of "BDSM" contract into court is hanging themselves out to dry.  In an assault case, it isn't going to help, and in any type of case involving the dissolution of a relationship, it is going to destroy both parties.   

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 10:48:23 AM   
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It isn't "changing their story."  It is revoking consent. 


Just speaking about consent... you can't revoke consent AFTER the consensual activities have happened, presuming those activities proceeded as agreed. If you do, that is changing your story vis a vis whether consent was given.

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Any contract that is based on something illegal (as in you can't consent to assault) or is completely unreasonable (as in must be naked on your knees at all times) can not be held as valid.


I presume you are talking specifically about BDSM... as many types of consensual assault are perfectly legal, such as sports, or open heart surgery. I agree with you that pretty much any slave contract, involving sexual activities such as you note, would not be considered reasonably binding under the law. Primarily because contracts require mutual consideration to be legally enforceable, and courts only recognize tangible things such as money or property as consideration. And secondly because sex is so fraught with abuse that the courts choose to err on the side of caution.

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The only possible thing any D/s contract could establish is that at one time the two were involved in activities both consented to, but anything after consent is "removed" becomes assault or abuse.  Then of course there is the concept that the s-type was coerced or pressured or forced to sign any "contract," so all activities were abusive.


That is true, I suppose, in any case where a contract is signed under duress... But I believe the onus is on the person contesting the contract to prove duress... However I agree that in the case of some kind of sexual contract, the courts will err on the side of the perceived victim.

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Quite frankly, anyone who wants to actually bring any type of "BDSM" contract into court is hanging themselves out to dry.  In an assault case, it isn't going to help, and in any type of case involving the dissolution of a relationship, it is going to destroy both parties.   


I agree, except in the case where a third party has brought forth charges against a D/s couple for whatever reason, whether it be a disgruntled third person wishing to cause them mischief, or a policeman who has come across the scene. In that case, acting together, a written agreement may well establish the consensual nature of their activity. Although I am coming to agree that in some conservative jurisdictions, even that may not help.

It doesn't seem to be a black or white matter though, as far as I can tell from legal sources.


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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 11:42:36 AM   
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It isn't "changing their story."  It is revoking consent. 


Just speaking about consent... you can't revoke consent AFTER the consensual activities have happened, presuming those activities proceeded as agreed. If you do, that is changing your story vis a vis whether consent was given.

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Any contract that is based on something illegal (as in you can't consent to assault) or is completely unreasonable (as in must be naked on your knees at all times) can not be held as valid.


I presume you are talking specifically about BDSM... as many types of consensual assault are perfectly legal, such as sports, or open heart surgery. I agree with you that pretty much any slave contract, involving sexual activities such as you note, would not be considered reasonably binding under the law. Primarily because contracts require mutual consideration to be legally enforceable, and courts only recognize tangible things such as money or property as consideration. And secondly because sex is so fraught with abuse that the courts choose to err on the side of caution.

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The only possible thing any D/s contract could establish is that at one time the two were involved in activities both consented to, but anything after consent is "removed" becomes assault or abuse.  Then of course there is the concept that the s-type was coerced or pressured or forced to sign any "contract," so all activities were abusive.


That is true, I suppose, in any case where a contract is signed under duress... But I believe the onus is on the person contesting the contract to prove duress... However I agree that in the case of some kind of sexual contract, the courts will err on the side of the perceived victim.

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Quite frankly, anyone who wants to actually bring any type of "BDSM" contract into court is hanging themselves out to dry.  In an assault case, it isn't going to help, and in any type of case involving the dissolution of a relationship, it is going to destroy both parties.   


I agree, except in the case where a third party has brought forth charges against a D/s couple for whatever reason, whether it be a disgruntled third person wishing to cause them mischief, or a policeman who has come across the scene. In that case, acting together, a written agreement may well establish the consensual nature of their activity. Although I am coming to agree that in some conservative jurisdictions, even that may not help.

It doesn't seem to be a black or white matter though, as far as I can tell from legal sources.


Please don't back off on ANYTHING you've said. Your legal analysis has been 100% correct (except where you backed off). The points raised (that you tried to address) are a mish-mash of totally incorrect and misguided lack of understanding of the law.

In summary, as you stated or alluded to:
• A breach of BDSM contract could be actionable for damages as a remedy, but service contracts are not usually enforceable as the remedy.
• Courts are VERY lax on what constitutes consideration; the seminal (not to be confused with seaminal US Sp Ct case allowed a peppercorn as consideration. Emotional support is certainly the basis of marriage, and is considered consideration.
• A contract that involves physical violence is perfectly legal, and there's obvious practical limits to that, but still well within BDSM.
• It's absurd to suggest that consent can be withdrawn or "removed" for past actions. A claim might arise that consent was exceeded, and that would be decided as a fact, unless the violence exceeded norms so much that the judge could hold it unreasonable as a matter of law.
• Contracts made under duress are never enforceable, but this is irrelevant and wasn’t part of the discussion.
• It's ludicrous to suggest that bringing in a BDSM contract into court to defend a battery charge or claim is "hanging themselves out to dry" or "won't do any good". I can't think of a better defense to battery than having a signed contract where the victim agreed to the violence. That someone would say this just blows my mind.

This person you replied to seems to make a habit of acting like she understand the law, but each word she utters shows the opposite. I only say this because she went off on a really angry and uncalled for fantasy legal rant trying to bash me for a bunch of things I never posted. And when I corrected her that I never said any of those things, rather than being an honorable adult and admitting she made a mistake, she simply ramped up the vitriol, that time slamming the legal disclaimer in my profile (at least she finally read what she was ignorantly bashing).


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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 1:14:34 PM   
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The way it was explained to me (by a lawyer) is that BDSM is illegal in some states...along with other sexual acts like oral and anal sex. You cannot sign a contract to engage in an illegal activity.

As for revoking consent for past activities: People lie and in a male Dom, female sub relationship, most vanillas will view the woman as a victim, whether it is true or not.



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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 1:46:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bhruic
In deference to opposing opinions, my investigation of this issue seems to show that where BDSM cases have been prosecuted as assault, the action has resulted because a sub experienced more pain or injury than expected, soured on their Dom and changed their story vis a vis consent, or other such issues. Where consent can be clearly established, it is a compelling defense.

Not something I know much about, but perhaps a link that supports your position here? The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom seems to disagree with you.
https://ncsfreedom.org/who-we-are/about-ncsf/item/674.html
From my link:
quote:


To date, there is not a single appellate court decision anywhere in this country that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct.


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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 1:58:36 PM   
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The way it was explained to me (by a lawyer) is that BDSM is illegal in some states...along with other sexual acts like oral and anal sex. You cannot sign a contract to engage in an illegal activity.

great points i omitted!

parts of the contract that are unlawful could be "severed" (removed) while legal parts remain. if the entire contract is too corrupted, then it would be void.

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RE: slave contract - 4/19/2012 2:06:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bhruic
In deference to opposing opinions, my investigation of this issue seems to show that where BDSM cases have been prosecuted as assault, the action has resulted because a sub experienced more pain or injury than expected, soured on their Dom and changed their story vis a vis consent, or other such issues. Where consent can be clearly established, it is a compelling defense.

Not something I know much about, but perhaps a link that supports your position here? The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom seems to disagree with you.
https://ncsfreedom.org/who-we-are/about-ncsf/item/674.html
From my link:
quote:


To date, there is not a single appellate court decision anywhere in this country that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct.


i can't wait to hear what Bhruic has to say, but please allow me to offer a quote from your link:
"A typical penal statute classifies bodily injury as serious if it “creates a substantial risk of death or causes serious, permanent disfigurement, or protracted loss or impairment of the function of any bodily member or organ.”

IMHO, that's a far cry from what any1 should be doing under the guise of BDSM.

I suggest that the only thing this proves, is that BDSM cases never even make it to court. I.e. the evidence your link offers is immensely misleading and anti-BDSM, as it never says how many complaints of excessive BDSM never make it to court. And again, no BDSM should be causing what's described in that legal definition I quoted from your link.


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