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crazyml -> RE: would you play with a newbie? (7/9/2012 12:59:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirfox27 What reason would you play with a newbie with little to some knowledge of bdsm. Well, it might be because we get on well beyond kink. It might be that her interests are well aligned with mine. Mostly, it'll be because she's hawt. quote: How about some one with some experience and know how. Well, it might be because we get on well beyond kink. It might be that her interests are well aligned with mine. Mostly, it'll be because she's hawt. quote: Then we have the very experienced and knowledgeable. They may allready have a dom or sub. Now why do you play with them. If she's single then... It might be because we get on well beyond kink. It might be that her interests are well aligned with mine. Mostly, it'll be because she's hawt. If she's not, then I'd be unlikely to play. But, I think you'll have picked up a pattern by now..

mons -> RE: would you play with a newbie? (7/9/2012 5:10:40 AM)
I find that in CM many of the dominants help one another with answer to many question even a experience domme can use! This also goes for the experince submissives they help the new ones with questions and gave back answers they help dominant as well! Each person is new, some have loads of experience, other have none but we each need to start somewhere! This is a learning BDSM place it is one that really seeks out others whether they are new or other wise ! Here I find that many of the people here give safe and sane wed sites and other materials for all! Poise what a great statement it is so true it is not the knots on his belt but the chemistry that is between persons! Fun darn place at times mons ( bad typist I hope it is understood )

TricklessMagic -> RE: would you play with a newbie? (7/9/2012 6:28:32 AM)
Part of my kink has always been the newbs, you got to love them. Granted I'm a Dominant and of the opinion that all submissives have to be "trained" to my tastes. There's just so much fun to be had breaking and conditioning a new submissive. The anxiety, the apprehension, and the following ecstasy of the surrender and new experience. The growing closeness and intimacy. Hell my fiancee has been my submissive for nearly three years and she's still a "newbie." I could rush to break her and turn her into a thoughtless nonstop orgasming slut but what would be the point, we're monogamish and planning to spend the rest of our lives together. Most experienced sumbissives that I've ever dealt with, have had little advantage to newbies. For numerous reasons. Oh sure experienced newbie submissives don't hold back as much sexually, and can tend to be more sexually aggressive and liberated. But a few good fuck-their-brains-out sessions will help get them on their way there. If they don't respond positively, then they aren't for me. Some experienced submissives will know to pose/present, use "Sir" (Master, etc.). But for the most part, you have to train your own. Which is what any good D/s should be in my opinion. So I love newbie submissives, but then again, in my opinion the majority of femaile submissives is newb no matter what they do, because I haven't trained and conditioned them. My lifetime fantasy with my fiancee (submissive for life), is to take on thirds over time and train them, break them, and condition them in ways no other Dom/Domme can and send them free into the world to find their other half, insatiable and incapable of ever being satisfied by anyone other than me. I love newbies.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: would you play with a newbie? (7/9/2012 3:15:50 PM)
sirfox27, What matters more to me than experience is their mindset and willingness. I hate to say it, there are some very experienced "lame fucks". Experience itself can be over-rated or over hyped. Says very little about a persons level of passion, open mindedness, creative nature and well you get the idea. Besides it's fun corrupting the innocent. LOL Also, some experienced people can be set or used to things a certain way, which can be a pain in the ass to deal with.

FollowMyLead1 -> RE: would you play with a newbie? (7/9/2012 3:45:32 PM)
I have been involved in D/s my entire adult life. Newbies have their advantages. First of all, they aren't trained the way someone else wants them trained. More importantly I get a thrill knowing that when I am doing something to them, that they have never had it done to them before. It makes it all new to me, even if it's something I've done 1000 times before.

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