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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Ok, sure...I'm awake and bored so I'll bite.

What's in it for those of us who are generous enough to help you get your freak on? Do you plan to pay us? Send us gifts? Clean our houses or mow our lawns? This is your first post, so one here knows you from Adam. You mean nothing to us so where's the fun for us? Why should we help you?

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ORIGINAL: tsuta

... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy?

personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him.

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ORIGINAL: tsuta
... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy?

personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

tsuta, if you think he actually came for 'nice', I would have to disagree. He came to be humiliated and involve strangers with his kink. He opened a door he had to know... especially with his experience and age, that would provide what he most likely wanted. What respectful, experienced submissive that respected his own deceased dominant, would act in such a way? The kind that likes to be humiliated.

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ORIGINAL: risktaker9

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ORIGINAL: tsuta

... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy?

personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him.

You say you didn't give the OP what he wanted because you were uncomfortable, so you feel that others are supposed to take the same uncomfortable feeling and just be quiet? Have you ever entertained the idea that some learning could be done? Do you know how amazingly often guys pop in here to offer up their penises? So often that it becomes repetitive to the extreme. Even for those of us who like penises it might be nice to chat about other things than some individual's penis and what he likes to do with it.

He didn't come for a chat or to begin a discussion on this discussion board...he came to satisfy his penis and ask strangers to jump in and get him off, and we're all just supposed to ignore that attitude of entitlement and be nice to the penis-obsessed gentleman? I figure it as he committed a faux pas of biblical proportions for assuming that an entire group of strangers cared about satisfying his sexual needs. We're not talking about a chat about innocuous things. There is a regular poster here that asks all kinds of personal questions about health, home maintenance, brands of shampoo, etc and is always treated kindly even when it's done constantly. When you come in leading with your kink and expecting people to care about getting you off it gets presumptuous and intrusive, if someone bites back so to speak I think that's fair.

My Mom used to say if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. I figure that's a good rule of thumb for many areas in life. However, when someone goes over the line of personal space and gets into yours and is attempting to use you for something he/she wants, that's fair game to let them know how you feel. I don't see anything mean about that. To use another common sentiment...he started it. Therefore he gets what he gets.

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ORIGINAL: tsuta

maybe i'm naive and a bit clueless but i really don't see how putting a link and saying, if you want to, you can make my *chastity* last longer, equate to asking people to "play/please his penis". I mean it's a chastity device, not a vibrating "fleshlight".

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ORIGINAL: tsuta

maybe i'm naive and a bit clueless but i really don't see how putting a link and saying, if you want to, you can make my *chastity* last longer, equate to asking people to "play/please his penis". I mean it's a chastity device, not a vibrating "fleshlight". But i dunno, maybe i'm not reading into this far enough. Or maybe some people here are reading into this too far.

I said i was uncomfortable with the idea of participating, myself, because well this isn't my kink (not surprising i mean, i'm a sub) and anonymousness isn't my kink either, but there are people
who are into making people chaste, and there are people who are into anonymous/online play/sex, and well, maybe not impossibly, people who are into both those things and i'm guessing the guy tried his
luck and posted this, in case people like that would see it.

i mean just coz it's not your kink doesn't mean that the intention of the OP are force his penis into people's face. You have the choice to participate or ignore. There's no need to flame the guy.

Well it's just my opinion. When i see bullying that i feel is unnecessary, i don't like it and i'm puzzled by it. Maybe i'm too blind/naive and just havent hanged around this forum enough or i'd agree with you and say that you're all right to bash the guy, maybe he's just some douche who's wanking while reading the verbal humiliation but you don't really have any proof of that. Maybe he's really just some guy who asked people if anybody would feel like clicking a link to make him feel some kind of pseudo dominance on his life *shrug*. I guess i understand where some of you are coming from, now, with those replies. I didn't think of it that way. Bah anyway i don't think i'll argue this more now.

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ORIGINAL: risktaker9


You say you didn't give the OP what he wanted because you were uncomfortable, so you feel that others are supposed to take the same uncomfortable feeling and just be quiet? Have you ever entertained the idea that some learning could be done? Do you know how amazingly often guys pop in here to offer up their penises? So often that it becomes repetitive to the extreme. Even for those of us who like penises it might be nice to chat about other things than some individual's penis and what he likes to do with it.

He didn't come for a chat or to begin a discussion on this discussion board...he came to satisfy his penis and ask strangers to jump in and get him off, and we're all just supposed to ignore that attitude of entitlement and be nice to the penis-obsessed gentleman? I figure it as he committed a faux pas of biblical proportions for assuming that an entire group of strangers cared about satisfying his sexual needs. We're not talking about a chat about innocuous things. There is a regular poster here that asks all kinds of personal questions about health, home maintenance, brands of shampoo, etc and is always treated kindly even when it's done constantly. When you come in leading with your kink and expecting people to care about getting you off it gets presumptuous and intrusive, if someone bites back so to speak I think that's fair.

My Mom used to say if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. I figure that's a good rule of thumb for many areas in life. However, when someone goes over the line of personal space and gets into yours and is attempting to use you for something he/she wants, that's fair game to let them know how you feel. I don't see anything mean about that. To use another common sentiment...he started it. Therefore he gets what he gets.

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ORIGINAL: tsuta

Well it's just my opinion. When i see bullying that i feel is unnecessary, i don't like it and i'm puzzled by it. Maybe i'm too blind/naive and just havent hanged around this forum enough or i'd agree with you and say that you're all right to bash the guy, maybe he's just some douche who's wanking while reading the verbal humiliation but you don't really have any proof of that. Maybe he's really just some guy who asked people if anybody would feel like clicking a link to make him feel some kind of pseudo dominance on his life *shrug*. I guess i understand where some of you are coming from, now, with those replies. I didn't think of it that way. Bah anyway i don't think i'll argue this more now.