Karmastic
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
karmastic,
Seemingly, I am not the only one that 'misunderstands' you and your true intent or motive. I don't care really how people post. However they post, they will get a response. I tend to speak directly and speak my mind or take of a thing. From time to time I may sound judgmental or as if I am directing. This I know about myself and have no difficulty in clearing a matter up or explaining myself or motive further.
I rarely get into things with people where misunderstandings abound. However, I am noting that you are new to these forums and seem to have some serious difficulty in being understood or have reason for lengthy debates, that tend to end with... we will agree to disagree or something like it, with nothing resolved. An argument/debate that went no where but an argument/debate.
Rather than debate a thing without insult somewhere down the line there is insult, from either side, but from what I am seeing, you tend to lead in that.
In this thread, someone did something that the majority found faulty for one reason or another and they expressed how they felt about it. You challenged that, as your right on a public forum. Kudo's... but... it really seems that you have come to a forcefulness in a manner that isn't conductive to proving a point or being seen as reasonable or someone that many wish to actually come to respect through a debate. I could be wrong... but, that is my take. Again, this is something to be expected on a public forum.
Now, if you would appreciate that I not evaluate your posts or anything else, then stop evaluating me, my post, my position in any debate and we can call it good and get back to the thread topic.
The man wants time added to his chastity and the responses of anyone that cares to respond. Not the right or not for people to respond as they do. The moderators have a job to do and they can determine if any of us are out of line. Until I see a gold letter from you, I don't consider you a mod and you won't be effective in moderating or attacking those that respond in a manner you find faulty.
Unless we can move on and go from talking about what we find wrong with one another... lets just stop this now, no winner, no need for a winner... but basically... each backing off and getting back to the topic or taking it private. Thank you.
that's all good and fine, and taken in the best spirit. IMHO, us debating and expanding on the topic (notwithstanding perceived insults) is a worthy thing and contributes to a thread that would otherwise be dead. or at least, we're not stopping others from doing so. seems like you yourself are projecting gold letters onto me but doing it yourself.
i only hope that you will read my words, and try to avoid what we all do, which is to shoot them though our own emotionally charged prisms to read/see what we want to and not what's written. i will never assume things about you because of what you wrote. i will ask you first. and none of my actual words do that to any1 else.
i don't feel a need to take it further in private...but despite everything, i do sincerely thank you for your sincere input and opinions, here and in the future, whether it's off topic or not, private or not. it's all good to me since (hopefully) all of us learn and grow from these exchanges.
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