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bindlanley -> So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 8:02:23 AM)
Greetings! I have been in CM over the past few years but like many, I got discouraged, deleted the profile and went on my way. But of course I am back. I am simply seeking friends first. My profile has more details but I am truly interested in meeting up with a female sub (no CD's or trannies - sorry, not into that) who would enjoy some rope play. I do travel from time to time and am not limited to the Los Angeles area. Know I am married so if that bothers you just move on. Not interested in LTR or being your sugar daddy. But being a friend is always a good start. Contact me at [Mod Edit: Contact Info removed as a Violation of TOS/Community Guidelines] IM if you would like more info. Wishing you all the best on your journey. BL

poise -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 8:51:54 AM)
Welcome back, and better luck to you this time around.

TNDommeK -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 11:34:11 AM)
Welcome, the Admins will probably come along and erase your yahoo addy. You should read the TOS and that might help a bit.

VideoAdminGamma -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 11:38:35 AM)
Did someone turn the Gamma light on? Thank you for being a part of CollarMe, VideoAdminGamma quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Welcome, the Admins will probably come along and erase your yahoo addy. You should read the TOS and that might help a bit.

TNDommeK -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 11:41:39 AM)
LOL

OsideGirl -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 1:00:22 PM)
Welcome to the forums. LA has a huge community, there's still a small amount that would tolerate your marital status.

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/21/2012 8:28:53 PM)
Is the pic ok? Yahoo addy can go...no worries...sorry about that but read the TOS like five years ago and didn't do well on the quiz. ;)

kalikshama -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/22/2012 6:27:04 AM)
People rarely complain about boobs but do find a profile full of BDSM pics from the Internet lame. Like I just said to the Boston rope guy - if you are a member of rope groups that might give you some cred and networking opportunities with other rope aficionados. I used to play with a married man in an open, long distance relationship, but although he was excellent technically, the lack of relationship potential killed it for me. I personally would not let a cheating married man tie me up in private as he wouldn't be able to create trust for he has already established himself as a liar.

ashjor911 -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/22/2012 6:36:38 AM)
Welcome

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/22/2012 6:53:35 AM)
Ouch. Thanks for your brutal honesty. Perhaps I should just delete the married part and get in line with the myriad of other liars of both genders here.

OohAahMrs -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 6:41:18 AM)
Liars? Pardon. You see, you just could'nt keep away.

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 7:20:59 AM)
Tongue in cheek my friend. I am grand company on here.

OohAahMrs -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 7:32:47 AM)
Yes, i know you know, did you also detect the tongue in my cheek? By the way, "grand" i only hear it used in that way around my neck of the woods, which is Westmorland, or old westmorland. Grand Company, never hear it these days, makes me think about the good times.

amaidiamond -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 7:32:54 AM)
Really? There are SOME who will accept married and cheating... If a guy is going to cheat better he is honest about what he is (after all if he is ashamed of it he shouldn't be doing it) than lie to people about what he is.. At least that way women can make an informed choice about if thats a person they want to engage in...

kalikshama -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 8:08:22 AM)
quote: Ouch. Thanks for your brutal honesty. Perhaps I should just delete the married part and get in line with the myriad of other liars of both genders here. Women who aren't naive or in sub frenzy would detect your marital status in no time at all - your regular unavailability and inability to host is a dead giveaway. For me, trust is an integral part of BDSM. When I let someone tie me up, I have to trust that he won't violate my stated limits, won't fuck me without a condom, won't hurt me. If I know that you are willing to lie to the woman you love, how can I trust you to behave honorably with me? Not to worry though, women cheat too, but finding that subsection decreases your odds even more.

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 8:39:27 PM)
Must have rubbed on me, the term Grand, when I did some sabbatical work in London in 2005. Really enjoy your land. The food? Well....another story... thanks my friend for the banter.

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 8:44:19 PM)
Its interesting how the assumption always goes to the default of cheating. I am not interested in sex with another or sneaking around. I am interested in rope play. I started down the D/s road in 1993 on the IRC Dalnet chat days, aol chat rooms and yahoo chat...news groups...talking with people in the lifestyle and I have met many wonderful (non condemning men and women) over time. I have a good time and enjoy myself. I am not everyone's cup of tea and I won't die if I don't find what I seek. I am not insane and pretty balanced actually. Anyway, thank you amaidiamond for your response. Food for thought.

bindlanley -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/23/2012 8:48:00 PM)
Honestly, I don't care if it "decreases my odds" or not. I have taken a step to actually introduce myself in an honest way, which, has been interesting to do, since I pretty much ignore bulletin boards or chat rooms on CM. Gives me a little motivation to see what is said and done over here. I am interested to see how tolerant people can be. I would expect to be judged at a church site. But here? Thanks for your feed back kalikshama. Cheers.

kalikshama -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/24/2012 6:08:54 AM)
quote: Its interesting how the assumption always goes to the default of cheating. I am not interested in sex with another or sneaking around. I am interested in rope play. Well, when you pair "married" with "discretion," "cheating" does tend to spring to mind. I would personally not consider rope play alone to be cheating, but the important thing is what would your wife think? If she doesn't have a problem with it, ignore everything I've said other than my suggestion to join local rope groups.

OsideGirl -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (4/24/2012 7:06:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bindlanley I would expect to be judged at a church site. But here? Translation: You expect people on a kink based site to have no morals.

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