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amaidiamond -> RE: So Cal Dom looking for fem sub rope play partners (5/6/2012 3:08:15 PM)
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To be fair "married" and "discrete" usually does = cheating, along with desire for "role play" - In your case you are saying it doesnt which is fair enough -
I was not trying to judge, simply responding to your suggestion that you lie about your maritial status - much better to be honest about it imho then people can decide for themselves....
I also wouldnt consider just rope to be cheating, the best rule of thumb though as mentioned is what your primary partner would think and how they would see it..
For me the definition of "cheating" means doing something with another person that is hidden from the primary partner, regardless of what that something is (ie to some people a parner having cyber sex is cheating to others it isnt)
I'd say as long as all is above board and your wife is ok with it all then there is indeed no cheating etc going on :)
Good luck
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