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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 11:39:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave

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We like to poke sharp sticks at the new passer bys.

^^ THAT MADE ME CRY TEARS OF LAUGHTER LOL

My work here is done!

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 11:50:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave
no when people are quoting me then making personal jibes THATS ATTACKING ME

Chris, man, chill. You play games on the Internet. You know when people are attacking you for real. These ladies are having a conversation. It doesn't mean you're unworthy of finding kinky yumminess.

This is what I think a mature adult would do after reading this thread:

1. Ask a female friend (or a gay male friend) to take some photos of him outdoors, especially ones where he was smiling and standing next to something pretty.

2. Mention the work he is doing for self-improvement in his profile.

3. Talk about the things he is good at in his profile, and what he would like to see in a partner, and what he could offer her.

I also agree with all the "meet people in real life" advice. But even young women are going to have similar filters when they look at you to these also-young women who have posted on this thread. Lead with your strengths, not your weaknesses. Don't present yourself as, "I'm an unsmiling dude in a cluttered room who lives with my parents," and then get pissed when a woman doesn't take time to find out more. Present yourself as a happy man and a gentleman with a lot to offer.

Think of the profile writing as an exercise for how you should present yourself in general. This is exactly what is meant by, "Best foot forward." Right now, you're leading with your not-best foot. That's easy enough to change.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 12:03:45 PM

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*sigh*

yet again... I think I love you

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 12:09:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave

lol i like how some of you are judging me based on what very little you know about my life, i play videogames as both an escape and a creative outlet, they inspire me, as for living at home, im studying and until im 25 its cheaper to stay at home and keep buying new courses.

I think half of you are too quick to judge people based on an image, for your information i spend most of my money on learning courses, im currently doing four, my main hobby is gaming that is correct but it dont control my life.

I'm not arrogant or self-confident anything and i dont feel the world owes me anything, but just because im submissive does not mean anyone here has the right to verbally attack me, if i want you too i would ask you to, i can carry a decent conversation, talk to me about heavy metal music, horror films, games, history, sci fi, books and i could answer with a decent degree of knownledge

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LOL i was not asking for me i just want to get an idea of what people like....

Since you're not asking about yourself personally, the answers are not directed at you personally. Why then are you taking them personally? It just makes you look like an immature jackass :)

ETA: And what does it matter what someone you're not interested in thinks of your relationship appeal to them anyway?

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 12:19:01 PM

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Oh I don't know, he's not doing that badly. I think the boy can hold his own.

Unlike some others here, your age would not be a hindrance to me. I know plenty of people in their 50s who are very immature and ignorant, and some fairly young ones (under 35) who are quite mature and knowledgeable about a wide variety of things.

What turns me off? First, someone who sees me as a fetish delivery device and so has zero interest in me as a person. Second, someone who is so worried they might say or do the wrong thing that I have to pull info out of them. I need someone who can kick back and be themselves, not some fantasy of who they *think* I want. Third, I need a high standard of honesty. Someone who can't be honest with me will not last long.

Best, CP

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 12:39:00 PM

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this site is on massive paradox, you people moan if someone asks a questions in a thread that tells people to ask a question, you then say you want people to hold their own, when they do you call them immature, I'm not gonna stand there and be insulted, i FIGHT BACK i learnt that from an early age, now if i was in a relationship with someone it would be different i would take criticism but you guys and girls are strangers and have no right to judge me, i asked a question and you attack me for it...WHOS IMMATURE?

This is what I think a mature adult would do after reading this thread:

1. Ask a female friend (or a gay male friend) to take some photos of him outdoors, especially ones where he was smiling and standing next to something pretty.

2. Mention the work he is doing for self-improvement in his profile.

3. Talk about the things he is good at in his profile, and what he would like to see in a partner, and what he could offer her.

I also agree with all the "meet people in real life" advice. But even young women are going to have similar filters when they look at you to these also-young women who have posted on this thread. Lead with your strengths, not your weaknesses. Don't present yourself as, "I'm an unsmiling dude in a cluttered room who lives with my parents," and then get pissed when a woman doesn't take time to find out more. Present yourself as a happy man and a gentleman with a lot to offer.

Think of the profile writing as an exercise for how you should present yourself in general. This is exactly what is meant by, "Best foot forward." Right now, you're leading with your not-best foot. That's easy enough to change.

I DONT POST PICTURES OF ME OUTDOORS BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE PEOPLE WITH ME IN THEM THAT YOU OR ANYONE ON THIS SITE HAS NO BUSINESS SEEING

As for my age I'm 19 not 5, ive dealt with alot that most of you haven't and came through it, I could move out but i would rather use the extra money from staying at home to finance my future so when i do move out there are less issues, my room is cluttered because i have alot of stuff and a 5 by 8 foot space to keep it all.

instead of attack me HOW ABOUT YOU ANSWER THE QUESTION ABOVE...YOU KNOW THE WHOLE POINT IN THIS THREAD

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Oh I don't know, he's not doing that badly. I think the boy can hold his own.

Unlike some others here, your age would not be a hindrance to me. I know plenty of people in their 50s who are very immature and ignorant, and some fairly young ones (under 35) who are quite mature and knowledgeable about a wide variety of things.

Best, CP

THANK YOU!

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:02:08 PM

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What puts me off....Grumpy old farts with no sense of humor. Boys that do drag but don't bother to look, or act, nice while they do it. Girls that don't know what Kolbalt tools are. Either gender that doesn't love art, music, books, and horror movies. People that can't handle my mood or the way it swings. Boys that can't keep up. Girls that won't shut up. Liars of any form.

And as for the fire storm that is often these forums when it comes to new people...OP, keep at it sooner or later (if you don't say to many stupid things or get bent about other people saying them) the boards get nicer.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:05:26 PM

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thank you both

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:05:55 PM

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(Please excuse the temporary thread jack, ty.)

I have to say, I LOVE the new avatar, MIP !!

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:10:21 PM

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(FOR BEING SO POLITE YOUR HIJACKING IS WELCOMED)

Yes its a beautiful pic MIP

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:12:25 PM

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Thank you Chatte, pet says I look pissed in it (I was really just tired)

Back to the topic though (because I forgot one) People that keep saying Drop Kick Murphys are better than Flogging Molly. Not only do they put me off...they make me want to smack them.

Thank you too, Chris.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:14:30 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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Being polite serves you well here (as it does in real life).

You do look pissed, MIP, I think that's why I like it.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:28:00 PM

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hahaha Someone (dom) msged me the other day to tell me I just had to be sub because my picture looked so sad.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:32:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

hahaha Someone (dom) msged me the other day to tell me I just had to be sub because my picture looked so sad.

I'm imaginging your response to be along the lines of "No, I'm just sad to get messages like this from people like you"

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:38:04 PM

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I told him I was impressed he could suck his own dick. He msged me back to ask me what made me think he could do that. I then told me because surely no one would say something as stupid as he just had unless their mouth was stuffed with cock. He called me a bitch and blocked me

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:40:33 PM

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deserved it...a picture dont mean anything i have pics on my computer of me with leather gloves that i look i quote "scary" in, id still make a terrible dominant lol

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 1:53:06 PM

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He called me a bitch and blocked me

Is there a way you know when someone blocks you other than being told or attempting to write?

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 2:28:21 PM

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That is how I knew he blocked me. I tried to msg him to tell him he was right about me being a bitch.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 4:20:43 PM

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Heehee, thanks.

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RE: What puts you off? - 4/23/2012 4:38:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave
no when people are quoting me then making personal jibes THATS ATTACKING ME

Chris, man, chill. You play games on the Internet. You know when people are attacking you for real. These ladies are having a conversation. It doesn't mean you're unworthy of finding kinky yumminess.

This is what I think a mature adult would do after reading this thread:

1. Ask a female friend (or a gay male friend) to take some photos of him outdoors, especially ones where he was smiling and standing next to something pretty.

2. Mention the work he is doing for self-improvement in his profile.

3. Talk about the things he is good at in his profile, and what he would like to see in a partner, and what he could offer her.

I also agree with all the "meet people in real life" advice. But even young women are going to have similar filters when they look at you to these also-young women who have posted on this thread. Lead with your strengths, not your weaknesses. Don't present yourself as, "I'm an unsmiling dude in a cluttered room who lives with my parents," and then get pissed when a woman doesn't take time to find out more. Present yourself as a happy man and a gentleman with a lot to offer.

Think of the profile writing as an exercise for how you should present yourself in general. This is exactly what is meant by, "Best foot forward." Right now, you're leading with your not-best foot. That's easy enough to change.

This...

And I would like to add, for each person that thinks playing video games is a turn off, there is someone else who think people who can't understand wanting to play them is a real turn off.

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