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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

And I would like to add, for each person that thinks playing video games is a turn off, there is someone else who think people who can't understand wanting to play them is a real turn off.

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave

Ok so when you look at a sub and consider them, what puts you off, what things instantly make you go "I am not taking on a sub like that?" equally what makes you want a sub?

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
for each person that thinks playing video games is a turn off, there is someone else who think people who can't understand wanting to play them is a real turn off.

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ORIGINAL: Alecta

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
for each person that thinks playing video games is a turn off, there is someone else who think people who can't understand wanting to play them is a real turn off.

I don't consider video games a turn on/off, I see it as a cockblock.
No matter how turned on/off you are by a gamer (chick), you're not getting any, not while s/he's on the game. True story. lol

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

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ORIGINAL: Alecta

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
for each person that thinks playing video games is a turn off, there is someone else who think people who can't understand wanting to play them is a real turn off.

I don't consider video games a turn on/off, I see it as a cockblock.
No matter how turned on/off you are by a gamer (chick), you're not getting any, not while s/he's on the game. True story. lol

Alecta, I really don't want to say you are wrong....but....blow, or in the case of a girl, eat a gamer well enough and they will throw a controller and forget about anything but you.

*edit to add* and if that ^ doesn't work (though I have never seen it not work) just take the power cord to their console and beat them with it. Either way you will have their undivided attention.

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ORIGINAL: Alecta

Lucifyre, that reply deserves its own thread lol

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave

Ok so when you look at a sub and consider them, what puts you off, what things instantly make you go "I am not taking on a sub like that?" equally what makes you want a sub?

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ORIGINAL: subbyinlosangele



A lot of this stuff is pretty commonsensical. Dommes -- like everyone else -- tend to dislike:

1. Men who write to them in a generic way without taking the time to really read their profiles and making it clear why they are writing to them specifically.
2. Men who put up a facade and pretend to be something other than themselves.
3. Men who want to be instantly dommed and make outrageous claims of affection for a complete stranger.
4. Men who do a poor job putting their profile together -- spelling mistakes, poor photo choices, and the like say a lot because you have complete control over how you want to present yourself
5. Men who lead with kink and fetishes, instead of being a human being first.
6. Men who (unasked) sent pictures of their penises.
7. Men who don't sent clear pictures that present a fair idea of what their face and body (in a g-rated way) look like.
8. Men who use the word "I" too much, in terms of focusing totally on their own needs.
9. Men who pretend they have no needs.

In a nutshell it's about honesty. We all have different criteria of who we want in a partner. Two men can be equally worthy and one can be right for one woman, and wrong for another. So present your best version of yourself, but be yourself.

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ORIGINAL: chrisvirginslave

Ok so when you look at a sub and consider them, what puts you off, what things instantly make you go "I am not taking on a sub like that?" equally what makes you want a sub?

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

The oral sex thing is a little subjective and to be honest (there is not polite way to say this) you have to eat it like you are staving to death but done correctly you get them off while they are on the game and done enough times when they start to think about the game they will think about you (sorry horrid run on sentence there) Yay for Pavlovic conditioning.

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

:) Luci I love your answer. Some people might read what you said as a sub with attitude but I see it as someone fun that isn't willing to put up with being ignored or treated as if they aren't worth getting what they really want. I imagine you are a lot of fun to play with.