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lizi -> RE: releasing a slave (5/19/2012 6:11:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Mainmajic
Seems like Travelen has many question to answer about himself. First off, what was promised by you and offered by her in exchange for her submission?
Was it mutually agreed upon and written down? Who broke what rules and when? When did the contract breakdown and you decided it was time to exit?
Only you can answer this Travelen, Taking a sub or a slave is serious business. It should be well thought through before engaging someone. Slaves are not playthings to be easily dismissed unless of course they signed on as a plaything.
I myself have reconsidered after previously thinking I was ready for said person when I clearly was not. It hurt, it hurt her alot and I think about it all the time.
So to end this, Safe, Sane, and Consensual is not just a catch phrase. Slaves & subs are not something you pick when you go on vacation like a T-shirt, they are a reflection of you, how you treat them at all times is a reflection of your humanity and character.
Great first post, hope to see you around more often.
One point I would argue is that even if someone signed on to be a plaything, being the OP's toy for 20 years deserves more consideration than a wave of the hand dismissal no matter what circumstances the woman signed up under. Even a playtoy for an evening deserves some type of consideration for being human, as we aren't disposable wipes and require some watching after in basic safety if nothing else.
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