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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
-Imagine her telling you to go outside and mow her lawn. Then say, "Yes Ma'am".
-Imagine her telling you to get down on your knees. Then say, "Yes Ma'am".
-Imagine her telling you to mop her floors. Then say, "Yes Ma'am".
-Imagine her telling you to go to Walmart and buy her some things. Then say, "Yes Ma'am".
-Imagine her telling you to rub her feet. Then say, "Yes Ma'am"
-Imagine her telling you to wash her car. Then say, "Yes Ma'am".
Change "telling" to "asking," and if she's vanilla, change "Yes Maam," to, "Yes honey," or if she's a sub and you change it to, "I do love indulging my baby girl," and you will have more sexual attention than you can handle. Kinky women just aren't that different from, well, women women.
After a recent stroll down memory lane with a switchy ex I can tell you that the "I do love indulging my babygirl" line works wonders on me (Imma Switch). It makes me want to do for him even while I want to bind, flog and wax him into a coma. It feeds both aspects of my switch personality. It says that he is doing for me what I want him to do, and is doing it out of a love to please me, but at the same time, it acknowledges the sub aspect of my personality, and shows that it is me in totality that he loves and wants to make happy.
I have also heard of such an animal as a Service Dominant, but have never encountered one in person, and know very little about the dynamic in terms of how it works or what it means in the whole big wide world of BDSM.
I will tell you that what you need to remember above anything is that a woman is a woman. The role that we fill in terms of the lifestyle, personal kink or fetish is nothing more than a way to compartmentalize that part of ourselves. You can approach a woman as a sub, but still treat her as a lady. Instead of sending the normal cheese email of "Hello Mistress, how are you..." Try something like..."Hi, I read your profile, I read your journal, and I think we may have some things in common. I would like to get to know you, if you have time, and are likewise interested in me." Attach a tasteful pic (first time pics that are cock shots are just stupid and in some cases revolting) and do not assume that you need to email her 9999 times to get her attention. If she reads your profile, which I would make sure is detailed about who you are, and not what you want to do to get your dick wet in a kinky way (there is a section on the site that lets you indicate what you like and don't like, an interested woman will do more than give you a glance and will look at these things in detail, as you should before contacting her.) From the gate, you are showing respect on more than one level, and that will catch the eye of many dominant women.
I will say that most of the information is is suggestive and subjective from each woman's perspective, but you should consider each piece as part of a giant puzzle. Just as no two men are exactly the same, nor are two women cut from the same cloth.
And Red! WTF!?
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Why ya tellin it all like that?
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