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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:22:05 PM   
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So clearly, after a couple of pages, this text gets a mixed reception - But the important thing about any piece of writing isn't how it connects to others, it's how it connects to you - so if this is important to you, don't let us curmudgeons change your view an iota!



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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:23:48 PM   
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Oh and, your crying post... rockin.

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:25:19 PM   
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If a guy thinks it will get him laid, he will ramble that long and more.
I wouldn't. Such a speech would make me physically ill.






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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:25:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Thanks for the gum.

So clearly, after a couple of pages, this text gets a mixed reception - But the important thing about any piece of writing isn't how it connects to others, it's how it connects to you - so if this is important to you, don't let us curmudgeons change your view an iota!




My only problem with this whole thing is like I stated....it could be an unhealthy way to have a relationship, let alone be the reason why they are attracted to bdsm. How many times have see seen on these boards of the lovey dovey internet slave who is all heartbroken because her dream Master that she's never met was exactly as what she pictured in the above monologue? How many times do we see couples break up because of the starry eyed romanticism above because they couldn't look past the fantasy?

But if someone finds the above to be realistic for their own life, so be it. I'd just be glad it's not mine. lol


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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:31:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh littlewonder, you make a really good point.

I just wanted to make sure chatterbox24 didn't feel too set upon.

You're right though, the "ideal" of the "super masculine - yet oh-so intouch with his feminine side" Dom dude is a pretty unrealistic proposition.

I wish there were more like me <fans face>, but we're rare <wipes tear>

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:40:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hey - if shes at a point in her life where its all sunshine and pink bubbles - the more power to her.

I was like that once - ONCE.

I wonder where you reach a point in life where you realize that Twilight is just a book/movie?

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Oh littlewonder, you make a really good point.

I just wanted to make sure chatterbox24 didn't feel too set upon.

You're right though, the "ideal" of the "super masculine - yet oh-so intouch with his feminine side" Dom dude is a pretty unrealistic proposition.

I wish there were more like me <fans face>, but we're rare <wipes tear>



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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:50:36 PM   
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I wonder where you reach a point in life where you realize that Twilight is just a book/movie?


Don't say shit like that, next you'll be doing the "WWF isn't real" thing!

You know, much as I hate to admit it, I have a couple of friends where "he" is exactly as described in that text, and she is absolutely right for him. It sickens me, sure. But - a teeensy teeensy part of me is jealous... not because I want to be like him, but because he's found the perfect partner for him.

So... for some, the easter bunny is alive and well. And there are times I regret cooking and eating my easter bunny on the brecon beacons in 1989....

[Ed to correct a grammar abomination]
[Another Ed to add]

When I say there are times I regret eating bunny, they are few - That bunny tasted fucking awesome. Cooked on a trangia in some smuggled guinness.

[Ed to fix further abominations]


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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/27/2012 11:54:22 PM   
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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 12:01:48 AM   
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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 12:47:48 AM   
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I wonder where you reach a point in life where you realize that Twilight is just a book/movie?
The last time I performed a Twilight intervention, she ended up watching Inception.

She concluded it was better. God bless you Christopher Nolan.

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 4:34:30 AM   
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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 4:37:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aghhhhh bunny with bacon inside of it and chunks of garlic then heavy cream at the end served with spaghetti, my favorite meal. Gotta go back to France to have my mom cook it and show me how it is done :)

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 5:25:31 AM   
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We are not equal. We are halves of a whole.

Even though the definition of a half is one of two equal parts.


I was waiting for some one to point this out obviously the author failed fractions in 3rd grade.

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 7:08:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Damn You Kailko for blowing my fantasies all to hell..........LMAO.
That was pretty funny, have to admit.

and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER. Hee hee I felt as you did, until i found someone alot stronger then me, the BOOM, a pussycat. ANd hey I fought it too.



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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 8:27:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not every woman is submissive "instinctively". I think it is rude that you are trying to stand over her like the all-knowing grandmother saying "one day he will come".

There is NOTHING about D/s that correlates to a specific gender. The traditional roles that you are thinking are a creation of hollywood... not real life.

edited because I can't spell

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 12:33:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml


You're right though, the "ideal" of the "super masculine - yet oh-so intouch with his feminine side" Dom dude is a pretty unrealistic proposition.
You left out the being a mind reader part.

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and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER.
Do you even have an inkling of how insulting that is to say?

The idea that just because she's female that she must really be submissive to a male, she just doesn't know it?


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Not every woman is submissive "instinctively". I think it is rude that you are trying to stand over her like the all-knowing grandmother saying "one day he will come".

Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 1:21:51 PM   
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Damn You Kailko for blowing my fantasies all to hell..........LMAO.
That was pretty funny, have to admit.

and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER. Hee hee I felt as you did, until i found someone alot stronger then me, the BOOM, a pussycat. ANd hey I fought it too.




It's nice that you found some writing that appeals to you, it was completely off the mark for me and yes, it did make me feel nauseous. It is definitely a case where i"m happy for you, and yet for myself it's something I hope I never run into because I'd die laughing.

As for the above statement....really? You know, there's danger is assuming that everyone is the same, surely you'd have seen on here by now that people follow their own paths. OP, you had your experience which everyone is staying away from talking about, and it was yours, and that's fine. You seem to be still coming to terms with it since you're fond of telling of how difficult it was for you. It is rather ridiculous to try to apply your experience to everyone as though we will all have parallel experiences to yours. I'm glad you found something meaningful to you, I have no desire for your experience and will actively work to avoid it.

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 1:27:18 PM   
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Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

holy fuck, how can i "hire" her?

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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 1:42:38 PM   
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and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER. Hee hee I felt as you did, until i found someone alot stronger then me, the BOOM, a pussycat. ANd hey I fought it too.




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RE: THe Dominant Man - 4/28/2012 3:12:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

holy fuck, how can i "hire" her?


It's an epic read, you should go read the two threads. Bottom line is the closest description of what went on was that she visited a Pro-Dom a few times a month and she babbles on and on about what a D/s relationship should be.

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