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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: crazyml


You're right though, the "ideal" of the "super masculine - yet oh-so intouch with his feminine side" Dom dude is a pretty unrealistic proposition.

You left out the being a mind reader part.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER.

Do you even have an inkling of how insulting that is to say?

The idea that just because she's female that she must really be submissive to a male, she just doesn't know it?

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ORIGINAL: sincelo

Not every woman is submissive "instinctively". I think it is rude that you are trying to stand over her like the all-knowing grandmother saying "one day he will come".

Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

holy fuck, how can i "hire" her?

It's an epic read, you should go read the two threads. Bottom line is the closest description of what went on was that she visited a Pro-Dom a few times a month and she babbles on and on about what a D/s relationship should be.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4007074/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4007074

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4038446/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4038446

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I saw this online and thought it was a beautiful and wanted to share it.

I am a dominant man. I am just that.

I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.

Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your
submissiveness.

I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.

You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.

You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.

You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.

You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it.

You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal.

I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.

You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.

Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.

Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.

We are not equal. We are halves of a whole.

We compliment each other and make each other complete.

My desire to dominate you is instinctive.

It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.

We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood.

You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.

You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.

You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man.

In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty,

and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust.

Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.

Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions.

And because I have proved worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life: you have given me dominance over you.

What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man.

You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.

Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility.

I accept this from you with humility and joy.

I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.

I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.

I dominate you only because you have allowed it.

I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women, and all the treasures of the earth.

What you give freely can not in reality be bought.

~ Author Unknown ~

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4007074/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4007074

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4038446/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4038446

FYI, many posts were removed from those threads, I do know that for sure as some were mine.

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze




OK, I'm not American, I'm quite feminine and yet I have no trouble being strong and I don't want to serve a guy and nope, I wouldn't allow a guy to make the decisions....

Where does that BS come from that to be feminine you have to be submissive and just want to serve a man? Female dominants are not man hating lesbians (not that there is anything wrong with lesbians, bisexuality....)

When this was written many years ago there was a preface that has been removed.  In it he says he is speaking from his own point of view which is Male Dominant, female submissive.  This is all his personal take on how he tries to live his life.  He was not in any way speaking about femme Dommes or lesbians. 

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

lol.

Really? What does my past threads have to do with this? Pathetic.

Life is what you make it. Glad a few people like it. ANd for the life of me cant figure out why it seems to actually make some people mad.

For those of you with the good sense of humor, THANKS FOR THE LAUGHS****!!

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ORIGINAL: mons

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hello everyone

I find this to be one very emotional yet very lovely piece and he wrote it with the intent to explain how he felt for "his submissive
it does not matter how we see it, or how we think it is flowerly or not real to some of us! Why is it not ok to feel that way about someone?
You must trust someone, if your the dominant or the submissive! It is all about trust and why not fall
in love? Why does it seems so bias? He placed her above all women, wow it is to me and I am flowerly type just right!

mons

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

lol.

Really? What does my past threads have to do with this? Pathetic.

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Who are you to judge anyone YOu bitter damaged cunt? Oh Im sorry Im being judgemental.