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how often to safely cane a "boy" hard enough ... - 4/27/2012 11:52:36 AM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		How hard/ how many strokes so she can cane me as often as possible for most pain
(wihout permanent injury)

WE were thinking every three weeks ..

what else do you do to a schoolboy ?

strap/tawse in between ?

has to be mean enough for me to be scared ..


what are other good spanking options ?
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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 12:11:12 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Dude, get your head out of castle ream based porn, okay?

Each ass is different in term of how much it can take. Some people are highly sensitive and will turn bright red in a few strokes, others have a hardened butt and need much more to achieve the same results. BTW: Butt flesh should also be *prepared* to take a cane, so as to not cause permanent damage.

This is not just true of butts, but of cocks, pussies, breasts, nipples and every other part of the human body. Physically we all react differently. And this does not even address psychological aspects, most especially important if you are talking about taking pain for the sake of showing what you can take. Mind set then becomes everything.

Your profile says you are a dominant male, but are looking for switch females. So I assume *you* are the schoolboy in this rp.

I am utterly confused as to how you want to be caned as a schoolboy but have no additional fantasies that go with this type of scene. What floats your boat? To be punished, to be interrogated, to be humiliated? What floats HER boat, the female with the cane (remember her)?

You want to actually BE afraid, which I understand. What can I say? With the right female, you will be afraid, you'll be very afraid. And you will love every second.

How about some reading first (someone will be along with a list) coupled with some real time experience.

The local munch and play party can be just the ticket.






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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 12:12:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: forcedsensuality

How hard/ how many strokes so she can cane me as often as possible for most pain
(wihout permanent injury)

It's different for every individual.

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what else do you do to a schoolboy ?

Essay paper on why he needs this caning. Handwritten, not computer assisted on at least 2 sheets of loose leaf paper. Neatness counts.

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strap/tawse in between ?

No. Kneeling on uncooked rice in a corner.

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has to be mean enough for me to be scared ..

Rent a catholic school nun.

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what are other good spanking options ?

Spanking is with a hand, not an implement. Use of a paddle=paddling. A cane=caning, flogger=flogging...et al.



However, the best punishment seems to be to make you log off from porn sites and venture into the real world & meet real people.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 12:18:32 PM   
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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 12:38:32 PM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		i dunno what castle ream porn is, .. i want to be the centre of attention, she's focused on my cute little ass .. it's just an early fantasy from school

everyone's different thanks .. no rule of thumb

yeah, i wanna be scared of her power to cane me at will like the power bad old teachers had, and she is very keen to cane me
and i wanna see her sadistic side hang out

it makes me more vulnerable,

thanks burnt kitty .. yeah, she checks all my essays

"Dude, get your head out of castle ream based porn, okay? "
i really don't understand this comment !
i had these fantasies when i was 13 in short pants, scared of a techer that was always talking about who he'd cane next,
terrorised me..
before the age of pornography !

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 12:47:10 PM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		oh yeah, and the female, she's been after me for years, and now she has the opportunity to tie me up

i hope there's not too much "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" pay back !!

should i let her tie me up ?

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:10:52 PM   
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oh yeah, and the female, she's been after me for years, and now she has the opportunity to tie me up

i hope there's not too much "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" pay back !!

should i let her tie me up ?


I recommend you buy her a ticket to a workshop on impact play, so that she can get direct, hands-on experience with a serious instrument that can cause bone bruises if not used properly.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:12:22 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		How the fuck should we know if you should let her tie you up?

We don't know you.

We don't know her.

If you are merely looking for wank fodder, you may not find it here, as this forum is more discussion based.

You appear to be new. Please read and learn from others.

I *am* trying to be nice, wtf else can I say?



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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:17:53 PM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		but why assume i'm looking for wank fodder ?

i'm trying to plan something serious here, a kinky arrangement with an old friend, who wants to spank me twenty different ways ..


i find it easy to find fault with the silly stuff other people say sometimes , but i don't think it's constructive to point it out

what have i said that leads you to think i'm looking for wank fodder ?
why assume the worst of me ?

i'm trying to be nice too ..

"i'm new here" --- so what am i doing so wrong ? . "wank fodder" ??? what specifically did i say that made you think that ?

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:22:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some people never cry from pain, ever. A friend of mine was lucky enough to get her aerobic exercise beating on a Navy SEAL. He would moan sometimes. Faintly.

Have you ever been hit with a cane? It is some amazing pain, and I *like* being caned. Don't sign up for more than you bargained for.

If she's never done anything like this, don't be her lab rat.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:23:16 PM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		oh thanks for your reply RedMagic ,.. the BDSM community .. i'm a little scared of them, but they're probably the best bet
(scared that they might be people like ChatteParfaitt who it seems will not let me get anything in the least bit wrong, will assume the worst of me and just make me feel like going home again)

ChatteParfaitt: you seem to have got instantly angry with me.. why ? wank fodder ? castle ream porn ?

(what is castle ream porn anyway ?)

ChatteParfaitt: could you answer my questions here ? why have we got off on the wrong foot ?

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:25:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		thank you LadyHibiscus, that was exactly the sort of thing i was wondering about.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:26:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		You've gotten off on the wrong foot for asking a plain goofy question.

How many pieces of cake can I eat without getting sick? You don't know, do you, BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW ME. It's not something a stranger can possibly guess at. If your question had been something like, "I want to do a heavy impact play scene, what are some tips on safety?" you would have gotten a better response.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:32:14 PM   
forcedsensuality


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Status: offline 		yeah, i see now i was being a bit general, and you've all pointed out that every ass is different, .. and i explained a bit more of the background..

i don't understand why that means i'm just after some wank fodder ? I don't understand the aggression from the one person.

i do enjoy a good argument, but i'm still waiting for that one person to explain herself ...


imagine, i walk into my first munch, say something silly, and someone says "Grr, don't you know anything, i hope you're not just at our munch for some wank fodder !!"

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:35:59 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Dude, I am seriously not trying to dog you, I am trying to inform you. But you seem to need so much information I am trying to push you to think for yourself.

I don't have your answers, no one does.

You have to find your own answers, and to do that, you need information I can't give you since I don't know you or her.

You thanked LadyHib for her response, and yet hers is basically the same as mine.

That you don't know that speaks volumes about where you are at in this whole thing.


You are asking hugely complex questions and wanting the answers to be simplistic.

Well fuck, they're not.

I don't think you are ready to be caned by anyone. Does this person doing the caning have a clue how to go about that?


This is why I am saying all your questions are fantasy (wank fodder) based and not reality based.

Guess what? I don't have to have a cane to terrify you. I don't have to have ANYTHING physically. All I need is your desire to be terrified.

I fear all this is far over your head.

So let's regroup, shall we. Educate yourself by reading and attending munches. Didn't I mention that in my first response to you?





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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:37:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hey now, I only go to munches for wank fodder. What's wrong with that?

Seriously, 99% of the silly questions are posted by snerts seeking fodder. How was anyone to know you are the exception to the rule? You can't fault them for that.

Glad you got your answer.

BTW.. I think Hibby can eat 3 pieces of cake before she gets sick.

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:39:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Naw... they just dump ice cold pepsi on your lap. (Don't ask me how I know! )

Maybe... just maybe... your profile reads like a dominant wish list for role play. You come to the mistress forum and ask a question that is iffy at best, unanswerable and involves a dominant unknown and unseen that could be asking the question with less likelihood of being questioned about her motive if she worded things in a way that didn't sound like... how can I get my kink on, got any ideas? And maybe... just maybe... some domina's get a bit of an attitude or challenge someone when they think they are being played by a role playing dominant that wants to bottom. But then, I can't answer for everyone. Just me... and if you detect anything from my post... you might be right... however, I doubt anyone is really angry about it. Just... speaking their mind.


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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:40:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		How big of pieces and what kind of cake?

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:43:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's chocolate cake. Great big huge pieces of double chocolate cake.

(Do I have to fantasize about everything for you lot?)

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RE: how often to safely cane a "boy" hard eno... - 4/27/2012 1:47:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not for me..........I was checking on what RS was going to put in front of Hibby.

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