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spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:43:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Is this guy (OP) for real? I mean seriously. If you have doubts then clear them with me. Don't talk about it with someone behind my back. Do I have to be a real slave in order to ask a question? This forum is "Ask a Mistress". Not "Ask a Mistress if you're a slave". I do have a fetish for being a money slave but it's an on/off thing. This fetish (which I'm not really sure that I have) has nothing to do with the question. It's a general question. If you don't like the word I used. I'll rephrase it. "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

thishereboi -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:45:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 Do I have to ask a question that is related to my profession or something I'm about to do. This forum is called "Ask a Mistress". Not "Ask a Mistress if you're slave". So, you're not going to answer my question because it has nothing to do with me? It's a general question. I do sometimes have an interest in being a money slave. But, it's an on/off thing. Not sure If I really want to be one. And, this is not why I asked this question. No, I am not going to waste my time because you said this... quote: This is a general question. It doesn't even concern me. And if it doesn't concern you, why should it concern me.

Lockit -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:47:43 AM)
Dude... we don't feel dominance in the way you seem to view it. Haven't you gotten that yet? You imagine what a dominant is... and haven't a clue what a dominant is. Until you see your error, no one can answer your fantasy call to make a point, get answers or get off. I don't need physical power to feel dominant. It's all in the mental and emotional. We don't need to force men to bow. You also don't get what being a submissive is.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:48:59 AM)
Did we answer that question? I thought we did, but let me try and recap: 1. We are not dominating anyone "physically" 2. We are accepting their submission, which they GIVE US FREELY 3. See #1 Dominants of any gender are not jackbooted bullies. We are the people in charge of the relationship. The persons that submit to us do it because they WANT to, because they feel compelled by lust, love, the desire for order in their lives, or some combination of other things. They are CONSENTING to submit to us because they WANT to. Their physical size or skills are not relevant in the equation. DURING A SCENE, when we are PLAYING, we might play with the tropes of violence and aggression. We might engage in shame and humiliation and mindfucks. That sort of thing is a way of cementing the bond of trust, and of exploring the darker corners of our minds. It does not mean that we are looking down on the people under our feet as lesser beings, or "weak". Keep rereading. Or not.

spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:52:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit . Young man... until you understand... get passed this obsession with physical strength and being over come by a mere woman... you are weak and I personally would eat you. I have got passed this belief that I could be over come my mere woman. This was just a general question. Thanks for answering. There was a lot of good material in it. I'm a bit ignorant about Financial Mistresses so I thought physical strength mattered. But, thanks for getting this out of my head.

spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:54:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 Do I have to ask a question that is related to my profession or something I'm about to do. This forum is called "Ask a Mistress". Not "Ask a Mistress if you're slave". So, you're not going to answer my question because it has nothing to do with me? It's a general question. I do sometimes have an interest in being a money slave. But, it's an on/off thing. Not sure If I really want to be one. And, this is not why I asked this question. No, I am not going to waste my time because you said this... quote: This is a general question. It doesn't even concern me. And if it doesn't concern you, why should it concern me. When i used the word "concern" I meant that it has nothing to do with my profession or my hobby.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:58:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit . Young man... until you understand... get passed this obsession with physical strength and being over come by a mere woman... you are weak and I personally would eat you. I have got passed this belief that I could be over come my mere woman. This was just a general question. Thanks for answering. There was a lot of good material in it. I'm a bit ignorant about Financial Mistresses so I thought physical strength mattered. But, thanks for getting this out of my head. Spidey? Really, REALLY poor wording.

poise -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 7:58:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 Let me rephrase my question. "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?" Thank you for rephrasing the question. Miss Lockit and LadyHibiscus have answered this as I would have. Although I'm not a Mistress, and I'm not a financial slave, nothing of what I give to Him is done out of fear that he may do physical harm to me if I don't. Quite the opposite. That's called being domineering, and it has no place in my perception of dominance.

Lockit -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 8:00:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit . Young man... until you understand... get passed this obsession with physical strength and being over come by a mere woman... you are weak and I personally would eat you. I have got passed this belief that I could be over come my mere woman. This was just a general question. Thanks for answering. There was a lot of good material in it. I'm a bit ignorant about Financial Mistresses so I thought physical strength mattered. But, thanks for getting this out of my head. Spidey? Really, REALLY poor wording. Actually, I was the one that said a ... mere woman, implying the intent or take that most men that wish to be overcome by a woman feel.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 8:04:29 AM)
Then bad wording on your part, missy! [;)]

Lockit -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 8:05:11 AM)
[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]

spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 8:10:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit . Young man... until you understand... get passed this obsession with physical strength and being over come by a mere woman... you are weak and I personally would eat you. I have got passed this belief that I could be over come my mere woman. This was just a general question. Thanks for answering. There was a lot of good material in it. I'm a bit ignorant about Financial Mistresses so I thought physical strength mattered. But, thanks for getting this out of my head. Spidey? Really, REALLY poor wording. Typing error. I meant mere women.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 8:13:00 AM)
The drone has brought the funny! [:D]

PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:09:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Yep, I guess I could knock or kick a guy twice my size into next week Looks can be deceptive, can't they? Few would guess, either, that I'm a world-renowned ballerina [;)]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:18:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 I never said I didn't like your answers. What posting history? I've only asked four questions so far and only two of them had to with physical strength. Let me rephrase my question. "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?" If 2 out of 4 questions deal with the same theme, I think it's fair to assume that they are important to you... And even rephrased, I would have to give you the same answer, dominance has nothing to do with physically overpowering somebody, physical strength may be important for a bully but not a dominant. Think army, you got an officer and he gives orders, he possibly couldn't overpower each single guy in his unit, he couldn't overpower all of them, he doesn't need to, he's the one who gives the orders and the people who signed up for duty did so voluntarily, they knew they were going to be ordered around.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:19:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Few would guess, either, that I'm a world-renowned ballerina [;)] Few? I think most of us think of you as a ballerina. But I wouldn't have guessed the "world-renowned" part. I assumed that you were more of a closet ballerina. [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:21:40 AM)
You are both very silly people. [:)]

PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:26:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 Few? I think most of us think of you as a ballerina. But I wouldn't have guessed the "world-renowned" part. I assumed that you were more of a closet ballerina. [;)] Exactly. I've wowed audiences by twirling in my tutu in some of the finest closets in the world.

Alecta -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:29:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Looks can be deceptive, can't they? Few would guess, either, that I'm a world-renowned ballerina [;)] How did you know i'm hot for ballerinas? >.>

LadyConstanze -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (5/1/2012 11:31:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Yep, I guess I could knock or kick a guy twice my size into next week Looks can be deceptive, can't they? Few would guess, either, that I'm a world-renowned ballerina [;)] You aren't twice my size but if you like, I can kick your ballerina ass into next week. You've met H, he's about twice my size and physically a lot stronger, I have slightly better reflexes and I'm more flexible, I couldn't wrestle or arm wrestle him, but I could land a blow before he reacts, I wouldn't ever want to put it to the test in a real fight, as that would mean once physical violence enters, the relationship is over, but it is a common mistake guys make that they think because women don't have their muscle mass, they're automatically weaker. If you hammer a nail into a wall, you don't do it with just brute force, you use a hammer and not your fist...

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