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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:01:21 PM)

We're a bunch of vinegary old biddies, that we are![:D]




PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:02:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?



Spidey,

Would that question be better phrased as something like, "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

That, in fact, was a question that I myself asked, once. I used to wonder about such things myself. Very fundamental things like that, that is. (Though, your own question brings in the more specific subjects of financial dommes and tributes - and I admit I don't really understand why.)

The bottom line is that I can't see where you're coming from here. I can't fathom what it is that you want to find out.




Alecta -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:02:52 PM)

It doesn't matter where you go if the problem is you......

You asked a question. Some people felt it was a stupid question. So you jumped at them. And they defended their views. Some people thought you just wnt to talk about the takedown fetish since that's all you've been posting about lately. So you jumped at them. And they defended their views. See a pattern here?

I think it was an ignorant question. FinDom is its own thing. If the Domme has to physically subdue the sub/slave to get the money, it falls into the extortion and takedown fantasies. If the Domme has to mentally manipulate the sub/slave to get the money, it is more of a blackmail or mental domination thing. The FinSub fetish is its own and focused on the transaction and what follows that rather than how the situation is established. Mostly the FinDom/me say "I know exactly what to do with your money, paypiggie" and the FinSub says "oh thank gawd where have you been all my life" and hands over the dough, then the FinDom/me says "Is that the best you can do, pig?" and the Finsub says "No GOddess, sorry Goddess" and forks more money over. The FinSub enjoys handing over his wallet and cums a little in his pants everytime he gives the FinDom/me money, and vice-versa, the FinDom/me enjoys taking it. The only "should" about FinDomination is that everyone has their own little twisted fun.




spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:07:24 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?



Spidey,

Would that question be better phrased as something like, "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

That, in fact, was a question that I myself asked, once. I used to wonder about such things myself. Very fundamental things like that, that is. (Though, your own question brings in the more specific subjects of financial dommes and tributes - and I admit I don't really understand why.)

The bottom line is that I can't see where you're coming from here. I can't fathom what it is that you want to find out.


No. They would see the word "physically" and then say i have a fetish for getting my butt kicked by fetish women and that I've started the same thread again.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:09:10 PM)

Why would i feel the need to physically dominate anyone? Brute force is well, brutish! If someone obeys me simply because I can knock them into next week, what has been proven?

My slave was more than a foot taller than me. And he had a gun. Still knelt to greet me when I came home.




spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:09:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: spideycool69


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Does a Financial Mistress need to be physically stronger than her slave in order to dominate him and make him pay tribute to her or is it just about mind control?



Spidey,

Would that question be better phrased as something like, "How do femdoms get past the fact that women are generally physically weaker than men, in order to feel their sense of dominance over them?"

That, in fact, was a question that I myself asked, once. I used to wonder about such things myself. Very fundamental things like that, that is. (Though, your own question brings in the more specific subjects of financial dommes and tributes - and I admit I don't really understand why.)

The bottom line is that I can't see where you're coming from here. I can't fathom what it is that you want to find out.


No. They would see the word "physically" and then say i have a fetish for getting my butt kicked by fetish women and that I've started the same thread again.

I wanted to know that do Financial Mistresses use mind control to dominate their slaves and make them pay tributes or they have to be physically stronger than them. That's all I wanted to know.






PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:11:14 PM)

Spidey,

I have just an inkling that you might be making one of the most fundamental errors of all. This is that it isn't so much about her ability to dominate you as your ability and desire to submit to her.

*That* was something that, thinking back on it, took quite a while to penetrate into my own skull. Sometimes we miss things precisely because they're right in front of our noses.




spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:14:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Spidey,

I have just an inkling that you might be making one of the most fundamental errors of all. This is that it isn't so much about her ability to dominate you as your ability and desire to submit to her.


Yeah, you're right. That didn't cross my mind.




FriendlyMuppet -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:16:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Alecta



I think it was an ignorant question. FinDom is its own thing. If the Domme has to physically subdue the sub/slave to get the money, it falls into the extortion and takedown fantasies. If the Domme has to mentally manipulate the sub/slave to get the money, it is more of a blackmail or mental domination thing. The FinSub fetish is its own and focused on the transaction and what follows that rather than how the situation is established. Mostly the FinDom/me say "I know exactly what to do with your money, paypiggie" and the FinSub says "oh thank gawd where have you been all my life" and hands over the dough, then the FinDom/me says "Is that the best you can do, pig?" and the Finsub says "No GOddess, sorry Goddess" and forks more money over. The FinSub enjoys handing over his wallet and cums a little in his pants everytime he gives the FinDom/me money, and vice-versa, the FinDom/me enjoys taking it. The only "should" about FinDomination is that everyone has their own little twisted fun.


Yeah, this. That's kind of why I posted my joke "math" response (which...sniffle, got no response...[:)] ). I just had a hard time trying to figure out what financial domination had to do with overpowering someone, almost as if they were two completely unrelated kinks. But then I've never really been into financial domination, so for all I know, it could be a major part of it. But I had a sneaking suspicion that it didn't. I know this because I read the TV guide once (cover to cover) and it didn't mention the two in the same context ONCE.




PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:19:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: spideycool69



Yeah, you're right. That didn't cross my mind.


For me, anyway, the ramifications of realising that took quite a lot of dealing with, I recall.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:19:44 PM)

Dominance is NOT about physical superiority. It's about strength of will. I am five feet tall, almost 60 years old, and not very physically imposing. But I know how to intimidate with a glance.

I have routinely chosen to dominate men twice my size and strength. In fact, the bigger they are the more I love it. Why do they submit to me? Part of it is that I take the time to reach their mind, but another part is that they know for a fact I am mentally stronger.

I have found most men have to test this at some point, just to make sure it's real. Let's just say my current sub is quite impressed with my inner strength and control.

Now, you have been given serious answers that suit your level of knowledge, understanding, and maturity. If you want to have further conversations along this line, I suggest you inform yourself first.

And yeah baby, we know it's wank fodder. Just a hint: You won't get far in this forum assuming everyone is a blithering idiot.






LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:24:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69



Yeah, you're right. That didn't cross my mind.


For me, anyway, the ramifications of realising that took quite a lot of dealing with, I recall.



You werent too quick on the uptake back then, were you, Darling? You made up for it, anyway. :)




spideycool69 -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:28:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

I think it was an ignorant question. FinDom is its own thing. If the Domme has to physically subdue the sub/slave to get the money, it falls into the extortion and takedown fantasies. If the Domme has to mentally manipulate the sub/slave to get the money, it is more of a blackmail or mental domination thing. The FinSub fetish is its own and focused on the transaction and what follows that rather than how the situation is established. Mostly the FinDom/me say "I know exactly what to do with your money, paypiggie" and the FinSub says "oh thank gawd where have you been all my life" and hands over the dough, then the FinDom/me says "Is that the best you can do, pig?" and the Finsub says "No GOddess, sorry Goddess" and forks more money over. The FinSub enjoys handing over his wallet and cums a little in his pants everytime he gives the FinDom/me money, and vice-versa, the FinDom/me enjoys taking it. The only "should" about FinDomination is that everyone has their own little twisted fun.


Good answer. This is what you should have said in the first place instead of verbally attacking me. I'm a bit ignorant about Financial Mistresses so yeah my question can be an ignorant one.




PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:29:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
You werent too quick on the uptake back then, were you, Darling?


No, I wasn't really, I suppose. But, in fairness to myself, communication was difficult. Most people weren't too quick on the uptake in grasping what I was asking, either. ;-)




Alecta -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:30:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

Good answer. This is what you should have said in the first place instead of verbally attacking me.



I didn't attack you.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:32:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
You werent too quick on the uptake back then, were you, Darling?


No, I wasn't really, I suppose. But, in fairness to myself, communication was difficult. Most people weren't too quick on the uptake in grasping what I was asking, either. ;-)


My ESP is much improved! ^_^




PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:36:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You werent too quick on the uptake back then, were you, Darling? You made up for it, anyway.


Oh, and btw, I got the 'wanker' charge, too. That was unbelievably ironic, looking back on it. I actually wanted people to be dead straight and asexual with me because I couldn't deal with the tidal wave of it all otherwise. It was overwhelming. 'Sub rush', I think someone termed it. It was quite painful in some ways.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:39:55 PM)

Well, all men are wankers, arent they? And i couldnt be asexual with you for giant champagne diamonds, its not how it works, is it? You either come across like a person, or you dont.




MadameM4U -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:44:22 PM)

Oh my! NOT Schrödinger's Cat??

We all know how that ends!


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ORIGINAL: FriendlyMuppet

We scientists here at the Financial Domination Academy just completed a quantitative analysis involving fudiciary response algorithms and determined that using the following formula:

f(x)=a_0+∑_(n=1)^∞▒(a_n cos⁡〖nπx/L〗+b_n sin⁡〖nπx/L〗 )

Where x = length of service to the dominatrix, a = experience of the dominant in extracting income from said submissive, and L = an additive expression of how long the service has been in place, specifically determining whether or not the submissive has figured out said dominant is or is not full of shit, using the following equation for determination:

(1+x)^n=1+nx/1!+(n(n-1) x^2)/2!+⋯

Of course if n approaches infinity, meaning slave has paid more money than he or she can afford, then you might have to include Placque’s Constant. For that, we’d have to use quantum expressions involving Schroedinger’s Cat, and you know how much that cat gets annoyed when its not fed. Plus, who can ever tell if he’s really in or not in the box anyway?

Now, if Schroedinger's Cat is not yet annoyed, then all you have to do is then weigh the said dominant versus the said submissive, and if the number approaches +- 3.217 ohms, then the dominant does not have be stronger. If it does not approach said number, then she does.




PeonForHer -> RE: Should a Financial Mistress be stronger than her slave (4/30/2012 7:48:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well, all men are wankers, arent they? And i couldnt be asexual with you for giant champagne diamonds, its not how it works, is it? You either come across like a person, or you dont.



Gawd, Lady Hib - I didn't need wank material. Women would say things just in passing that would make my ticker stop. My fantasies were nice, safe and controllable before I came to CM.




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