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Swallowing - 5/2/2012 10:41:16 AM

kajiralace

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Hello! I know this sounds odd from a submissive but I am unable to swallow. Do you gave any tricks or ideas to help me?

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 10:43:51 AM

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Wow. That must make it kind of hard to eat and drink. Stomach tube, I guess.

Oh, wait . . .

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 11:00:01 AM

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It's it the taste of his cum, the consistency (to thick), or he cums to much?

The only time o had a problem swallowing was when his cum tasted gross due to medicines he was talking.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 11:18:53 AM

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There are a lot of threads on swallowing on here. You should look them up maybe they can help.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 11:38:36 AM

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I’m sure you could physically swallow if you really wanted to, but like most women at first,
you probably have an awful lot of mental barriers you have to break free of first.

Let’s try and break some of them down, shall we?

1) No one in the Sunday congregation is going to know if you swallow or not.

2) Good girls do! They really really do. But some bad girls don't. You aren't less
of a woman if this is truly a hard limit of yours.

3) His ejaculating in your mouth does not mean he has no emotional feelings for you.

4) It may tickle your tonsils and you may gag at first, but you will never ever need
the heimlich maneuver performed on you.

5) It’s going to taste yucky and I’m going to throw up. It’s certainly possible that you won’t
find it to be lip smacking delicious, but chances are you will be so enthralled with the pleasure
he is finding in your little ol’ mouth that taste will be of no consequence.
You can always get a feel for how he tastes by licking him after he has cum elsewhere.

When you feel you are ready, it may be best to not know exactly when it’s going to happen.
I don’t mean the actual act of him ejaculating, but let’s say you agree to have him test this
limit of yours. Maybe the first 2 or 3 blowjobs, he will pull out, but the fourth one he won’t.
Some women get so riled up in anticipation of doing it for the very first time, that they lose focus
on the actual act of pleasing him, and you do want this to be enjoyable for both of you.

If all else fails and you still have trouble, they actually do sell an ejaculating dildo to practice with.
http://www.dontspitswallow.com/practice_swallowing.shtml

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 11:52:15 AM

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Ask him to sweeten his come by drinking pineapple juice on a regular basis. A large glass a day for several weeks should do it, after that he can go down to a large glass 2-3 times a week.

Yes, this really does help !

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 11:54:32 AM

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learn to swallow raw oysters it is the same method to bypass any untoward taste.

Smoked foods, pineapple, he drinks lotsa water.......stay away from tobacco and alcohol.....

put a couple of those breath mint strips in your cheeks just before..............

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 12:53:28 PM

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learn to swallow raw oysters it is the same method to bypass any untoward taste.

You are kidding?!? oysters should be held in the roof of your mouth and the flavor savored before being swallowed.

To the op.... be a big girl and take your medicine!

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 1:05:52 PM

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makes lot of sense and yea especially when its warm and milky.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 1:27:40 PM

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I have never figured out why it's a big thing to swallow cum. Who cares? It doesn't make his orgasm any better. Heck, guys come to the forums all the time because they can't stand the taste of their own cum and can't eat it. I'm sorry. This is just not big on my list of submissive behaviors. Maybe my attitude is based on never being with a guy who cared either way.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 3:39:39 PM

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Thanks everyone for your responses! I appreciate it so much :)

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 7:41:04 PM

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quote:

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Is it the taste of his cum, the consistency (too thick), or he cums to much?

HA... the above reminds me of a joke...

Q: How do you know when your Master's sperm count is high?!!

A: If you have to CHEW before swallowing!!!

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 7:45:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kajiralace

Hello! I know this sounds odd from a submissive but I am unable to swallow. Do you gave any tricks or ideas to help me?

I don't understand the question. You're a submissive. Do as you're told and swallow. What is with this "unable to" shit? :)

What else can I help you with?

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RE: Swallowing - 5/2/2012 9:24:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: kajiralace

Hello! I know this sounds odd from a submissive but I am unable to swallow. Do you gave any tricks or ideas to help me?

Some of us have an awful gag reflex to overcome. When you brush your teeth, start brushing your tongue as well. At first you might gag while the brush is 1/3 of the way in. Just stay at that area for a while. After a few weeks you might be surprised to find that you can brush your tongue to the back without gagging.

Amen to what Ron said about breath strips.

Good luck.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/3/2012 5:45:38 AM

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Good tip Cynthia!

When I first got my electric toothbrush, I hated its noise and the gag reflex it induced when cleaning the lower inner quadrant, but the just-left-the-dentist clean feeling was worth sticking with it and after a few weeks or months I was gag-free and no longer had to wear headphones to distract me.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/3/2012 6:56:04 AM

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I hate swallowing. I'm grateful Master doesn't make me. Good luck.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/3/2012 9:57:58 AM

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someone said what is it with swallowing, it doesn't make the guy's orgasm better... well... i'm not a guy but i'm not so sure about that.
But i do think that if a guy removed his tongue as i start cumming, it might ruin it a bit for me...

OP, i'm not sure what to add to the other tips... i guess i was lucky, i loved swallowing from the first time i gave a blowjob. And i LOVE doing blowjobs.
It turns me on to know that i'm giving pleasure. As for sperm, i dunno, but it never tasted bad to me. Maybe i got lucky? Or maybe i just didn't have the mental barriers
that might have made me dislike the taste? Sometimes it has been a bit more bitter than usual but so far that has been rare. Most of the time, it didn't even have much of a
taste, there wasn't even that much of it, it wasn't thick... sometimes it was a bit salty, other times a bit sweet.. rarely as i said it was a bit bitter.. sometimes it was
some combination... VERY rarely i got quite a mouthful, most of the time it was more like a little teaspoon or less.

I enjoy feeling the cum spurt (is that a word) in my mouth but if i was scared of gagging, an easy thing to do would be to raise my tongue to block the path to my throat.
I enjoy tasting it for a moment before i swallow but if i didn't it would be easy to simply swallow it fast without tasting it.

I guess you could practice swallowing something fast? Those ejaculating dildo must be expensive, probably you can use something like a syringe (i mean like those big ones without needle!)
with a somewhat thick (but not too thick) liquid in it, to practice? If it has a big enough, er, stick, you could even suck on it before pushing out the liquid in it in your mouth...? Just an idea lol.
you could even experiment how far in your mouth you can take a liquid squirt...

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RE: Swallowing - 5/3/2012 1:22:16 PM

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If he cums when he's right down your throat, you wont taste it as its behind your taste buds. More than once I've had to ask a guy if he's cum as I never tasted it as he climaxed.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/4/2012 12:07:09 PM

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It's been said before but you are His sub, just get on with it, it won't kill you. In time you will be begging for it and licking up any spillages!

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 4:43:22 PM

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heh I HATE the taste of cum and am so greatful my owner really doesnt care if I lick it up from places

Regarding making it easier, esiest i have found is when he cums straight down the back of my throat, then it just goes down...

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