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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 6:05:15 PM   
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I think a part of it is the person who's cum you are swallowing...once you are totally into the man you trying to pleas you are able to accomplish more and more......but of course there are exceptions to the norm...Of course sometimes the time of day figures into it...for me the morning is the hardest to accomplish without any "uggh" factor going on..we do have sensitive stomachs in the morning.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:12:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: playfulotter

I think a part of it is the person who's cum you are swallowing...once you are totally into the man you trying to pleas you are able to accomplish more and more......but of course there are exceptions to the norm...Of course sometimes the time of day figures into it...for me the morning is the hardest to accomplish without any "uggh" factor going on..we do have sensitive stomachs in the morning.



Mix it in with the cream cheese that's spread on your morning bagel. You won't even notice it. And it's fun! How many men can say they've cum onto a toasted bagel? (I know one.)

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:21:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kajiralace

Hello! I know this sounds odd from a submissive but I am unable to swallow. Do you gave any tricks or ideas to help me?



I don't understand the question. You're a submissive. Do as you're told and swallow. What is with this "unable to" shit? :)

What else can I help you with?


Brilliant! That is the spirit!

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:36:15 PM   
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EWW ICK YUCK BLECH!!

That said....swallowing was a hard limit for me for a loooooong time. In fact I only recently just started to do it. Bad experiences when I was younger made my gag reflex much stronger and I would often actually run to the bathroom and lose cookies after he came in my mouth.
But as playfulotter has said, it's all about the man I am doing it for. It was worth it to me to get past my mental blockages to give him that <one> thing so I worked on it until I could do it without choking. Swallowing cum is still not a turn on for me, I personally get nothing out of it other than knowing I am doing something for Mr that he loves to have me do. The twisted thing is, he loves for me to do it even more because he knows why I had issues with it in the first place and why it was so difficult for me to do for him. The fact that he loves it that much puts something in my head that excites me and makes me get instantly wet for him....which kinda sucks cuz that's the moment he is spent and can't bend me over and fuck me right away.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:41:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

I’m sure you could physically swallow if you really wanted to, but like most women at first,
you probably have an awful lot of mental barriers you have to break free of first.

Let’s try and break some of them down, shall we?

1) No one in the Sunday congregation is going to know if you swallow or not.

2) Good girls do! They really really do. But some bad girls don't. You aren't less
of a woman if this is truly a hard limit of yours.

3) His ejaculating in your mouth does not mean he has no emotional feelings for you.

4) It may tickle your tonsils and you may gag at first, but you will never ever need
the heimlich maneuver performed on you.

5) It’s going to taste yucky and I’m going to throw up. It’s certainly possible that you won’t
find it to be lip smacking delicious, but chances are you will be so enthralled with the pleasure
he is finding in your little ol’ mouth that taste will be of no consequence.
You can always get a feel for how he tastes by licking him after he has cum elsewhere.

When you feel you are ready, it may be best to not know exactly when it’s going to happen.
I don’t mean the actual act of him ejaculating, but let’s say you agree to have him test this
limit of yours. Maybe the first 2 or 3 blowjobs, he will pull out, but the fourth one he won’t.
Some women get so riled up in anticipation of doing it for the very first time, that they lose focus
on the actual act of pleasing him, and you do want this to be enjoyable for both of you.

If all else fails and you still have trouble, they actually do sell an ejaculating dildo to practice with.
http://www.dontspitswallow.com/practice_swallowing.shtml


And this is why I'm buying you a whole Dunkin Donut franchise.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:58:28 PM   
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And this is why I'm buying you a whole Dunkin Donut franchise.



Hummina hummina hummina!
A man after my own heart.
Or mouth.
Errrrmm...heart!
nom nom nom nom

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 7:59:42 PM   
Master2811


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

EWW ICK YUCK BLECH!!

That said....swallowing was a hard limit for me for a loooooong time. In fact I only recently just started to do it. Bad experiences when I was younger made my gag reflex much stronger and I would often actually run to the bathroom and lose cookies after he came in my mouth.
But as playfulotter has said, it's all about the man I am doing it for. It was worth it to me to get past my mental blockages to give him that <one> thing so I worked on it until I could do it without choking. Swallowing cum is still not a turn on for me, I personally get nothing out of it other than knowing I am doing something for Mr that he loves to have me do. The twisted thing is, he loves for me to do it even more because he knows why I had issues with it in the first place and why it was so difficult for me to do for him. The fact that he loves it that much puts something in my head that excites me and makes me get instantly wet for him....which kinda sucks cuz that's the moment he is spent and can't bend me over and fuck me right away.

Lucifyre


Good girl!

My dad used to say "Cannot is put to rest on the graveyard and Willnot is buried next to him".

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 8:05:36 PM   
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I know you were not addressing me, but i just wanted to chime in that I am pretty sure I'd notice it,I think cum is disgusting and i have and will continue to refuse to eat it or have it in my mouth nor would i ever choose to eat it on foods i love. I wouldn't want to ruin the wonderful food lol.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko




Mix it in with the cream cheese that's spread on your morning bagel. You won't even notice it. And it's fun! How many men can say they've cum onto a toasted bagel? (I know one.)



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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 8:07:01 PM   
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only one time I can remember ever having trouble swallowing. It was because the man I was with drank 2 pots of coffee a day, smoked heavily and had a very unhealthy diet. I was never able to get past his taste.

Master makes me at times and almost always have to lick or clean it up in some way. While I don't usually like the texture and consistency of any cum, it's not enough to bother me though.

So my suggestion is to tell your guy to drink more water, grapefruit juice and fruit. Stay away from asparagus, beer and cigarettes.


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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 8:14:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko


Mix it in with the cream cheese that's spread on your morning bagel. You won't even notice it. And it's fun! How many men can say they've cum onto a toasted bagel? (I know one.)


I just wanted to call attention to the guys that wanted to take Kaliko up on her offer of egg white omelets a week or 2 back for breakfast,you might want to check the ingredients first.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 8:31:56 PM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: punisher440


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko


Mix it in with the cream cheese that's spread on your morning bagel. You won't even notice it. And it's fun! How many men can say they've cum onto a toasted bagel? (I know one.)


I just wanted to call attention to the guys that wanted to take Kaliko up on her offer of egg white omelets a week or 2 back for breakfast,you might want to check the ingredients first.



Good Lord, omelets just keep getting sexier and sexier.


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RE: Swallowing - 5/6/2012 8:44:38 PM   
Lucifyre


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master2811


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

EWW ICK YUCK BLECH!!

That said....swallowing was a hard limit for me for a loooooong time. In fact I only recently just started to do it. Bad experiences when I was younger made my gag reflex much stronger and I would often actually run to the bathroom and lose cookies after he came in my mouth.
But as playfulotter has said, it's all about the man I am doing it for. It was worth it to me to get past my mental blockages to give him that <one> thing so I worked on it until I could do it without choking. Swallowing cum is still not a turn on for me, I personally get nothing out of it other than knowing I am doing something for Mr that he loves to have me do. The twisted thing is, he loves for me to do it even more because he knows why I had issues with it in the first place and why it was so difficult for me to do for him. The fact that he loves it that much puts something in my head that excites me and makes me get instantly wet for him....which kinda sucks cuz that's the moment he is spent and can't bend me over and fuck me right away.

Lucifyre


Good girl!

My dad used to say "Cannot is put to rest on the graveyard and Willnot is buried next to him".



It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 5:22:53 AM   
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-fast reply-

If it's a taste issue, good diet and getting him good and deep in your mouth so it barely touches your tastebuds will help.

If it's a gagging issue, make sure he isn't deep when he comes, lift your tongue at the back so it doesn't spray to the back of your throat and then just swallow it as you would swallow anything else you were eating.

If you're being squeamish about it, then the 'do as you are told' advice applies.

And lastly, if you have some deeper seated emotional reasons, as Lucifyre touched on, you will likely need to spend lots of time building trust and working through those issues with a patient partner. There's no quick fix for that one.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 5:40:27 AM   
Master2811


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

only one time I can remember ever having trouble swallowing. It was because the man I was with drank 2 pots of coffee a day, smoked heavily and had a very unhealthy diet. I was never able to get past his taste.

Master makes me at times and almost always have to lick or clean it up in some way. While I don't usually like the texture and consistency of any cum, it's not enough to bother me though.

So my suggestion is to tell your guy to drink more water, grapefruit juice and fruit. Stay away from asparagus, beer and cigarettes.



Indeed, healty food produces healthy sperm! Mind the stuff with "ine" in it. Caffeine, nicotine and so on. Oranges, strawberries, pine apples, grapes and grapefruit are very good. Fructose is good. It's the same sweet stuff those poor spermcells have on their backs for energy to swim. It makes sperm sweeter. Spicy food is not good. Stay away from junkfood. Salty cheese idem ditto. BBQ is a sin. Garlic is fine against parasites but not for sperm. And yes drink more water and consume antioxydants. They prevent pollutants from entering the sperm. Green tea is much better than coffee or plain tea.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 8:49:03 AM   
Master2811


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre


Oh? It has everything to do with willpower. Without willpower you would not have managed to come where you are now! With willpower you overcame your "reluctancy". No doubt your will to please him was greater than your fear of swallowing in the end. Well done!

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 9:03:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Master2811

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre


Oh? It has everything to do with willpower. Without willpower you would not have managed to come where you are now! With willpower you overcame your "reluctancy". No doubt your will to please him was greater than your fear of swallowing in the end. Well done!



It is never good to undermine someones reasons or experiences...

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 9:14:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Master2811

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre


Oh? It has everything to do with willpower. Without willpower you would not have managed to come where you are now! With willpower you overcame your "reluctancy". No doubt your will to please him was greater than your fear of swallowing in the end. Well done!



All I can do is laugh at this statement. You clearly have no clue what it's like to have something taken from you unconcentually by force. I'm not asking you to understand what I went through or or what it took for me to get through to the place I am today.
What I will ask is that you don't ever assume you do understand.

Lucifyre

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 9:59:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Master2811

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre


Oh? It has everything to do with willpower. Without willpower you would not have managed to come where you are now! With willpower you overcame your "reluctancy". No doubt your will to please him was greater than your fear of swallowing in the end. Well done!


You're coming off as condescending. 'Good girl' was bad enough, but when someone tells you the traumatic experience they went through caused a particular response, don't tell them they're wrong. It doesn't come off as a compliment, even if you add 'well done'.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 11:47:22 AM   
Master2811


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre


quote:

ORIGINAL: Master2811

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

It had nothing to do with willpower. There are very good reasons it was a hard limit for me. Reasons that borderline rape.

Lucifyre


Oh? It has everything to do with willpower. Without willpower you would not have managed to come where you are now! With willpower you overcame your "reluctancy". No doubt your will to please him was greater than your fear of swallowing in the end. Well done!



All I can do is laugh at this statement. You clearly have no clue what it's like to have something taken from you unconcentually by force. I'm not asking you to understand what I went through or or what it took for me to get through to the place I am today.
What I will ask is that you don't ever assume you do understand.

Lucifyre


I don't have to know all the details. I really don't. People get nowhere without willpower. That was my point. No need to be dramatic.

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RE: Swallowing - 5/7/2012 11:56:14 AM   
Master2811


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

You're coming off as condescending. 'Good girl' was bad enough, but when someone tells you the traumatic experience they went through caused a particular response, don't tell them they're wrong. It doesn't come off as a compliment, even if you add 'well done'.


"Good girl" with that is. Meaning: don't take that remark too seriously. I have not told the person you are refering to that she/he was wrong. I indicated that without willpower you don't get far in this world. Especially if it means to overcome a fear or dislike.

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