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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 1:48:38 PM   
filmdirector


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Status: offline 		Im very very sorry, but women and females sound much worse to me and I cant call everyone girls...

Then did I thought these forums was to find information and help, not to get attacked for details most people don't even bother about, but I must got it completely wrong...

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub


quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I got the same problem, even if EVERY message was different and very exact reflect what I especially like with the babe!

I simply had a lot of free time the last two days and I have not been here regulary for years, so there is many babes I am very seriously interesting in...

And I have a rather wide taste both about sex and in babes...

As I write in my profile - "I seek especially a sub girl, bimbo or painslut - who look as max 26 with a cute round ass and slim thighs - to train to my ultra sexy & very anal slavetoy, for a long exciting future... You may then be * A wet babe, who naturally must dress extremely sexy, like sexy "punishments" as foreplay, get extra advanced slavetraining and welcome deep humiliation... ** Or a very loving and petite girl, who enjoy cuddle & kisses... *** Or any wild mix... As a petite painslut, who LOVE pain... Or a delicious dumb wet bimbo, who need deeper humiliation and love perverse games!"

Then do MANY girls write almost nothing about their desires and or have no photos, so it not easy to sort out the girls Im not would be interesting in (if they wrote little more or add photos) and I naturally don't want to miss the "silent" babes, who might be perfect for me!!


How many old threads are you going to whine on?

Seriously, the number of times you have used the word babe would be enough for me to report you as spam, no real human talks like that.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 1:52:26 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Im not whining a bit...

True, you're whining a lot.

< Message edited by stef -- 7/14/2012 1:53:51 PM >

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 1:54:21 PM   
filmdirector


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Status: offline 		I did NOT try to impose / push my kinks or desire on anyone... As I now written about ten times, I did carefully read the profiles and replied directly on what I found, differnt each time and only on Ads with females that might be perfect for me!

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ORIGINAL: lizi


quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

That would be very inpolite, if they din't respect my kinks and desires... Just as everyone elses should be respected!

And things like that should NOT trigger a spam filter and brand mark people as awful spammers!




Why should I respect your kinks and desires in my own personal email inbox? You're on my turf then, and I don't hesitate to set the boundaries that anyone choosing to come in there will operate under. On the boards I try to abide by the TOS of respect, but if you come into my personal territory there is no freaking way I'm going to put up with anything I consider to be unwanted, demeaning, or garbage.




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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 1:55:54 PM   
filmdirector


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Status: offline 		I respectfully and polite ANSWER posts, when things seem to be a clear misunderstanding... Like your.

quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Im not whining a bit...

True, you're whining a lot.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 1:58:37 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I got the same problem, even if EVERY message was different and very exact reflect what I especially like with the babe!

I simply had a lot of free time the last two days and I have not been here regulary for years, so there is many babes I am very seriously interesting in...

And I have a rather wide taste both about sex and in babes...

As I write in my profile - "I seek especially a sub girl, bimbo or painslut - who look as max 26 with a cute round ass and slim thighs - to train to my ultra sexy & very anal slavetoy, for a long exciting future... You may then be * A wet babe, who naturally must dress extremely sexy, like sexy "punishments" as foreplay, get extra advanced slavetraining and welcome deep humiliation... ** Or a very loving and petite girl, who enjoy cuddle & kisses... *** Or any wild mix... As a petite painslut, who LOVE pain... Or a delicious dumb wet bimbo, who need deeper humiliation and love perverse games!"

Then do MANY girls write almost nothing about their desires and or have no photos, so it not easy to sort out the girls Im not would be interesting in (if they wrote little more or add photos) and I naturally don't want to miss the "silent" babes, who might be perfect for me!!



The spam filter is a signal that your messages aren't going over well.

The many girls who write nothing about their desires in their profiles - they're telling you that they're looking for relationships rather than kink meetups.

And, forgive me for being so blunt, but why would a gorgeous 20something want a man twice her age if she only wants kink meetups? I know that your profile says you only look 44, but... um.

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:07:42 PM   
Aedonix


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Status: offline 		100 emails in a day?!?! DAYUM!!!

that sheer ammount all on it's own i would have thought would set off any spam filter.

as for "Babe". I would not expect to be looked favourably on by any woman if i called them Babe.. that smacks of focusing solely on their looks totally neglecting their personality or any other aspect of them.

No wonder you're still looking!

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:08:23 PM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I did NOT try to impose / push my kinks or desire on anyone... As I now written about ten times, I did carefully read the profiles and replied directly on what I found, differnt each time and only on Ads with females that might be perfect for me!



You are the one not listening. Your emails are being reported as spam by others. If they weren't offensive junk quality emails you wouldn't be having this problem. Stop arguing with us, we're only giving you the answer to why this is happening to you. You say you are responding carefully to each profile but you must be going over the line somewhere since your emails are being reported by the recipients. You are also probably sending out way too many emails, saying it was less than 100 in two days is a shit ton of email writing.

DarkSteven has a point, why would a gorgeous young woman want you? Part of your problem here might be who you are targeting.

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:25:48 PM   
filmdirector


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Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Sweden
Status: offline 		Im am looking for relationship, not kink meetups... Not many here live in Sweden, so meetsups is not even on the table...

And if they don't write any restrictions in they profile (and there is no function for that in this site) is it impossible for me to know if they like men in my age, as many females of the type I search do!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I got the same problem, even if EVERY message was different and very exact reflect what I especially like with the babe!

I simply had a lot of free time the last two days and I have not been here regulary for years, so there is many babes I am very seriously interesting in...

And I have a rather wide taste both about sex and in babes...

As I write in my profile - "I seek especially a sub girl, bimbo or painslut - who look as max 26 with a cute round ass and slim thighs - to train to my ultra sexy & very anal slavetoy, for a long exciting future... You may then be * A wet babe, who naturally must dress extremely sexy, like sexy "punishments" as foreplay, get extra advanced slavetraining and welcome deep humiliation... ** Or a very loving and petite girl, who enjoy cuddle & kisses... *** Or any wild mix... As a petite painslut, who LOVE pain... Or a delicious dumb wet bimbo, who need deeper humiliation and love perverse games!"

Then do MANY girls write almost nothing about their desires and or have no photos, so it not easy to sort out the girls Im not would be interesting in (if they wrote little more or add photos) and I naturally don't want to miss the "silent" babes, who might be perfect for me!!



The spam filter is a signal that your messages aren't going over well.

The many girls who write nothing about their desires in their profiles - they're telling you that they're looking for relationships rather than kink meetups.

And, forgive me for being so blunt, but why would a gorgeous 20something want a man twice her age if she only wants kink meetups? I know that your profile says you only look 44, but... um.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:29:38 PM   
filmdirector


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Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Sweden
Status: offline 		It was less that 100 in TWO days... And some say they written more than 100 in one day, without any problems!

And I do make difference between girl and babe in my profile... The messages is written as a direct and uniques respence to the females profile and I rarely write babe then...

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aedonix

100 emails in a day?!?! DAYUM!!!

that sheer ammount all on it's own i would have thought would set off any spam filter.

as for "Babe". I would not expect to be looked favourably on by any woman if i called them Babe.. that smacks of focusing solely on their looks totally neglecting their personality or any other aspect of them.

No wonder you're still looking!


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:30:27 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I respectfully and polite ANSWER posts, when things seem to be a clear misunderstanding... Like your.

I realize English is not your first language but I have no idea what you're trying to say here.

As for your problem, I'm going to guess that you're just sending email to every woman local to you that comes up in a search. You're probably not even bothering to read the profiles of the people you're writing. When I get an email that sounds like a form letter or it's obvious that they didn't even bother to read my profile, it gets marked as spam and deleted.

The bottom line is that it's your behavior that's causing the spam filter to be tripped. If you want to change the outcome, change the behavior. Whining doesn't change anything.

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:31:21 PM   
hlen5


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aedonix

............as for "Babe". I would not expect to be looked favourably on by any woman if i called them Babe.. that smacks of focusing solely on their looks totally neglecting their personality or any other aspect of them..........



I was thinking the "babe" thing might be a result of the OP's English being a secondary language for him.

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:33:26 PM   
filmdirector


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Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Sweden
Status: offline 		The spam warning from collarme, don't mention anything about reporting... It say that my messages did trigger a number limit of identical messages and that the filter work automatically then...

So I simply did visit the forum to find out how many DIFFERENT messages it's safe to send, without getting branded as an awful spammer in EVERY message I sent!?!

quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi


quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I did NOT try to impose / push my kinks or desire on anyone... As I now written about ten times, I did carefully read the profiles and replied directly on what I found, differnt each time and only on Ads with females that might be perfect for me!



You are the one not listening. Your emails are being reported as spam by others. If they weren't offensive junk quality emails you wouldn't be having this problem. Stop arguing with us, we're only giving you the answer to why this is happening to you. You say you are responding carefully to each profile but you must be going over the line somewhere since your emails are being reported by the recipients. You are also probably sending out way too many emails, saying it was less than 100 in two days is a shit ton of email writing.

DarkSteven has a point, why would a gorgeous young woman want you? Part of your problem here might be who you are targeting.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:34:01 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Im am looking for relationship, not kink meetups... Not many here live in Sweden, so meetsups is not even on the table...



I've read your profile. It says you want lots of sessions. Nothing in it refers to relationships as I understand the term. You talk about anal sex but not about where you like to eat dinner or what you do in your time off.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:38:54 PM   
Aedonix


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Status: offline 		One of these days I'm gonna be JUST bored enough to see if it is in fact possible to read 50 profiles that seem to suit, write 50 tailor made replies consisting of a little more than one or two sentences (i.e. a quality first contact message that is WORTH reading) and see if it acually IS possible to actually SEND that many out.

I have the feeling though that i would be doing little else that day though save bio breaks and the occasional quick snack..

< Message edited by Aedonix -- 7/14/2012 2:39:32 PM >

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:40:18 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I was going to ask if you've written every single female who lists Sweden on their profile.

Seriously? You found a hundred women in the course of the last two days who you think are perfect for you? I highly doubt that one. I'm thinking the recipients of the unwanted emails would tend to agree with Me.

If you wrote that many first contact emails in the course of two days time, the spam filter seems to be working just fine. Just because you've got a ton on time on your hands doesn't mean every female out there wants email from you, If you are writing women who are significantly younger than you or not local to you, there's a greater likelihood that your messages are being reported as spam. A person's profile doesn't have to list an age range or location preference. That doesn't mean that the people you are contacting don't have them.

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:40:59 PM   
filmdirector


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From: Sweden
Status: offline 		Why is all replies here "presuming" this strange things... I written over six times now, in addition to my first post reply, that I read the profiles very carefully and answer directly according to the information I find...

And I don't even try to reply to one of hunded profiles and I do seek everywhere in Europe and not in USA because of the complicated immigration laws we have...

The bottom line is that I actually do exactly as it is recomended, except the word "babe" I sometimes use and I got brandmarked as a spammer anyhow, including the messages I spend over 30 hours to write!

quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I respectfully and polite ANSWER posts, when things seem to be a clear misunderstanding... Like your.

I realize English is not your first language but I have no idea what you're trying to say here.

As for your problem, I'm going to guess that you're just sending email to every woman local to you that comes up in a search. You're probably not even bothering to read the profiles of the people you're writing. When I get an email that sounds like a form letter or it's obvious that they didn't even bother to read my profile, it gets marked as spam and deleted.

The bottom line is that it's your behavior that's causing the spam filter to be tripped. If you want to change the outcome, change the behavior. Whining doesn't change anything.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:43:02 PM   
Aedonix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Why is all replies here "presuming" this strange things... I written over six times now, in addition to my first post reply, that I read the profiles very carefully and answer directly according to the information I find...

And I don't even try to reply to one of hunded profiles and I do seek everywhere in Europe and not in USA because of the complicated immigration laws we have...

The bottom line is that I actually do exactly as it is recomended, except the word "babe" I sometimes use and I got brandmarked as a spammer anyhow, including the messages I spend over 30 hours to write!




Sucks typing with your elbows doesn't it?

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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:44:27 PM   
filmdirector


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Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Sweden
Status: offline 		That can't be my profile... I very rarely use the term "sessions" and I clearly seek a very special female for "a long exciting future" in my profile... But I don't seek a vannilla relation, is that wrong here?!?

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Im am looking for relationship, not kink meetups... Not many here live in Sweden, so meetsups is not even on the table...



I've read your profile. It says you want lots of sessions. Nothing in it refers to relationships as I understand the term. You talk about anal sex but not about where you like to eat dinner or what you do in your time off.


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:46:28 PM   
filmdirector


Posts: 40
Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Sweden
Status: offline 		It took me over 30 hours, but should I really be punished for that!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aedonix

One of these days I'm gonna be JUST bored enough to see if it is in fact possible to read 50 profiles that seem to suit, write 50 tailor made replies consisting of a little more than one or two sentences (i.e. a quality first contact message that is WORTH reading) and see if it acually IS possible to actually SEND that many out.

I have the feeling though that i would be doing little else that day though save bio breaks and the occasional quick snack..


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RE: WTF Spam Filter? - 7/14/2012 2:48:18 PM   
searching4mysir


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Status: offline 		Well, why don't you take the last (or a typical) intro message you sent on CM, and copy/paste it here, deleting her name. We may be able to tell you why you triggered a spam report.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 7/14/2012 2:49:09 PM >

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