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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

I did write each message VERY seriously, directly reflecting what I liked in the profile and what the female want, plus sometimes asking some relevant question... That os also why I find this and all accusations, a bit strange!

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

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Seriously? You found a hundred women in the course of the last two days who you think are perfect for you? I highly doubt that one. I'm thinking the recipients of the unwanted emails would tend to agree with Me.

Don't ya know, EVERY woman is perfect for him!

A dear male friend of mine and I used to go see local bands together a lot. It took me a while to realize that he fed the same line of shit to every hot chick he talked to. When I asked him about it, he said yeah I get rejected a bunch, but you would be surprised how much pussy I get out of it too.

It was fun to watch, I gotta say. It also made me not believe one bit of sweet talk from some dude I don't know well-lol.

So show us an example. Copy/paste a typical intro email here and delete her name (Call her "X"). I'm pretty sure if you show us one of your emails, we'll be able to tell right off the bat why you triggered the spam filter.

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So show us an example. Copy/paste a typical intro email here and delete her name (Call her "X"). I'm pretty sure if you show us one of your emails, we'll be able to tell right off the bat why you triggered the spam filter

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Thank you, that was very kind... But most messages is to females who want rather extreme games, so they are rather private and everyone is anyhow different, so it would be hard to find a pattern...

I know that the spam filter is supposed to trigger on identical messages, so normally would it be useful to look at the messages - but none of mine are the same, every one begin with a short to rather long reply to the females profile, so something did maybe go very wrong... Shit happen!

There are that many women out there that play extreme games....? I'm calling BS on that. That is not the typical female profile. He's finding 100 women to write but can't show a sample email because ALL of them are so private and centered on sexual topics ...? Well that pretty much proves that the emails were offensive enough to be reported as spam.

Just an FYI, if a stranger writes me and asks me a sexually intimate question right off the bat I report the email as spam. Doesn't matter if he included something from my profile or not along with the sexual material. If he presumes to approach a personal topic then it goes over my boundary of making polite conversation.

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For the third time - the automatic message I got from collar me, said it was possible trigged by too many identical emails...

And I write maybe too nice and polite (especially sometimes when I write the first letter to painsluts) and only to ladies that seem to be very interetsing and I never write someone that write that they don't like the stuff I really like, so the only alternative seem to be to not write anyone...

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

INAPPROPRIATE CONTENT IS REMOVED BY OUR AUTOMATED SYSTEM
AFTER A PREDETERMINED NUMBER OF USERS HAVE REPORTED IT
REPORTS ARE NOT MANUALLY REVIEWED
Thank you for helping make our site a better place!

That is the message given when you go to report a mail. So, you need to change your tactics. It is clear that whatever you are doing, is prompting folks to report your mail as spam.

Yes, and what was identical about them was that someone pressed the "mark as spam and delete" button.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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Many have almost empty profiles, yes... My last slavegirl was one of them... But there use to be a lot info except the text and I did only reply to about five profiles like that, that had very real looking pictures...

You act like some kind of mob, that only try to find what't wrong with me (mainly misunderstanding what I wrote or "presuming" things I didn't do) and that's not very helpful!

For me is my messages VERY private, plus the fact that they are all different - so there is no patten to find...

And I did only seek in the forums, how long the ban will be and how many like 20 or 40 (as I did) messages can you send in one day???!

If 'everyone' is misunderstanding you and 'everyone' is pointing out things that are wrong about your approach then maybe a smart man would take a minute to see why so many different people are all saying the same thing? Hmm?

As far as being helpful, you've been asked to post a sample email and won't do it. We're supposed to just accept your word that they are appropriate. If you want more detailed help I'd post one.

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Thank you, that was very kind... But most messages is to females who want rather extreme games, so they are rather private and everyone is anyhow different, so it would be hard to find a pattern...

I know that the spam filter is supposed to trigger on identical messages, so normally would it be useful to look at the messages - but none of mine are the same, every one begin with a short to rather long reply to the females profile, so something did maybe go very wrong... Shit happen!

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Thank you, that was very kind... But most messages is to females who want rather extreme games, so they are rather private and everyone is anyhow different, so it would be hard to find a pattern...

I know that the spam filter is supposed to trigger on identical messages, so normally would it be useful to look at the messages - but none of mine are the same, every one begin with a short to rather long reply to the females profile, so something did maybe go very wrong... Shit happen!

It is also triggered when the receiving "babe" hits the report message as spam button that is at the top of all the mail we receive here.

So, something about your messages is not going over well.

The common factor seems to be you.

I wish I could tell you what that (or those) specific element(s) is/are but that would require much more information than any of us, myself included, have available.

You might want to just send out a couple of messages a day and then even if you are being flagged as writing spam it won't be the same volume of reports as before.
I think the issue may be the number of spam reports.

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

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Thank you, that was very kind... But most messages is to females who want rather extreme games, so they are rather private and everyone is anyhow different, so it would be hard to find a pattern...

I know that the spam filter is supposed to trigger on identical messages, so normally would it be useful to look at the messages - but none of mine are the same, every one begin with a short to rather long reply to the females profile, so something did maybe go very wrong... Shit happen!

It is also triggered when the receiving "babe" hits the report message as spam button that is at the top of all the mail we receive here.

So, something about your messages is not going over well.

The common factor seems to be you.

I wish I could tell you what that (or those) specific element(s) is/are but that would require much more information than any of us, myself included, have available.

You might want to just send out a couple of messages a day and then even if you are being flagged as writing spam it won't be the same volume of reports as before.
I think the issue may be the number of spam reports.

That not possible (as I wrote above) only five persons have already read my messanges... It is hard to find very interesting ladies, so I did seek months back and they have not visit the site again, yet...

But now will they instead see that Im a awful SPAMMER on top of my message...

And three of the five that red my message, did contact me - so they actually seem to like what I wrote... But the other two did maybe press spam and that's maybe enough???!

If that's true, does this place seem to be even unfriendlier than this forum!

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

Thank you, that was very kind... But most messages is to females who want rather extreme games, so they are rather private and everyone is anyhow different, so it would be hard to find a pattern...

I know that the spam filter is supposed to trigger on identical messages, so normally would it be useful to look at the messages - but none of mine are the same, every one begin with a short to rather long reply to the females profile, so something did maybe go very wrong... Shit happen!

It is also triggered when the receiving "babe" hits the report message as spam button that is at the top of all the mail we receive here.

So, something about your messages is not going over well.

The common factor seems to be you.

I wish I could tell you what that (or those) specific element(s) is/are but that would require much more information than any of us, myself included, have available.

You might want to just send out a couple of messages a day and then even if you are being flagged as writing spam it won't be the same volume of reports as before.
I think the issue may be the number of spam reports.

That not possible (as I wrote above) only five persons have already read my messanges... It is hard to find very interesting ladies, so I did seek months back and they have not visit the site again, yet...

But now will they instead see that Im a awful SPAMMER on top of my message...

And three of the five that red my message, did contact me - so they actually seem to like what I wrote... But the other two did maybe press spam and that's maybe enough???!

If that's true, does this place seem to be even unfriendlier than this forum!

What you may not know is that we can read messages without opening them..but I don't know if we can then report them.

However, since you are 100% certain that the issue is not you then my question to you is: have you contacted support?
They would be the ones to best advise you.
http://www.collarme.com/personals/support.htm

Please be patient in waiting for a response: they are all volunteers.

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Thank you very very much for a very helpful advice... Yes, I did contact support almost directly and most of my first post here, came from that message... But I was hoping to find some vital facts here, about how long the ban is and how few messanges that trigger the limit... But I did just see that I did over estimate how many mesanges I actualy did send... It was only 66 in three days, since 7/12 and not even close to 100 and six of these messanges was an exchange to two persons - and now have six different persons read my messanges...

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It was only 66 in three days

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And I came her for help to know how long the ban will be and how many UNIQUE messages I safetly can send, not to hang out my most private desires!

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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

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ORIGINAL: filmdirector

And I came her for help to know how long the ban will be and how many UNIQUE messages I safetly can send, not to hang out my most private desires!

The Technical Team has not revealed to the other staff the inner workings of the spam filter, lest we inadvertently tell a spammer how to avoid and/or evade it.

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And I naturally wonder how long this ban will be and how many messages that follow the official recommendations I can send (not real spam) because I got cut off after only 66 different messages in three days and that seem rather tight?!??

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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

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And I naturally wonder how long this ban will be and how many messages that follow the official recommendations I can send (not real spam) because I got cut off after only 66 different messages in three days and that seem rather tight?!??

My answer remains the same. The message you received when you activated the filter tells you how to avoid the filter. There is no other answer.