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tj444 -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 1:12:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Paladin9 I would bet there are 100 straight males on CM for every straight female, I sure hope so.. since I am female.. [:D] [:)]

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 1:35:41 PM)
I have read thru to page 2 of this thread at this point, and wanted to make my initial reply to a few different things-mainly because I am tired and I don't plan to log back in for a few days...(work and school...ugh) First, yes you see a great deal of female masturbation in porn. The reason for that is aesthetic; men like to watch women get themselves off...well..for the most part...and mid-coitus...well..It's hot...mid anal? Holy shit! Second; Men have a prostate, which (from what I have heard, read and been told) gives them sexual pleasure during anal-women do not, therefore it is not as sexually stimulating as sex is-at least not for some of us...(I'm trying not to stereotype toooo much...or be too general...in all things, each person is different, and women vary not only one from another, but mood significantly changes things...) Third; the smacking...I enjoy it...for a variety of reasons...1) it feels good as long as it's not too terribly rough, 2) the thumping, the sounds...I just like it 3) it's not something you can just walk up to the average woman and do. You have to kind of work into it, talk and pay attention...I didn't even know I liked it for a looooooong time. So...tread likely. Porn orgasms- Studies have been done about the way people breath during sexual activity and orgasm...The high pitched whispy breathing that women do in porn? Yeah...It actually decreases the intensity of the orgasm. They should be doing a more gutteral down in the belly kind of growl sound. That's because the air is coming from below the diaphram (I may have this out of order, you really want to double check me on this...because it's been forever since I read the study) and it actually helps to vibrate and stimulate the abdomen and increase sensitivity. When you breath higher up, you get the higher pitch, which is kind of cool to hear, but not as effective. I worked in a porn store for a long time, and I love sex so I read alot, and when I am with someone...well....I wear 'em out. =) People have questions...it's the nature of the beast....I think the op could have been a little better phrased in terms of specifics...but...it brings about a good window of opportunity to discuss women's sexuality and what approach to try...I mean...for all of our liberation...how many women will openly say that they either haven't gotten off, don't know what gets them off, don't masturbate...haven't seen porn...and are just sexually closed and deprived... I didn't see a porn til I was 24. I didn't masturbate for the first time until I was 27. The first time I came with a male partner using only vaginal penetration I was 27. I know, and will openly say, I do not fully know or understand what works 100% of the time for me and what won't. I know I haven't tried or read or experienced everything, or even like a 10th of what some people have...but I will tell you that in the time I have been gathering knowledge? Ive learned a lot...and I learned it well...and I learned it by stupid conversations that is common knowledge to the rest of the world. Just sayen.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 1:46:27 PM)
And as for porn actresses? Sasha Grey...shes awesome.

lamale -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 5:48:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SaintJohn quote: ORIGINAL: lamale Interesting you should bring up the lack of response from women. I've received a grand total of one mail in the entire week I've been on collarme. I'd wager that women get 50 to 100 emails a week (or more) starting within the first few seconds of creating a profile on collarme. It's just the way the world turns. If I was a woman, and if I got that much collarme mail, I wouldn't respond either. It's not about not responding to a first email. It's about engaging in a flirty conversation where in every single message I ask her to have a look at my profile because I don't want to lead her on. But she doesn't do so for half a dozen exchanges, and things are getting more sexual, and we've exchanged pictures, and the innuendo is flying, and then she looks at my profile, sees I'm married, and stops responding, deleting emails without reading them. All she would have to say is "Sorry, didn't realize you were taken. Bye." and that would be perfectly understandable and acceptable. I get that I'm married and it's not for most women. It's the very first thing I say in my profile. I could not possibly be more direct about it. It's just a rude thing to do after such a series of email exchanges. And it's not the first time it's happened. Being outnumbered 100 to 1 and thus having a wide field from which to choose is not an excuse to be discourteous.

lamale -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 5:52:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic ha! i've been thinking about doing the same thing (renting out my house for a shoot). Now THERE'S a bad idea! Do you really want the bodily fluids of a dozen or so actors seeping into your couch, chairs, rug, bedspread, dog's fur [:@]?

Karmastic -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 6:03:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lamale quote: ORIGINAL: SaintJohn quote: ORIGINAL: lamale Interesting you should bring up the lack of response from women. I've received a grand total of one mail in the entire week I've been on collarme. I'd wager that women get 50 to 100 emails a week (or more) starting within the first few seconds of creating a profile on collarme. It's just the way the world turns. If I was a woman, and if I got that much collarme mail, I wouldn't respond either. It's not about not responding to a first email. It's about engaging in a flirty conversation where in every single message I ask her to have a look at my profile because I don't want to lead her on. But she doesn't do so for half a dozen exchanges, and things are getting more sexual, and we've exchanged pictures, and the innuendo is flying, and then she looks at my profile, sees I'm married, and stops responding, deleting emails without reading them. All she would have to say is "Sorry, didn't realize you were taken. Bye." and that would be perfectly understandable and acceptable. I get that I'm married and it's not for most women. It's the very first thing I say in my profile. I could not possibly be more direct about it. It's just a rude thing to do after such a series of email exchanges. And it's not the first time it's happened. Being outnumbered 100 to 1 and thus having a wide field from which to choose is not an excuse to be discourteous. i don't see it as being discourteous, as much as being naively shocked. the issue is with them not being diligent enough to read your profile, and you wasting your time with women who haven't read your profile. i won't continue past a first or second correspondence unless they've done so (done this many times). Brutus, the fault lies not in the stars, but within our own mortal souls (me bastardizing Shakespeare quote) ps edit - worth pointing out, i know that people can view your profile silently, without it showing up.

Karmastic -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 6:06:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lamale quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic ha! i've been thinking about doing the same thing (renting out my house for a shoot). Now THERE'S a bad idea! Do you really want the bodily fluids of a dozen or so actors seeping into your couch, chairs, rug, bedspread, dog's fur [:@]? oooh, you didn't say that before!!! guess I'll have to take that into account. Hmm, maybe I could cover the couch. Tee hee, and pooch will have to take a day off, unless it's one of those flicks.

lamale -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 6:23:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic quote: ORIGINAL: lamale quote: ORIGINAL: SaintJohn quote: ORIGINAL: lamale Interesting you should bring up the lack of response from women. I've received a grand total of one mail in the entire week I've been on collarme. I'd wager that women get 50 to 100 emails a week (or more) starting within the first few seconds of creating a profile on collarme. It's just the way the world turns. If I was a woman, and if I got that much collarme mail, I wouldn't respond either. It's not about not responding to a first email. It's about engaging in a flirty conversation where in every single message I ask her to have a look at my profile because I don't want to lead her on. But she doesn't do so for half a dozen exchanges, and things are getting more sexual, and we've exchanged pictures, and the innuendo is flying, and then she looks at my profile, sees I'm married, and stops responding, deleting emails without reading them. All she would have to say is "Sorry, didn't realize you were taken. Bye." and that would be perfectly understandable and acceptable. I get that I'm married and it's not for most women. It's the very first thing I say in my profile. I could not possibly be more direct about it. It's just a rude thing to do after such a series of email exchanges. And it's not the first time it's happened. Being outnumbered 100 to 1 and thus having a wide field from which to choose is not an excuse to be discourteous. i don't see it as being discourteous, as much as being naively shocked. the issue is with them not being diligent enough to read your profile, and you wasting your time with women who haven't read your profile. i won't continue past a first or second correspondence unless they've done so (done this many times). Brutus, the fault lies not in the stars, but within our own mortal souls (me bastardizing Shakespeare quote) ps edit - worth pointing out, i know that people can view your profile silently, without it showing up. I take your point. Perhaps I was being somewhat naive myself. The voice of experience always sounds harsh initially, but usually proves to be right on the money... And I know that if you have the person's screen name, you can search for their profile without logging in, and it won't show up anywhere.

Karmastic -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 7:15:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lamale The voice of experience always sounds harsh initially, but usually proves to be right on the money... very harsh indeed, esp when you're 48 (i am), and it's a 28 year old hottie that wants you to own her or be her daddy. and we've already exchanged long sincere emails.

tj444 -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 7:33:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lamale I take your point. Perhaps I was being somewhat naive myself. The voice of experience always sounds harsh initially, but usually proves to be right on the money... And I know that if you have the person's screen name, you can search for their profile without logging in, and it won't show up anywhere. how well did you read her profile? was there anything in there that might have indicated that as a single unattached person she wanted to meet only other single unattached people. Even tho i specify quite clearly in mine, i still get some married dimdoms that email me.. And since she was single and hadnt read your profile, why didnt you state your status in your first email to make sure she understood this?.. that would have ended the flirting and all a lot earlier... If you are direct in your profile, why are you not direct in your emails also? You knew there was a good chance your being married would have been a deal breaker or you would not have kept directing her to read your profile, but imo, you should have mentioned that rather important fact about yourself in your first email.. That was all you had to do, but you didnt do something so easy and simple, and then blame her for basically leading you on.. She otoh, might be miffed at you for the same thing and not telling her up front in the first contact email.. which could explain why she didnt send anything to you further, she could have expected you to be single and felt you led her on.. You know, there are dating sites that are specifically for married cheaters, perhaps that is where you would be more successful. I think the single guys here might prefer that too.. lol

Karmastic -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/4/2012 7:47:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 And since she was single and hadnt read your profile, why didnt you state your status in your first email to make sure she understood this?.. that would have ended the flirting and all a lot earlier... If you are direct in your profile, why are you not direct in your emails also? You knew there was a good chance your being married would have been a deal breaker or you would not have kept directing her to read your profile, but imo, you should have mentioned that rather important fact about yourself in your first email.. That was all you had to do, but you didnt do something so easy and simple, and then blame her for basically leading you on.. She otoh, might be miffed at you for the same thing and not telling her up front in the first contact email.. which could explain why she didnt send anything to you further, she could have expected you to be single and felt you led her on.. You know, there are dating sites that are specifically for married cheaters, perhaps that is where you would be more successful. I think the single guys here might prefer that too.. lol why didnt i think of this, good answer [:)] put it in the first email. in fact, integrate that into how you think you being married will fit into what you have to offer her. i presume you have an open marriage, and some women would prefer an LTR without the strings of marriage in this not so unusual arrangement.

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/5/2012 2:39:13 AM)
This thread was really funny. But, my answer is if she wants to play with her pussy as long as she got permission...what is the big deal.

LadyPact -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/5/2012 5:06:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 quote: ORIGINAL: lamale I take your point. Perhaps I was being somewhat naive myself. The voice of experience always sounds harsh initially, but usually proves to be right on the money... And I know that if you have the person's screen name, you can search for their profile without logging in, and it won't show up anywhere. how well did you read her profile? was there anything in there that might have indicated that as a single unattached person she wanted to meet only other single unattached people. Even tho i specify quite clearly in mine, i still get some married dimdoms that email me.. And since she was single and hadnt read your profile, why didnt you state your status in your first email to make sure she understood this?.. that would have ended the flirting and all a lot earlier... If you are direct in your profile, why are you not direct in your emails also? You knew there was a good chance your being married would have been a deal breaker or you would not have kept directing her to read your profile, but imo, you should have mentioned that rather important fact about yourself in your first email.. That was all you had to do, but you didnt do something so easy and simple, and then blame her for basically leading you on.. She otoh, might be miffed at you for the same thing and not telling her up front in the first contact email.. which could explain why she didnt send anything to you further, she could have expected you to be single and felt you led her on.. You know, there are dating sites that are specifically for married cheaters, perhaps that is where you would be more successful. I think the single guys here might prefer that too.. lol Leaving both quotes attached as I wanted to reply to both. I think you are absolutely right, tj. I have to wonder if that is a bit of conditioning that has come from using the internet to meet people? The "it's in My profile, so I don't have to mention it directly" theory. I wonder if it even goes so far as not having to face the negative of the situation because it's referenced in the profile? A rather interesting thought. In reply to lamale, just a word or two here. I know it's not the subject of the thread, but since it's contained within it, I don't think it will be considered off topic. As your own words have said, you've experienced the reaction that those in the married and cheating category receive here. Kinky people aren't all that different than the general population on that one. I think you may have realized that from the emails that you've received. Usually, on the forums, I'm one of the worst of the lot when it comes to the subject. The only reason I'm not tearing you a new asshole is because you did hope that people wouldn't when you came forward to provide so much quality information. I do think you may want to consider tj's suggestion very carefully. It may be in your best interest to try a profile on a married and cheating site, as well as the one you maintain here. I think you'll find more acceptance for your activities from those who are similarly minded. It's not a matter of not being welcome here. It's more that you will find your marital status a complication here, rather than a non issue.

slaveluci -> RE: Have you ever noticed women play with their pussy when being done in the ass? (5/5/2012 5:11:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Longerthanyou I notice in videos that women tend to play with their pussies when being done from behind. I haven't done this yet - so I just ask if it's a common thing for women to play with themselves when being ass fkd. Of course, everyone is different so I only ask in general terms. It is for me. Nothing feels quite as good as having a good, hard clitoral orgasm while something is diddling my rump[8D] Very common in our relationship......luci

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