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ORIGINAL: LadyPuta12

i do only REAL TIME...

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

searching4mysir,

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Being a pro or a fin domme does not violate the TOS of the site... (snip)

Whether it violates the T.O.S. or not, for those looking for friends and/or partners, it is still a problem, and this is a key reason I use Collar Me far less than I used to.

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I would think as a male sub searching for a relationship with a dominant woman, any mention of the following words:  "goddess", "princess", "spoiled", "tribute", "generous" or use of the $ sign would automatically exclude someone from your search parameters.

"Princess" and "goddess" sometimes get by, depending on how the words are used.  You can add "piggie", "pay piggie", "wallet", "it's all about me", and a few other choice, selfish phrases, and Amazon wish list links and Paypal gift links to your list... and, yes, that's a fairly representative instant delete list for male submissives looking for a partner.  Anyone who refers to male submissives as a commodity or in supply/demand terms is also generally an instant delete.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPuta12

i do only REAL TIME...

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
You don't hear so many complains from women having to put up with horny idiots who think we are fetish delivery systems and should be that for free, to show we are "twu and weal" and I bet the noise ration we are getting on a daily basis is a lot more than yours. Hmmm, for some reason I think subs are just a bit winey...

Actually, I think I *do* hear more complaints from women about their having to put up with horny idiots who think they, the women, are fetish delivery systems. Just saying.

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ORIGINAL: TheRyan7

It probaly is. Every Mistress and Dominant Female I meet always require tribute so offering money is pretty common.

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ORIGINAL: MadameM4U

I started on this site almost a week ago and have received some emails I just don't think are "real" but I wanted to share one and get some feedback from all of you since I am new here.

I received this message twice today:

"ill pay you to tie me up pull my pants down and put a cig out on me"

I specifically state on my profile that I am not a professional domme and can't be hired for anything so I figured this was from someone who obviously did not read my profile or if it is from a "real" person they just didn't believe that I am not for hire.

Is this sort of message a common occurrence here?