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BitaTruble -> RE: Pain Processing (5/4/2012 11:37:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre
Does anyone have any tips on how to best process (or even prepare for aside from a warm up) the pain?
You know, at first I was going to give you a few tips but then, my inner sadist came out and I started thinking about it being your Mister's birthday and all and, well, my answer is going to be very different now is because my thinking is.. it's his birthday, not yours. You can get him a pair of jeans from Walmart anytime, but how often to you get the chance to gift someone with Armani? You want to know how you can process the pain to make the session better for him.. well, as a fellow sadist, my answer would be .. don't. Don't make the attempt, don't try. Just feel, react. Give him ever naked, piece and particle of each smack. Give him that hate, the anger, the tears and he'll turn it all into fun and joy.
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It's consentual, I want it, I know it's going to be rough and nasty and I even bought non waterproof mascara LOL
But I'd like to get through it all the way without losing my temper (which I'm known to do when I'm hurting that much) The reason it will be a no safeword thing is because I want the scene to end when HE wants it to, not when I think I've had enough, yes I know he will be pushing past limits and that's ok.
It's okay. Go ahead and lose your temper. I'm laughing here just thinking about it from a sadists point of view.
I hope your Mister reads this.. cuz I actually have a tip for him. While she's all bent over your knee, drop the Sunday comics in front of her and make her read it out loud during the session. That makes it really, really hard to focus on 'anticipation' of the next smack and, end result (no pun intended) is in inability to process pain. It can be really hard to process that level of pain without focus and the colorful Sunday Comic strips from the newspaper are great at diverting. ::wink:: Happy birthday to ya, Mister! Oh, and a p.s. to you: Oak hurts way more than pine. Just sayin'. [:D]
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So, pain ...any suggestions?
Okay, ::cackles:: I edited this part.
Take a nice warm bath before the session as that will help bring your blood to the surface and flush your receptors with nourishment so that you can really feel what's going on when that wood hits you. Wood is such a bitch and hurts as much as damn near anything - weapon of ass destruction extraodinaire and first choice of many of my fellow sadists. If you have long hair, braid it. Give the Mister a handle (think of it like a bow you put on the package.. it's just thoughtful even though not a requirement). Braids are great though and in a session without safewords, breathing in your own hair should be avoided if possible plus it allows easier access to see that beautiful mascara running down your cheeks. Win/win.
So, The Wood (you know, a new oak hairbrush wrapped up in some black paper with a nice red ribbon would be a great way to 'open' the session!) Dwell on that while you are in the tub. Think about how unyeilding it is, how much it's going to hurt and how much pain you're going to be in.. that will help counteract the natural relaxation you will start to feel from being in a warm tub. Get your mind into high gear while you set your body up for a sadist's Disneyland. Oh, and it'll be even better if you are still slightly damp when you begin. Don't hold your breath during the session either (which if he has you reading the comics, you won't be able to do that anyway, so that would be a good thing. Okay, maybe not as good for you, but good for Mister. weg)
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Please keep smart assed remarks to a minimum, this is a serious question and not fucking wank fodder so none of that retarded shit some of you pull.
Lucifyre
I hope you don't take what I wrote as smart-assed because I mean it sincerely. You already have the suggestions to help with your pain in this thread.. focus, deep breathing, meditation.. but, I hope you give at least a little thought to what I've written so, ask yourself this question: "In what way will my processing pain enhance 'his' experience?" If the answer is jeans, then by all means give him jeans but if the answer is Armani, maybe you'll consider giving him that instead.. especially if this is going to be one of the 'once in a lifetime' sort of presents.
In any event, I hope your Mister has a grand time on his birthday. As for you.. enjoy the pain while you have it (and with wood, that could last a few days.. hehehe) and remember it fondly when it's gone.
No need to thank me for this post.. I can just imagine what you are thinking of me right now and.. I've been called worse. lol
[;)]
edited to add: Technically, this post is off topic, so feel free to report it and perhaps the mods will make it poof.. but, I hope you don't because even if you decide to process, there may be a maso or two out there who hadn't considered an alternative to processing and might get something out of my post. .your call though. Have fun and I mean that sincerely, too.. even if your fun comes after the fact with cuddles and chocolate kisses. [:D]
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