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warlock1935 -> RE: Pain Processing (5/7/2012 7:39:01 AM)
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I got a lot of good information out of this too - thanks to you all. As it happens, I was in a conversation via E-mail with a couple of subs about this issue on that other site, ...f....l...e when this thread started.
I'm not a practicing hypnotist, but I can use a simple induction to get girls into subspace, and then build it up from there when I'm looking for deep subspace. Conversely, making them count (either 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 thank you Sir! or 1, thank you Sir, 2, thank you Sir, 3... up to 5, thank you Sir) seems to keep them from getting into more than a light subspace, and I often will whisper in their ear between sets that I want them to let the pain flow through them and experience all of it.
I do this with canes, and it hasn't occurred to me to try it with whips. I do find that in both cases, blindfolding the girl and keeping the strokes random and nonrhythmic makes it harder to bear.
Once a friend loaned his sub to me to spank; I knew she was really new to this, so I got her over my lap and did a simple induction while warming her up with a spankng. I got her into a medium subspace, went on with the spanking for another 20 minutes, then cuffed her hands behind her back that told her to relax, in a minute I wanted her to very slowly and in a relaxed way slide off my lap and kneel up for me.(it worked; but lots of times they'll hurry and come out of subspace. Then with her kneeling, for some reason I just got an idea and told her that she was in a special place, one of many where she would always be welcome and safe, where everyone liked her and wanted to take care of her. That her hands were tied behind her back, she was naked and on her knees, and thus she was completely defenseless and helpless; but what that meant was that everyone was completely focused on her and on taking care of her, and that we all wanted to make her happy.
I've never done anything like that speech before; usually I just get them back into deeper subspace. in this case, I was startled to see a major rush of emotion go through her, and she actually teared up. I didn't know what was going on or what to do, so I just pulled her into my arms and held her until she stopped crying. Then I checked her out; she was still in subspace and clearly feeling peaceful and happy, so I just left it alone and didn't question her. It turned out she had teenager/parent issues going on, and was out of a job and living with three roommates in a converted (converted badly) garage an hour and a half out into the Mojave desert, and I guess she hadn't felt safe and secure and accepted for a long time.
Later that day I tried the same thing on her roommate (they both came to interview for a modeling job) and got the same reaction - that definately put it in my mental classification of Really Cool Stuff That I Don't Understand and Need To Be Careful With until I DO understand it.
I'll put up a couple of pictures on my profile, but I don't know it they'll show anything.
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