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Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 3:54:40 PM   
MadeinEngland


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Status: offline 		Hello All,

I was wondering if naked pics on a profile are advisable for a submissive male. I am not talking about the main picture, but I am wondering whether I should include some naked pictures of myself on my profile.

Is this likely to attract the interest of a Mistress, or is it a bit crass? I sadly can't include a face pic on my profile as I work in education, but I do have some body pictures I have been thinking about including.

I hope this isn't something that is asked a lot. I did attempt searching the forum for previous discussions before posting.

Thank you for reading.

Tim
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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 3:57:02 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Avoid pictures of your genitalia. Otherwise, have fun and show off. I approve of naked men!

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 3:59:13 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Do you have a nice ass? If so, then yes.

Seriously, ass joking aside, I agree with Hibby. Nothing wrong with nekkid mens running around.

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:01:13 PM   
BKSir


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Status: offline 		I have no problem with it myself. I mean, come on, this is the internet, and you're at a fetish site. If you haven't seen a naked guy or girl by now, then there is something seriously wrong with you. Just the way it is. If they don't like the picture, then they shouldn't be clicking on it to begin with.

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:13:25 PM   
MadeinEngland


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the replies.

I do have one picture which does include erect genitalia, it isn't a close up though it includes my full body. From what you have said though, this seems a bit much. I might have to take something a bit more tasteful and artistic :)

TNKDomme, by bum is not bad actually, so I will add one as suggested, mixed in with some other body shots of course.

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:14:23 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		Depending on the type of arrangement/relationship you're looking for and the kind of message you want to send about yourself, pics of your genitals may or may not be appropriate. Nothing wrong with being naked in general though!

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:20:25 PM   
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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:23:30 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Made.

Let's discuss, shall we?

I love me some naked men; to me, an attractive nude male is a work of art.

If you are not attractive enough to be a work of art, then don't post your naked picture (please). If you are, then *do* post them, please, please, please, and yes we love links here (ok, i do).

Females who look for cock shots may not actually *be* female. For the most part, females don't want to see your johnson unless/until they know you.

As the Bard says: "The better part of valor is discretion."




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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:26:27 PM   
MadeinEngland


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Status: offline 		Hi ChatteParfaitt,

Thank you for the lovely welcome. Well there is definately a theme here. Naked yes, but avoid the 'cock shots'


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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:29:33 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		Tasteful nudity is okay, but for the love of Bob, don't just post random pictures of your bare bum or chest. Be creative! Lighting and composition are everything.

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 4:54:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		a nude picture will not impress a woman, a well written profile will...

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:09:59 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm going to go against the tide and say that naked pics on the profile are more likely to do your chances more harm than good.  To be very realistic about it, I don't know how many thousands of posts that I've read here over the years about the classics.....

The naked body with the head taken off.

A pic of nothing else but a person's butt.

Any genitalia other than a cbt or other type of play shot.

Hmmmm....

I'm trying to remember who it was that said on more than a few threads that they have no desire to see a man naked before they have even said hello.




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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:13:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		As long as it's kind of an artistic full body shot type thing, I'm all for it. I love the black and white shots. I personally get kinda turned off by a big ole close up of mister happy right in ma face when I log on though...lol



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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:17:23 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:18:25 PM   
MadeinEngland


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Status: offline 		How did you know I call him Mr Happy?


(just kidding)

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:19:43 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		Good point LP...like someone said above, it depends on what kind of relations he looking for as well. Personally, I don't want everyone viewing what's mine before I do. If I share his body it should be my idea.

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:20:45 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		LOL....I was married....LOL

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:21:48 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Please, if you must take your picture in the bathroom mirror, look at what shows in the picture.  The toilet, toilet paper, a pile of dirty clothes, general clutter, and a dirty mirror are not fashionably kinky. 

If you are afraid to ask a friend to take pictures of you, why not make a picture taking day with them?  They won't need to know that you are taking pictures to post online.  By this I mean you bring your camera and take pictures of them or parts of them and they do the same to you.  Have fun.  Be creative.  Try to make works of art from strange angles.  At the end of the day you can all laugh about them, but you might have some really neat pictures to post. 

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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:22:25 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Oh, I so know what you mean.

I can see the man (much as I love him) setting up a nude shot. Time taken: 1 second to prime the camera.

There he would be in all his naked glory, no lighting, focus, perspective, or other artistic considerations in mind.

OK, now fast forward to me helping him with his nude shot. Time taken: 3 hours, 47 minutes. Every single aspect of the shot would be explored and played with, until we got *the* perfect shot of his hunky bod.

There's a point here.



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RE: Are naked profile pics a good idea? - 5/4/2012 5:22:35 PM   
MadeinEngland


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Status: offline 		To be honest I am a bit of an exhibitionist, but really the idea was to get myself noticed, but in a good way.

To stand out from the crowd, but not take anyone's eye out.

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