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CougarRick -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 1:54:51 PM)
LOL, I guess that should have been obvious to me. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I don't know anyone that wouldn't want you to have a life... and one of those JOB things. Men with jobs are good.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 1:56:24 PM)
Really this life should be MUCH more glamourous. I think that's why we like to get together and play dress-up-then-strip-off now and again. But remember: NO STARING. It's icky.

CougarRick -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 2:08:56 PM)
Can I assume that if I find a lady attractive, I can take a moment to look at her tactfully so long as I don't gawk? quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Really this life should be MUCH more glamourous. I think that's why we like to get together and play dress-up-then-strip-off now and again. But remember: NO STARING. It's icky.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 2:09:40 PM)
That you know the difference tells me that you will be just fine. [;)]

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 2:32:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick Can I assume that if I find a lady attractive, I can take a moment to look at her tactfully so long as I don't gawk? You know what's normal in the kind of bar where women are comfortable hanging out? Go with that. No more, no less. Simples! :-)

CougarRick -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/16/2012 2:59:16 PM)
Thanks. I'll be on my best behaviour[:D] quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus That you know the difference tells me that you will be just fine. [;)]

Seraphinna -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/19/2012 6:52:26 AM)
Punish. Submissive animals know what happens when they stare at their leader

LadyPact -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/19/2012 8:34:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Seraphinna Punish. Submissive animals know what happens when they stare at their leader It's only 07:30 in My time zone and this will probably hit the high mark for the most idiotic thing I'll read all day.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/24/2012 12:20:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Seraphinna Punish. Submissive animals know what happens when they stare at their leader It's only 07:30 in My time zone and this will probably hit the high mark for the most idiotic thing I'll read all day. Yes, but staring at too much BDSM porn without any RL experience tends to give people funny ideas....

LadyConstanze -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/24/2012 12:31:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus If they blow you off or are rude--and let me warn you in advance that some folks think black leather clothing makes them important--then you know not to waste any more time with that person. Thanks for the heads up. I might have been discouraged if the first dom I tried to speak to blew up at me or made me feel like I had crossed some very serious line. Knowing what you have said, I will take it in stride and not roll over for anyone (unless of course she is my dom) Just DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT! Hey, I went to a BDSM workshop on impact tools, couldn't do much due to a pinched nerve in my back, just lifting my arm hurt like hell (and I'm not the one who should suffer) but the teachers twigged pretty fast that I wasn't new to it, my mistake for introducing myself just with my first name and no "scene name", so once we got that sorted they asked me to help out with posture and simple finger movements, love doing that stuff so I was quite happy... After a while I had to sit down and relax my back, one girl asked me if they scared me, I went "Why? Am I meant to be scared?" and she said "Vanillas often are" - round of hooting laughter, somebody clued her in, she was busy going "I'm so sorry Mistress, I am really sorry..." told her not to worry about as I found it very funny (and all my friends got such a big kick out of it), as a result we ended all up laughing a lot. Imagine if I would have been all uptight and "How dare you..." and all that shit? BDSM is meant to add to your life, give it some spice, not to take away from it or take over your life - a dominant who can't laugh or take a joke - it's a person you really don't want to deal with. After all this is meant to be enjoyable - even if it might hurt sometimes

CougarRick -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/25/2012 2:33:24 PM)
Cool thanks. I don't know why, but I just know I'm going to embarrass myself somehow and end up having a blush moment, so I may as well just resign myself to it. Cheers quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus If they blow you off or are rude--and let me warn you in advance that some folks think black leather clothing makes them important--then you know not to waste any more time with that person. Thanks for the heads up. I might have been discouraged if the first dom I tried to speak to blew up at me or made me feel like I had crossed some very serious line. Knowing what you have said, I will take it in stride and not roll over for anyone (unless of course she is my dom) Just DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT! Hey, I went to a BDSM workshop on impact tools, couldn't do much due to a pinched nerve in my back, just lifting my arm hurt like hell (and I'm not the one who should suffer) but the teachers twigged pretty fast that I wasn't new to it, my mistake for introducing myself just with my first name and no "scene name", so once we got that sorted they asked me to help out with posture and simple finger movements, love doing that stuff so I was quite happy... After a while I had to sit down and relax my back, one girl asked me if they scared me, I went "Why? Am I meant to be scared?" and she said "Vanillas often are" - round of hooting laughter, somebody clued her in, she was busy going "I'm so sorry Mistress, I am really sorry..." told her not to worry about as I found it very funny (and all my friends got such a big kick out of it), as a result we ended all up laughing a lot. Imagine if I would have been all uptight and "How dare you..." and all that shit? BDSM is meant to add to your life, give it some spice, not to take away from it or take over your life - a dominant who can't laugh or take a joke - it's a person you really don't want to deal with. After all this is meant to be enjoyable - even if it might hurt sometimes

OralCuckGurl -> RE: Subs that won't stop staring (5/31/2012 3:43:36 PM)
I am too busy staring to answer this...

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