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Greta75 -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/15/2012 8:44:36 AM)
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I'm oriental Asian who have a preference for Caucasian men.
Ironically, first of all, it's because, as I've been described as overweight for an Asian woman, as you know most Asian women are super petite, small boned and just tiny but normal for a Caucasian woman who are generally bigger boned as well.
My wrist is often either bigger or equal to the local asian men here. And that seriously sucks big time. Physically, I cannot feel attracted to a man who has equal wrist size as me. Although I was previously married to an Asian man, but he was special, he was 6 foot tall and 100kg, and had big bones. Notice I LOVE big men. And as most Asian women are tiny, so are their men who are mostly anorexic looking to me.
Even skinny Caucasian men generally have bigger wrists and forearms than me. Their bone structure just seem naturally bigger.
I also do not like my culture of how they treat children and approve of the western way of raising them, which in my opinion is : The only good reason to have a child is because you want to love them unconditionally.
I am referring to treating children as insurance policies as a typical culture where I come from, it's even law, parents can get children jailed for not paying them back financially for bringing them up. So when I think of a father I want for my future kid, I don't want an Asian mentality husband.
I figured, those are good enough reasons to generally prefer Caucasian.
I also read with interest about someone commenting about how Asian women do not refuse sex even if they are not in the mood. I am guilty of that. Infact, I dunno how was this inbuilt in me through upbringing, but if my man wants sex, and I am not in the mood, I definitely automatically feel I am less of a woman if I do not give him sex when he needs it. That's probably not a good thing. At the same time, I guess it's also more like not taking it for granted, as in, if your man regularly wants sex with you, that's a positive thing. One should be more worried if he stops wanting to have sex with you.
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