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purplebunny -> many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:47:06 PM)

many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why




LaTigresse -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:49:18 PM)

Nice advert!

The historical media has beat it into their little pea brains that somehow, Asian women are more submissive and accomodating. Add that to the exotic (different) appeal and voila'!




RacerJim -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:49:24 PM)

Variety is the spice of life. :-)




purplebunny -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:52:44 PM)

well
thank you




littlecherie -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:52:53 PM)

Cause they do? Easy answer there lol




girl91 -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:54:01 PM)

Stereotypes will lead many to believe different things.

Asian women are more submissive, black women are wilder in bed. I have also heard white women are more submissive, or willing to do more for there men.

Doesn't mean it's true, each women is different, and have different personalities, no matter what their culture is.




LaTigresse -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:55:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: purplebunny

well
thank you


You are most welcome.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 12:57:45 PM)

There are several big groups on Fetlife discussing things Asian. Our own RedMagic appreciates the Asian ladies very much.

I think it's a preference like any other.




Pyramus -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:24:00 PM)

I'm in the Silicon Valley. There are very many Asians here. I've dated quite a few.
While everyone is different, and others will beg to differ, in my experience (only), I've found them to be the following:
- Shorter than I am (as compared to many non Asians I've dated)
- Thinner than I am (as compared to some non Asians I've dated)
- Younger looking than I am (age-for-age anyway) in almost all cases in my experience
- Less hairy than I am (by a lot - one of whom had never shaved in her life and she had pristine legs!)
- Complained less (for the most part) than non Asians I've been with
And now ... on to the good stuff ...
- Much more understanding of a man's carnal needs (than many, but not all, non Asians)
- Much worse in bed, per se, than many (but not all) non Asians I've been with
- Much more vocal in bed, than some (but not all) non Asians I've been with
- Maybe a shorter vagina (I bottomed out on two of them) than most others I've been with (but my sample size is insufficient, no pun intended)

That's about all I can tell you. To give more detail on the good stuff, the Asians I've dated just seemed to get it that a man needs sex and lots and lots of it. At least Italian men do. Dunno about anyone else. Just know me. And I think about sex a few hundred times a day if I'm not getting it (which is why I think about it so much lately); but the Asians I've been with are perfectly fine with doing it each night or at least once every couple of days. In contrast, only some (not all) of the non Asians I've been with have been similarly understanding. The non Asians I've known (not that many to be clear) in general want it when 'they' want it and not when I want it (which is basically all the time).

In contrast, the Asians I've known, to a woman (every single one) have been extremely passive in the boudoir. I mean like a limp rag doll passive. Hands thrown over their head, legs spread, and that's about as much movement as you get. If it wasn't for the pained sounds they make, you'd wonder what they were taught in sex ed back in school. They have no concept, in my humble opinion, of being an active partner. In contrast, almost all (but not all) the Caucasian women I've dated have been active participants. Look where the women put their hands, for example. In my experience, almost all the Caucasian women put their hands on me, some on the more sensitive parts of me, without any prompting from me. The Asians I've known mostly just put their hands above their head. It's OK. It's just different.

Regarding the sounds, most women I've been with make noise, just as I grunt at orgasm ... but the Asian women I've been with make a screaming sound that isn't pain per se, but it sure SOUNDS like they're in horrific pain. It's timed with the pushes so it seems like that they're in agony - but they're just screamers. The difference with the Caucasian women I've dated is astounding. They scream too ... but it's wholly different. It's more like a pleasure scream than a painful scream. The consistency of the screaming among the Asian women I've dated is uncanny. Part of it 'might' be they 'may' have smaller vaginas - which I gather only from two datapoints - but I'm sure someone will chime in saying they don't so I won't go on that limb since it was only two out Asians where I hit a round bump (no, it wasn't a diaphragm).

Anyway ... I realize there will be plenty who say everyone is the same and all cultures are alike and the variability is the same between the cultures and that Asian women are as large or small or as vocal or quiet or as horny or as submissive as anyone else ... and, well, I will just say this.

I haven't done any studies nor will I ... but in my humble experience out here in the Silicon Valley, the Asians I've dated, in general, are far preferable to the Caucasian women I've dated. But that's just me.

Next ...




hlen5 -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:28:10 PM)

So are you saying (with your limited sample) that you get more sex but it's not as good?




LadyConstanze -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:29:55 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: purplebunny

many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why



I assume because a lot of them are very pretty and have an exotic look about them. Haven't met a straight guy yet who's immune to female beauty...




mnottertail -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:31:29 PM)

ONe of the best things I like is they have been trained extensively to concentrate on the task at hand intensively.

That is fuckin useful and a half.




purplebunny -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:33:10 PM)

quote:

boudoir


not such means




DarkSteven -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:36:00 PM)

By "boudoir", he meant bedroom.




Lockit -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:37:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

I'm in the Silicon Valley. There are very many Asians here. I've dated quite a few.
While everyone is different, and others will beg to differ, in my experience (only), I've found them to be the following:
- Shorter than I am (as compared to many non Asians I've dated)
- Thinner than I am (as compared to some non Asians I've dated)
- Younger looking than I am (age-for-age anyway) in almost all cases in my experience
- Less hairy than I am (by a lot - one of whom had never shaved in her life and she had pristine legs!)
- Complained less (for the most part) than non Asians I've been with
And now ... on to the good stuff ...
- Much more understanding of a man's carnal needs (than many, but not all, non Asians)
- Much worse in bed, per se, than many (but not all) non Asians I've been with
- Much more vocal in bed, than some (but not all) non Asians I've been with
- Maybe a shorter vagina (I bottomed out on two of them) than most others I've been with (but my sample size is insufficient, no pun intended)

That's about all I can tell you. To give more detail on the good stuff, the Asians I've dated just seemed to get it that a man needs sex and lots and lots of it. At least Italian men do. Dunno about anyone else. Just know me. And I think about sex a few hundred times a day if I'm not getting it (which is why I think about it so much lately); but the Asians I've been with are perfectly fine with doing it each night or at least once every couple of days. In contrast, only some (not all) of the non Asians I've been with have been similarly understanding. The non Asians I've known (not that many to be clear) in general want it when 'they' want it and not when I want it (which is basically all the time).

In contrast, the Asians I've known, to a woman (every single one) have been extremely passive in the boudoir. I mean like a limp rag doll passive. Hands thrown over their head, legs spread, and that's about as much movement as you get. If it wasn't for the pained sounds they make, you'd wonder what they were taught in sex ed back in school. They have no concept, in my humble opinion, of being an active partner. In contrast, almost all (but not all) the Caucasian women I've dated have been active participants. Look where the women put their hands, for example. In my experience, almost all the Caucasian women put their hands on me, some on the more sensitive parts of me, without any prompting from me. The Asians I've known mostly just put their hands above their head. It's OK. It's just different.

Regarding the sounds, most women I've been with make noise, just as I grunt at orgasm ... but the Asian women I've been with make a screaming sound that isn't pain per se, but it sure SOUNDS like they're in horrific pain. It's timed with the pushes so it seems like that they're in agony - but they're just screamers. The difference with the Caucasian women I've dated is astounding. They scream too ... but it's wholly different. It's more like a pleasure scream than a painful scream. The consistency of the screaming among the Asian women I've dated is uncanny. Part of it 'might' be they 'may' have smaller vaginas - which I gather only from two datapoints - but I'm sure someone will chime in saying they don't so I won't go on that limb since it was only two out Asians where I hit a round bump (no, it wasn't a diaphragm).

Anyway ... I realize there will be plenty who say everyone is the same and all cultures are alike and the variability is the same between the cultures and that Asian women are as large or small or as vocal or quiet or as horny or as submissive as anyone else ... and, well, I will just say this.

I haven't done any studies nor will I ... but in my humble experience out here in the Silicon Valley, the Asians I've dated, in general, are far preferable to the Caucasian women I've dated. But that's just me.

Next ...


ROFLMAO!




Pyramus -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:53:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hlen5
So are you saying (with your limited sample) that you get more sex but it's not as good?


I hadn't thought of it 'that' way - but ... um ... er ... yes ... from a vanilla standpoint.

I'd say that the frequency of sex is muuuuch more consistent - and way more in 'my' control - which is what matters (a lot) to me - so it's clearly noticeable ... and I like being the Top - so the odd hands-in-the-air submissiveness of the women I've known is just fine.

It's weird that the two things that are highly consistent in the married Asian women I've known are the odd hands just held above their head attitude which was unknown to me until I moved to the Silicon Valley ... and ... the odd screaming timed to the thrusts.

While I can perhaps strive to describe the overt passiveness of the Asians I've known lying down - that strange odd call-the-police screaming is so hard to describe that I can only say that you notice it right away and you wonder if you're actually killing them - but then you see that you're not so you just ignore it and keep thrusting - thinking they are a bit crazy but it's not a show stopper for me. It's 'almost' as if they want you to think they're in abject pain.

These strangely consistent oddities I've felt are not any more sensual or less sensual. It's just eerily similar among the Asians I've dated.

BTW, we should define the few Asians I'm talking about (without, of course, identifying them), since all of them were (so far anyway), born in their respective countries.

Bearing in mind, I often advertise on Craigslist for married Asian women, the married Japanese I've dated, on the one hand were the hardest of all to get into bed, but the married Koreans were almost as hard, in different ways. Interestingly, of the two Koreans, one had the highest 'turgor' pressure I've ever felt in a woman's thighs & derrière (amazingly taut!), while the other treated me like her Dad or her teacher (which was kind of neat), saying her husband was so childish that she wanted to learn from maturity. Same thing with the Vietnamese gal. I don't think I'm any more mature than anyone else (probably even less so), but, apparently I have (some) Korean/Vietnamese men beat by a mile. The Indonesian woman, who by far was the most gorgeous (she was, in actuality, a mix), was the one who had the smoothest legs I've ever felt in my life, and who confessed to never having used a shaver on them in her life.

There were many Chinese, and a couple of mixed ladies, all of whom filled out the questionnaire so to speak from which I base my data. I have never dated a Filipino, and only one Vietnamese woman (who, surprisingly, was the second-most open of them all). The most fun was a young Japanese gal who a hostess set me up with (yes, she turned out to be one of them but I didn't know it at the time - and - she was the only Japanese gal to go back with me to my fancy hotel in all of Japan no matter how hard I tried) who used her hands over and over on my member counting the number of fists she could make. I don't know if she does that with all the guys, but it sure did make me feel like Superman (which was fine by me! All men can easily be deluded by a woman - just ask Samson). BTW, guys, in all of Shin-Yokohama, I couldn't find a single Magnum or XL there (I am not joking - but I realize this may sound like one ... I'm just telling my story) so there may be some truth to the urban legend of the size of the Japanese penus (however, the vaginas are not pixelated, I can assure you of that!).

One other thing: The stereotype of the smaller less sensitive breasts may or may not be true - but the Korean woman I dated for six months last year had the finest set on her that I have ever seen, felt, or suckled on, in all of humanity. Go figure. You can just never tell. Everyone is different - even when they're the same! But almost all of them (except the Indonesian, which I suspect had some German in her), were petite, which is how I like 'em.

Disclaimer: I have limited experience. This is just my opinion based on a small sample, mostly in the Silicon Valley. Your experiences WILL be different! This is not a joke. It's sincere. But I do understand many will dismiss what I say due to the small sample size. Trust me, I wish it were larger.




JanahX -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 1:57:35 PM)

quote:

ROFLMAO!


NO SHIT - wow !!!

My ex-asian roommate ate food she left out on the stove for 2 weeks. I also think I caught her eating out of the garbage can a few times too.




kalikshama -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 2:01:06 PM)

quote:

I haven't done any studies nor will I ... but in my humble experience out here in the Silicon Valley, the Asians I've dated, in general, are far preferable to the Caucasian women I've dated. But that's just me.


Why were none of them keepers?











LadyHibiscus -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 2:01:51 PM)

He said he looks for married gals, Kalik.




Pyramus -> RE: many of you western men like asian girls,I want to know why (5/7/2012 2:03:26 PM)

Thanks. I should (and have) correct(ed) the record that I'm married - so anyone I date should be similarly married for me to even consider dating them - and for them to even begin to understand our mutual needs, desires, and predicaments. My wife knows all about my predilections (she's as vanilla as apple pie and we haven't slept together in many years so we're safe & open about it to each other - but not to the kids or family).

So I must say I base my assessment on a very small select sample set. Most (all?) of whom are somehow dissatisfied with their current husband for one reason or another (seems like I often hear 'he's childish' - but then I think I'm immature ... so these Asian guys must be, by extrapolation, way off the curve on immaturity! :)

These are women I meet, mostly through advertisements, so they must be looking for something in order for me to meet them - so that in and of itself is a self-selecting sample set. Most, I suspect, key in on the keywords "petite", "Asian', and 'submissive" as they usually are in my ad in addition to "married".

I should also say I have only been to a few Asian cities, almost all on business, e.g., Shin-Yokohama, Tokyo, Beijing, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Singapore, Georgetown, Seoul, Hsinchu, Taguig City, etc. I have not (yet) been to Indonesia, Thailand, Myanmar, Laos, Vietnam, Polynesia, etc. but I love and enjoy all cultures.





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