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submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 8:33:23 AM)
My experience is the opposite well have to agree to disagree on that one

OsideGirl -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 8:47:50 AM)
What is your experience level?

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 8:50:10 AM)
It's not important, it's just what I witnessed and read

OsideGirl -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 8:59:23 AM)
It's absolutely important. Because the internet is not real life. The actual number of women that I have met FACE TO FACE within WIITWD that exhibit misandry is smaller percentage. How many real life Dommes have you met? How many non-pro Fem Dommes have you interacted with? How many real life Fem Domme / male sub relationships have you witnessed?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:01:30 AM)
I know a lot of female dominants. The majority of them love men. Why else associate with them?

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:02:05 AM)
It's not important to me. Misandry is widespread throughout society so much that barely anyone notices or even complains, I just had a scan through female and male 'dominant' profiles just then and there's a lot more man bashing than female bashing.

OsideGirl -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:07:04 AM)
Again.....the internet is not real life.

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:07:56 AM)
I never said it was?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:08:45 AM)
He doesnt care, OsideGirl. He hates bdsm, hates his interest in it, and has to come back to bash us periodically.

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:09:50 AM)
I'm just saying how I feel. If your not willing to respect that, there's not a lot I can do about that.

OsideGirl -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:36:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submaleuk12 I'm just saying how I feel. If your not willing to respect that, there's not a lot I can do about that. You weren't stating how you feel. You were stating a fact based on flawed data. You have nothing to base your fact on, other than internet profiles. You have no real life experience, but yet think you can expound on it.

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 9:38:00 AM)
My real life expereince is personal to me what this data your talking about?

littlewonder -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 10:03:53 AM)
If you don't like yourself and bdsm, why do you continue to do it? Maybe you should seek a therapist if you feel it's bad for you? Not all of us have problems with our sexuality. I'd say most of us feel extremely comfortable with it, unlike you.

submaleuk12 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 10:05:24 AM)
I was talking about misandry not bdsm

JeffBC -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/15/2012 11:19:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submaleuk12 I was talking about misandry not bdsm shrugs I get what you're saying and I agree.

tazzygirl -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/22/2012 2:23:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submaleuk12 I'd say there's just as much misandy if not more than misogyny in bdsm circles, has anyone else noticed? quote: Misandry is widespread throughout society so much that barely anyone notices or even complains, I just had a scan through female and male 'dominant' profiles just then and there's a lot more man bashing than female bashing. Basing your comment, which you presented as fact, upon profiles geared towards the kink of others is hardly misogyny or misandry. This site is about fetishes.. and both sexes have fetishes of being humiliated, degraded, abused.... and yet most dominants who write out such profiles actually enjoy the opposite sex beyond just the kink. If a grown woman is looking for a "Daddy Dom" and she finds one, is he a pedophile? This is very much the same thing. Kink doesnt make the person. Humiliation and debasement can co-exist with love and respect. Dont assume everything you read on a profile is the be all end all of that person.

Politesub53 -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/22/2012 4:25:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submaleuk12 I'm just saying how I feel. If your not willing to respect that, there's not a lot I can do about that. Kev, is that you ?

mnottertail -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/22/2012 4:26:52 PM)
So, wont EFT or whatever take care of your mental issues with misandry?

johnukguy -> RE: misogyny in BDSM (5/23/2012 7:58:57 AM)
"Anyone who believes that a misogynist attitude is not ingrained in us the same way a white skin bias in ingrained in us is simply not facing the truth." Utter bullshit. I am neither misogynistic nor racist.

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