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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 11:51:23 AM   
SirLangsdorff


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I am getting hacked off with the number of fakes on here....

Is it possible to make a 'name and shame' list?

With various list or tariff of how they are fake? blatant pic copying thru to refusing to phone or cam?


Having such a list would probably land alot of people on there, not just the "fakes", maybe even you

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 11:57:23 AM   
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If we could op, I'd vote to start with you. All you want is someone to get naked for you over a cam, that doesn't fit my definition of a real dom.

Your profile is empty. That doesn't fit my definition of a real dom.

See the problem?

Even if you met someone, if you folks didn't hit it off, then you could list her as fake and she could list you. While both of you simple weren't compatible.
As far as a visa card with $20 on it, who says a scammer wouldn't gladly invest that in hopes of earning more.

The site tells you not to send money to others. Beyond that, nobody owes you the time of day.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 12:17:37 PM   
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Let's work this little scenario of yours out together, shall we?

You log in with an incredible urge to wack off, so you browse through some profiles. Some of
the images are so incredibly hot, that you feel on the verge of exploding. Thankfully, you muster
what little control you have over your erection to keep searching for that special one...that REAL one,
the one who can accept you for all you have to offer. Then, alas, you find her. Miss Simply Too Good
To Be True is staring right back at your erection, just begging to get you off.

You think to yourself "This can't be real, can it?", so your cross you fingers with one hand, and using
that one ounce of control you have left, you take your eyes away from the screen for just a minute to
go and see if she shows up on The Fake List.

How's your erection now?

< Message edited by poise -- 5/8/2012 12:18:22 PM >


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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 12:27:26 PM   
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OP, out of curiosity, how many people on the site can verify your existence?  Who was the last person that you met from the site over coffee or did you go to the last munch in your area?  If you haven't, who is to say you're not fake?

To the poster who volunteered to pay each month, I really appreciate your attempt to make a suggestion, but in all honesty, I'm not interested in paying for a free site.  Since there are comparable alternatives, don't you think some people would give up their membership here and go where they didn't have to pay the fee?  The last thing the site wants to do is chase off it's female members.


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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 12:58:10 PM   
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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 1:00:20 PM   
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I can understand your frustration OP, but this is a free site (with rules) and as such be prepared to get what comes with it. Just move on..or enjoy a waaaburger and some french cries, maybe a whine-akin (heineken) lol. Good luck

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 2:06:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stevendomuk

I am getting hacked off with the number of fakes on here....

Is it possible to make a 'name and shame' list?

With various list or tariff of how they are fake? blatant pic copying thru to refusing to phone or cam?


What would this get you OP? Would it magically make the woman who will phone or cam for you come into existence if all the ones you considered fake were gone? So you came here with the idea that you were going to get something you wanted and you didn't, kind of hard for a bunch of people who don't know you to get all worked up about that.

Oh...and btw, with your sparse, rather nonexistent profile with nothing in it but the fact that you are seeking another, I wouldn't phone or cam you either.

< Message edited by Killerangel -- 5/8/2012 2:08:35 PM >

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 2:31:53 PM   
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Hey Steve... that blacklisting isn't allowed anywhere on site. Geezzz... you even had a Mod kind enough to give you a link as to why you can't do that and you do it anyway.



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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 2:39:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stevendomuk

I am getting hacked off with the number of fakes on here....

Is it possible to make a 'name and shame' list?

With various list or tariff of how they are fake? blatant pic copying thru to refusing to phone or cam?



If you'd ask me to phone or cam, I would tell you to eff off, why on earth would I want to do that? So you can get your jollies on (or off)? I guess I must be fake... Still don't feel ashamed.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 2:46:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stevendomuk

I am getting hacked off with the number of fakes on here....



Not to go off topic or anything and I'm sure it is just UK slang, but does getting "hacked off" hurt?

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 2:53:46 PM   
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For every solution I have heard, I've also seen a ramification for that solution. Much of what we do is unacceptable in some manner, in life, with people that might know us, etc. There are a number of people that would not associate their real name to anything of this nature even if they were promised some sort of identity protection. If your name is associated to an account... anywhere, that information could be gotten even if it were only in a legal case and that could consist of a divorce or child custody case, in proving someone unfit or at fault. Few would risk this. Even I wouldn't do it and I am not hiding anything from anyone. My privacy is my concern and I am concerned about certain aspects of it. That should be within my power to control.

Besides... for those actually making money by being here, they could afford a nominal fee repeatedly.


I sorta considered this, (I would use a green dot card). The nominal fee forces you to:
1) get a visa or similar.
2) pay the carrying costs of that visa.
3) Load it with the minimum $20 I think.
4) The card could verify the country and sometimes the city.

I do agree with your walk carefully analogy. We usually require proof of life type pics from those who also value their privacy . (a pic of a newspaper from the city they claim to be from, the collar me name written on it and either eyes peeking over the top or similar.)

Not fool proof but.... as to the OP, the mods post of why there is no list is quite convincing. Lots of smart folks on here so my 'brilliant' idea has most likely been examined and found impossible to work in the real world. Reality does have a way of doing that to some of my 'brilliant' ideas.
We have been lucky and meet some wonderful submissives on the site. Some we have visited when we traveled and we actually have started a ltr with one. (something we swore we would never do.. but you don't pass up on the unicorn because it lives in a far away forest).



What would I do then? Since joining CM I have lived in about 6 different cities on 2 continents...

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 3:38:12 PM   
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I have a suggestion. You know what would be quicker? If you and all the sad little lonely men like you got together and made a list of the women gullible enough to actually *get* on cam.

I'm guessing it would be a much shorter list.

Much more efficient use of resources, innit.

You're welcome.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 3:47:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stevendomuk
Is it possible to make a 'name and shame' list?

Of course we can. Offer me a fair price and I will make sure that your name is (or is not, whatever you desire) on that list.

I take bids, so is there anyone with a higher counter offer?

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 5:44:23 PM   
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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 5:50:42 PM   
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quote:

refusing to phone or cam?


I put out but I don't cam.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 6:11:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DDcouple

I wouldn't mind paying a nominal fee.. ie $2.00 a month on a credit card auto pay or similar. I would think it would make it less likely for those bulk name folks.

Not that someone couldn't get a green dot or similar card. A credit card shows we are at least verified in xyz city. Of course I am most likely missing the amount of coding it would take or something similar.


A database of an online shop here in Belgium was once hacked. My creditcard data was in the database of that onlineshop. Happily the internetcops arrived in time so no money was taken from my account. I had to take a new creditcard, but since onlinebanking is on the rise in Europe like Ideal and Banksofort I never use my creditcard on internet again.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 6:59:04 PM   
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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 7:15:42 PM   
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Let's work this little scenario of yours out together, shall we?

You log in with an incredible urge to wack off, so you browse through some profiles. Some of
the images are so incredibly hot, that you feel on the verge of exploding. Thankfully, you muster
what little control you have over your erection to keep searching for that special one...that REAL one,
the one who can accept you for all you have to offer. Then, alas, you find her. Miss Simply Too Good
To Be True is staring right back at your erection, just begging to get you off.

You think to yourself "This can't be real, can it?", so your cross you fingers with one hand, and using
that one ounce of control you have left, you take your eyes away from the screen for just a minute to
go and see if she shows up on The Fake List.

How's your erection now?


You don't have to tell EVERYONE what we do, now. Geez.

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 7:45:39 PM   
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You don't have to tell EVERYONE what we do, now. Geez.


Please pardon my lack of discretion, but surely you must know that it was done for the betterment of erections everywhere!
How has yours been lately?

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RE: Can we make a name and shame list of fakes on here? - 5/8/2012 7:46:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: poise
Please pardon my lack of discretion, but surely you must know that it was done for the betterment of erections everywhere!
How has yours been lately?


Hangin' but not bangin'.


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