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want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/12/2012 9:35:39 AM

ImUrMistress

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Being a mistress has filled a place in my life I didn't know was empty until I found my first real sub. However I find myself wishing and dreaming of all these things to do but find somehow I lack the experience to plan something bigger than a small session. I was wondering if any other mistresses on here ever allowed a fellow mistress to learn from them, maybe see them in action.

I have so much to learn and yet so much to give. I want to hone my skills to truly take my subs to the next level. I have the desire but not the path of knowledge to attain it.

Note: I am not looking for a pro who wants cash to train me on the finer parts of dominating. I want someone who does it for the love of it and wishes to pass on knowledge to others.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/12/2012 9:51:37 AM

Alecta

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Look up BDSM social events in your area and go out and meet people :)

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/12/2012 10:28:54 AM

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yep.. try your local community..then you'll have a wide variety of people to learn from..

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/12/2012 2:17:13 PM

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Yep. The gal I'm teaching now is a member of the munch group that I attend.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/12/2012 4:20:36 PM

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quote:

I was wondering if any other mistresses on here ever allowed a fellow mistress to learn from them, maybe see them in action.

Looks like lots of kinksters in Syracuse and at least two groups have regular events: https://fetlife.com/search?q=Syracuse

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 1:34:25 PM

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Need training and help to dish train my slave.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 3:18:31 PM

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Same advice. You and your slave should get out to the local community.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 3:26:42 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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Dish train? What the who?

WTF is that?

Please don't tell me it's to train her to do dishes. Please. I'm not as young as I used to be. I'm the sensitive type. Please.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 3:41:09 PM

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Dish training? Well, I need something like that on my dishwasher. The fucking thing gone on the blink

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 3:48:24 PM

seekingOwnertoo

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Pay a Pro ...

Pick a good one, She will teach you

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 6:18:55 PM

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You're in luck. There is lots of BDSM in Upstate NY. The highest concentration is in Rochester. The Rochester Kink Society has lots of events, play parties, and classes. As you know, Rochester is an easy drive from Syracuse. Just drive right up I-90.

If you prefer to stay in Syracuse, the Syracuse D/s Society is probably the best option for you. They have a group on Fetlife, so you may want to go there to check out their calendar of events. There is also a group on Fetlife called Syracuse BDSM Mentors. It is for people just like you. You can be mentored by a seasoned BDSM veteran.

Lastly, the Buffalo Kink Society also has a full schedule of events. So you might want to check them out as well.

All 3 groups can be found on Fetlife.

Also, there is a group in Albany, and one in Ithaca. And if you feel up to it, you can even drive to Toronto for BDSM events. I've attended quite a few events up there.

Bottom line: So you should never lack for BDSM opportunities or people to mentor you if you are willing to get out and attend a munch or two.

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RE: want to shadow a seasoned Mistress...?? - 5/18/2012 7:51:28 PM

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Pay a Pro ...

Pick a good one, She will teach you

I don't think so, wouldn't really work, would you train somebody in a job who wants to take your clients?

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